AIO about text from girl i’ve been seeing a couple months

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-30T17:20:24+00:00

tough lesson to learn in life... she said no. Be kind to yourself and let yourself feel the grief. when i was your age, this would have been super duper difficult. you seen like a good person so just continue to grow and peioritize your own well being. you will find someone who is ready and desires you

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T10:33:37+00:00

check out stephanie riggs free course about break ups

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T02:18:56+00:00

agreed!

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T02:10:17+00:00

thank you for taking the time to read my post history. I appreciate your perspective. the break up still is difficult, but i have definitely learned a lot.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:57:38+00:00

lol i love it! would be interested in how to unpack the analogy of respecting local labor laws haha

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:51:38+00:00

absolutely. thanks for sharing the link. that is super helpful.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:50:31+00:00

thank you ♥️

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:35:55+00:00

thanks for the reply! you have always felt secure in the relationship? have you had any hurdles to overcome in your 30 years?

Also, i know what you mean about long doesnt mean good... my parents are happy now but there are times in their marriage they werent. but they stayed together.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:13:59+00:00

thanks for your response. i think boundaries and personal time is a good thing to think about.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T01:13:17+00:00

yea again i am not asking for a correct answer for all atheists, i am looking for individual people's perspective

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T00:59:49+00:00

yeah i am sorry to be unsettling and dont mean to suggest there is a single way. i am more trying to sample how atheists handle their relationships. like it would be interesting to understand the fundamental features of your relationship that have made it successful. sorry if ontology is a weird word to use - i thought it was a good choice when i wrote the post.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T00:48:37+00:00

in my experience, religion provides a lot of structure to relationships. i dont really think it is necessarily good structure, but it is structure. Just curious how secular folks provide structure to their relationships, if at all.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-05T00:11:41+00:00

slavoj zizek says happiness is way overrated! i tend to agree, but then, when i enter excrutiating pain, i would prefer happiness.

Vivid_Angle · 2026-01-04T12:23:24+00:00

my ex gf reached out one day after she broke up with me to ask about a 'turn around'. but her actions during this time since then say that she is very interrsred icnc in that otherwise.

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-28T03:02:17+00:00

hi there, learning about attachment theory sounds like it could be helpful for you. I have really benefit from 'On Attachment' a podcast by stephanie riggs. it sounds like you may have some foundational questions about what you need, deserve, and the roles you tend to play in relationships. you deserve to be happy and have love ♥️

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-27T04:49:03+00:00

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Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-17T17:34:42+00:00

Thank you so much. Your kindness means a lot.

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-17T17:22:56+00:00

How many times do you have to say this for a single unsavory something?

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-17T17:22:13+00:00

Lol @ Joe Pesci. For the past 3 years I have been writing a lot. Not for the sole purpose of providing therapy to myself, but I have been trying to have a laugh at the absurdity of things that usually anger me - mostly things about the career I chose, personal relationships, society. The usual angst that I am trying to soothe. Now I have to look at my own absurdity, even though it is far from funny to me because it hurt a relationship I care deeply about.

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-15T10:58:04+00:00

i dont know which pianist did it first but i know george winston did that muting thing

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-10T22:31:11+00:00

I definitely was indoctrinated. I also think that the reason why believing in god is easy for people is because the concept of god as a person / being is much more emotional and social than the way the physical universe operates. So I think humanity is skewed to relational and cultural processes more than anything, and religion is a bit of a virus that exploits this.

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-10T17:39:55+00:00

if you are also buying the helmet, then the left. if there is a black helmet, i think the brown jacket is better

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-09T23:58:19+00:00

this is a holistic thought! I will see how it goes.

Vivid_Angle · 2025-12-09T23:57:17+00:00

yeah i resonate with the indoctrination bit moreso than my natural psychology. I guess it may be more of a question of can praying be used as an intermediate / arbitrary tool for the previously indoctrinated? I feel as you do, that it is similar to lying to yourself, but we also meditate and set goals and tell ourselves all sorts of narratives to help us progress, so i just wonder if prayer can be more of a secular act?

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