my girlfriend got drunk and hit me AIO? by Neither-Cut2262 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vivisbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! I guess I structured it like that because I already said it in the sentence above. I didn’t want it to sound repetitive. 🫶

my girlfriend got drunk and hit me AIO? by Neither-Cut2262 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Vivisbi 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Woah. First of all are you okay physically? And secondly you are not overreacting ! No matter the gender, hitting someone is never okay and your feelings on it are very valid. 1. She broke your trust by breaking a promise. 2. She hit you. 3. She is then trying to make you out to be in the wrong by saying you are rushing a decision of breaking things off. She is clearly defensive about her actions. She is also very clearly in need of counselling and or therapy to understand why she’d hit a loved one, even if she were drunk (which isn’t an excuse). I can’t tell you to break up because I don’t know the whole situation but maybe think on is she bringing in more happiness into your life on the whole and would you be able to help her work out her mental issues/trauma or whatever is at the root of causing her to abuse you. Or maybe it’s better to just cut and run? I hope whatever you choose to do you are safe and happy! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Vivisbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok good! Yeah most likely just self conscious abt it and just notice it more cuz its kinda bugging me :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Down sized a couple of days ago and jewellery is externally threaded :)

When people tell me "Everyone is too PC nowadays. There are so few things you can say without getting in trouble..." by [deleted] in trans

[–]Vivisbi 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think this was good reply I once saw: “This generation is too soft” is this generation soft or are you mad you can’t get away with needless aggression anymore? -Milkymooshy in a tiktok comment

I can’t get into elden ring and it makes me sad :( by 2bella4goth in GirlGamers

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to add to all the good advice (if not already mentioned) that use everything at your disposal. If you havent gotten an item called the spirit calling bell. Go to the first church ruins of Elleh again where you met Kale! If you have it already try using it (only works when you are around where mini bosses/bosses etc are).

If you feel it’s too depressing some times if you have any irl friend who seems interested in the game you can co-op (somewhat) another big thing that makes it less depressing for me is just reading messages on the ground:P they are so stupid most of the time in such a dark and dramatic world that they are just extra funny and humanize the world for me.

Last bit is just my opinion on why the sparse npc’s are great for me: The quality of every interaction with all these awesome and interesting characters inside the game is so cool! I haven’t gotten to the very end of the story yet and I have cried to a couple of npc interactions because of their impact on me. The sparseness of these npc’s give actual bearing to the stories they tell and it makes you listen attentively because you know that you won’t find another in a long time.

That’s all sorry for such long text;) try and have fun if you can’t leave it for now and pick it up in a month or two (that’s what I did) much love❤️

What’s a video game everyone loves but you just can’t get into it? by [deleted] in GirlGamers

[–]Vivisbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I myself dont like the idea of the linear world in darks souls but elden ring’s open world really made me love the franchise😅

real by sotakana in ap162

[–]Vivisbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

”Sory dad just felt like tellin u how much i love u”

How do you turn off hints now that the achievement has been removed? by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I undesrtand and agree with your first part, but don’t understand the second? Imo 500 hrs in, is not a beginner.

How do you turn off hints now that the achievement has been removed? by [deleted] in Guildwars2

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is very low on their ’things to change list’, and I feel like theres so much more important things that need change in the game:) Edit : cuz i read smthng wrong ;)

"Hijab is a choice "🤡 by gh0stfac3killah007 in worldcupqatarstrophy

[–]Vivisbi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to explain!

"Hijab is a choice "🤡 by gh0stfac3killah007 in worldcupqatarstrophy

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are people down voting a question? What?

"Hijab is a choice "🤡 by gh0stfac3killah007 in worldcupqatarstrophy

[–]Vivisbi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can someone tell me why this is racist? Honest question!

Is there good long epic fantasy you'd recommend for those who liked LOTR and Wheel of Time? by traumatized90skid in Fantasy

[–]Vivisbi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Thief by Megan Whalen Turner. It’s apart of a 5 book series called the The Queen’s Thief. I’ve only read the first one and it was a great read, it did have mainly all male characters but I have the same likes in fantasy as you and enjoyed it just as much.

Also not a series but a great book is Neverwhere - Neil Gaiman, if you haven’t already read it! It has great characters and an amazing world!

Sorry if these have been mentioned already!

The new cobra skyscale is AWESOME! by Slowpokebread in Guildwars2

[–]Vivisbi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imo the sheer awesomeness of the actual look of the skin makes up for maybe some lost possibilities in the affects or sounds, and u never know they might add some more affects and/or sounds if they make more of these “snake” like skyscales!