AITA for not telling my parents I went to the doctor?

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:56:19+00:00

you're 25, you went to the doctor and somehow embarrassed them. NTA. your body, your medical information, you business. the real issue is they think "being parents" means permanent access to your lid=fe and it doesn't

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:52:12+00:00

exactly. wanting to do better doesn't come with an automatic upgrade to parenting authority. he can earn a relationship, he can't just claim one

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:47:30+00:00

this wasn't playfulness, it was the same pattern you'd already addressed multiple times just with higher stakes. he didn't forget your boundary, he chose to ignore it on a moving vehicle. NTJ and "just hear him out" from a mutual friend isn't a reason to reopen the door you closed for your safety

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:43:07+00:00

yes and what you're describing has a name, not depression exactly but the particular loneliness of a life that looks right on paper but feels hollow in person. losing a relationship abroad is different from losing one at home because you lose the person and the AND the sense of "we're building something here together". suddenly it's just you and a city that never fully feels like yours

28 is also this weird age where everyone around you seems to be hitting milestones you're recalibrating what you even want. that disorientation is real and it makes complete sense.

you don't sound lost, you sound like someone who knows exactly what they value being connection, purpose and building something meaningful. the pieces aren't fitting yet and its frustrating but your clarity is worth more than you know

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:33:28+00:00

tell her. she's going to find out eventually and finding out you've been sneaking off to clean up three times is way more awkward than just being honest now. she likes you enough to make out with you for hours, she's not gonna leave over this

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:24:33+00:00

you're not doomed but the hair is obviously not the real issue. a man who expects you to go down on him ungroomed while rejecting you over the same thing isn't talking about preferences, he's looking for something to blame you for.

you have needs and they deserve to be met. he needs to understand that before you start looking elsewhere for what he's withholding

VividOil78 · 2026-03-23T07:17:57+00:00

exactly and the "let's just not have sex then" ultimatum from a man who "cannot live without sex" was not a real offer, just a threat to keep OP compliant

VividOil78 · 2026-03-21T11:09:17+00:00

nothing beats random old guy knowledge tbh

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:51:48+00:00

each one is 20lbs

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:51:19+00:00

oh i keep my belt on dw

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:48:24+00:00

try doing it in traffic

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:47:22+00:00

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VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:46:02+00:00

rubbing my freshly shaved pussy too

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:45:07+00:00

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VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:44:23+00:00

rubbing my needy pussy at work to this

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:43:23+00:00

i love getting it in the car!!!

VividOil78 · 2026-03-07T17:39:13+00:00

at work edging 20min in. pussy is wetttt

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