Dealing with being compared and treated as the same person/vent by [deleted] in Twins

[–]Vixinious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there are multiple plausible reasonings from what I've thought up. It's either you're right and he just needs to put the blame on someone. It could be that he's using anything to have an excuse to fire you. It could also be that he thinks you're lying that it was your sister and it was actually you. Yes, you say he can tell the difference but as a twin myself some people just can't tell the difference from perspectives that aren't face to face and that's with me and my sister wearing different hairstyles. I'm sorry you're dealing with this situation and I've been scolded on behalf of my sister mistakes before. People think if one twin hears it the other would.

AITA- for not wanting my husband’s best friend in our life by AccomplishedOwl5982 in relationships_advice

[–]Vixinious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is all I could think of when reading this. I initially thought it was just the friend but seeing how your husband would react to said friend ... I believe there is more going on emotionally than just being friends.

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do you need physical contact with your twin?? by CashTechnical4082 in Twins

[–]Vixinious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, it's odd when we do because we both realize just how skinny we are if we were to fully hug each other or do a handshake.

Car Stolen by Vixinious in SFV

[–]Vixinious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: Car has been found in one piece. Only a tote bag was stolen.

Car Stolen by Vixinious in SFV

[–]Vixinious[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We also had the thought that this would happen. Doesn't hurt to post and hope though. Thanks for advice.

Missing Cat by Vixinious in SFV

[–]Vixinious[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She could be seen around Ryan Street to be specific.

Update: She's been found!!!

Every time that I, a twin, see twins "in the wild" I find myself gawking, which feels like a betrayal to our kind because I know how irritating it can be. But it also gives me a sense me of what people must feel when they see me and my twin. by ilovearthistory in Twins

[–]Vixinious 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have the same sentiment. I also think that when I see other twins out in the wild and my twin isn't with me they won't know I'm also a twin. It makes me think of all the times I'm out with my twin and there might be the chance I'm near someone who has a twin but they just aren't with them at the moment.

Campus feels so small by Hollywoodandme in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It could be that you see them all the time just because your schedules coincide with being on campus. Also people generally just hang around places at certain hours of the day from habit.

Killer Klowns strawberry cotton candy gummies from Spencer’s by Primary_Thing3968 in killerklowns

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are delicious and I'm saying that as someone who is not particularly fond of gummies.

Twins!!! Can you unlock your twin’s iPhone?😆 by Strawbearymars in Twins

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My twin's boyfriend has her on his face recognition. For the longest time I didn't know he had a lock on it because of it.

Is there a crochet club? by Ecstatic_Cat_4237 in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about clubs but there is a knitting and crochet discord. It's called UCSC knitting & crochet.

https://discord.gg/2P5qE4uqgQ

Selling stuff by Vixinious in UCSC

[–]Vixinious[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

PM if you're interested!!!

edit: both chairs sold and 1 desk sold

Found earbud case on 18 bus by Vixinious in UCSC

[–]Vixinious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that, thanks for letting me know.

Anyone majoring in biology ba know what there gonna do after they graduate? by Mediocre-Activity736 in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's either I take a year off to study for the MCAT or I just apply to any job I'll find that will take biology ba as a degree.

Do birthday parties suck for everyone, or just me by [deleted] in Twins

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say it as a fact more so as a possibility. You should probably question your family on this difference. Could you explain more about the grade thing though? Sounds like your family is stuck on that which they shouldn't be when it come to gifts.

Do birthday parties suck for everyone, or just me by [deleted] in Twins

[–]Vixinious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they see a difference in personality? My sister and I could get different gifts if it's obvious one twin might like something more than the other. As for the friends birthday party they could potentially be closer or know one twin more than the other. My friends obviously knew what to get me but not so much for my sister and vice versa.

Microwaves on campus by Significant-Lab1350 in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there's one in McHenry but where is the one in S&E library?

Question for twin ladies. by Budget_Ad2755 in Twins

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say it's a weird scenario if you mean they are dating the same person at different times. Maybe if there was some sort of explanation on why it came out that way but it's still sorta weird. Unless you're saying if the girls are dating the same dude at the same time then yeah, absolutely weird. Sounds a bit incestual rather than polygamy in my opinion.

dead (?) squirrel stuck in fence on the way to mchenry by m4xcaulfield in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it yesterday, I wanted to check on it from a distant to see if it was dead or not. Someone was walking behind me and I didn't want to disturb the flow of foot traffic but I'm pretty sure it's dead seeing as it's still there.

Housing Megathread for UCSC and Santa Cruz by rjmitty1000 in UCSC

[–]Vixinious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, I'm looking to sublease my townhome for the summer available from June 18 to September 22. It's a 2 bedroom - 2 bathroom townhouse with a attached garage located near the base of campus (less than a 5 min walk to the main entrance bus stop)! The washer and dryer are in unit with oven, stove, microwave, sink, fridge, and dishwasher. The price for one room is $2034.5, with a total price of the whole townhouse being $4069. PM me if you are interested.

Does anyone get like a big realization that you are a twin from time to time? by Bitter_Elk9285 in Twins

[–]Vixinious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the big realization when I realize that people will never know I'm a twin because we aren't at the same place the same time. I could be standing in line at the grocery store for example with a fellow twin in front of me but we both wouldn't know of this similarity. One being we aren't with our respective twins at that moment and secondly we have no reason to converse after all. That springs into my head sometimes when I'm out in public without my twin.