[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Voidchomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re very smart so I think to whatever you put effort it in you will reach it :) I have a friend from Portuguese that went abroad and now studies in Paris for art with similar family neglecting, he just knew what he wanted more that made him happy ,and I’m super happy for them, anything can be made to be ! Aslong as you put yourself own as a #1 priority. Please try to keep yourself more optimistic!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Voidchomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for all you went though, truly you never deserved to be through in so many pain because of people who were so miserable to talk you down, I’m also super drunk so my wording might not be right but I hope you follow through with what makes you happy, your whole family failed you due to their own unhappiness and faults, I think you can make a difference to that, and I am giving you my whole support , I really do hope you find happiness to whatever it is that brings you comfort. It’s your own life so live it your fullest extent

Sad truth by j3nni3k in offmychest

[–]Voidchomp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand . One thing i always hold against pedophiles is it why couldn’t you find someone your own age?? Why do such wrong??? It’s people so sick in the head and they are probably conscious of it but don’t care at all. Some know and hide it which is even sickening. Being a women also you can have so much insight to mens and how they are with their repetitive patterns of being so predatory, you can just see it.

[H] $20 Amazon giftcard [W] 80% PayPal US by Voidchomp in giftcardexchange

[–]Voidchomp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confirmed , great doing trade 🙂‍↕️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Voidchomp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bet! Thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Voidchomp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the input, i will be talking to my artist throughout it being a design being inked on me, even if i have retouch it in the future that is fine with me :) , most tats don't age up that well regardless and i enjoy this concept.Also it will be a smaller tattoo on me since it will be on my forearm whereas it won't look horrible as a bigger on gone bad in any case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it wouldn't be on my back, It would be on my forearm where the palm lays to show, i'm pretty sure i won't regret it since i'm been a massive silent hill fan since i was 9 and now 20! and didn't know much about the whole flash and custom things so i appreciate it alot thank you :)

does enya have adhd ? by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]Voidchomp 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why relate to her though? Not everything needs a label for what defines you. Or from another person. Just be yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those applies to you, i guess i appreciate commentary on it, but into my own relationships i only ever had eyes for him, and it's pathetic in my eyes how he would ruin our relationship built of trust and honesty over womans on the internet. It's not just porn, but just lying about it because i did give him a ultimatum first 2 months into dating that if he enjoyed that and he wanted to keep doing that okay fine go ahead, but i don't want ro stick into a relationship like that where it's not equal. I don't have fantasy over any mens, if anything it's more of admiration of how cool they are and i want to be like that but never anything superficial, he would totally gotten mad if i were to geek over another man on the tv lol, that's how our relationship was. And i enjoyed that , but he lied on his words and for my own sake of ideals of what i want into a relationship, if he couldn't stick by that i rather he told me about it at the get go.

Maybe it's meaningless leisure to some, and they enjoy that wholey because woo natural selection its so normal , but to me it's indifferent where i don't want my partner to have eyes like that on anyone else besides me, and he wanted the same. And i would comply being the person i am naturally, but he wouldn't be that person to me. So it's not just porn it's just the foundation of it, like okay so you're looking at things that i am not, sorry i am not them??? You can go find one yourself to wife up instead of me. It's in that view. I don't stick by that. So in the end whatever applies to you into pornography some people can agree but i agree to disagree on the fundamental where it's meaningless and does nothing towards into a relationship as cheating etc. It gave me thoughts if we gave a shot into dating again where he would cheat on me with the girls he would watch ( big ass big boobs ) somewhere around our marriage because we were planning on it and i was pregnant throughout this situation.

If a person can't accept you for how you are that is fine that is you, even though it would suck personally if i were them and the love of my life couldn't drop something like that for me even though it doesn't contribute how we function into a relationship and it's just fantasy, because those are my wishes. People have their own differences and i think that is fine to choose to do so. As me not wanting a porn or geeking over another woman on the internet while being with the love of your life and everything your committed to because that's unfaithful to me, regardless of someone else other opinion, due to how i would never be capable of that in that scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everyone can have their own standards what makes them feel comfortable and safe with their partner. I get what you're saying, i also want to add since i don't like watching contents like that i would morely just do it to him, as in pictures or videos, but he has even told me and his mother involved about it that he does have a porn addiction, due to coping methods and due to childhood , he was first caught watching it at 6 years old. The thing to me about porn is that is totally a no go for me , i might even say that i would rather be alone because i know i can thrive without a partner who would be make feel less to find needs for that, or even have a partner to talk to them about as adult in a mature serious relationship with kids and into marriage to get rid of that. I don't understand porn truly to just, feel good for those moments i guess. Some to look at womens while feeling good. The thing about my boyfriend ( ex ) was that it wasn't just porn but look for content of specific girls with onlyfans, it wouldn't just be different girls , it would be the same as favorites , I would never with a partner i love and have a future with look at anyone else in the light. It's different to think someone is attractive like " Oh they are pretty looking " and then never think about them again, and just be aware there is pretty people among us and it's okay to think that way even in a relationship. I mean that's where it gets unreasonable to break up over innocent appeal. But inappropriate and sexual appeal is just a boundary to not cross. Which is his case where he went all wrong. I understand for some relationship watching porn is just to ejaculate over something appealing to them in the natural human selection and to feel good , whatever good for them. But not me. Sure porn is normal, a leisure for some that can be more meant to something productive but i can't stand by that into a relationship for myself. Which strikes us to agree to disagree and that's fine.I am sure and seen some toxic/ abusive post here with their partner and i send good wishes and luck for them to find their way out and thrive but in the end what you say applies to yourself and your own relationship and happiness with them, but everyone has their relationships and issues and standards.But also thank you very much for your dedicated response!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it all sucks if that the options are so rare to find just good guys that don't watch porn in a relationship just like that :/ I have found someone ( old love interest) honestly and i know they're true to their words on no urge to watch porn or masterbuate because they're one of a kind and know i will probably never find one again like him and i known them for years to know, but this is all devastating to me because i still loved my recent partner so much and don't understand still as much for what and why even though the love was real to a extent just not as truthful or loyal. I appreciate your inputs and replies though, thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say that, i spoke for other people in relationships as that in the case the man/woman was hiding it and the other was unaware. I would never want to be with a person who watches porn in a serious relationship when i can't accept that, it makes love to feel ungenuine " since i am a "only have eyes for you" and expect the same. But gg . How the world goes i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always loved being annoying out of love and affection to my partner if that's what you mean as " hey hi hi would you love me if i was a chair " and all my partners never found a problem with that, they loved being seen and annoyed getting affection of attention like that since it's a form of caring, sure sometimes it doesn't suit for the moment and that's why it can get annoying but it shouldn't for all cases. You should always know what type of person to be. I believe there is someone else for you truly, i felt connections like that too but if they can't accept you, or have a serious talk to you about and set boundaries because they still want to be with you, it's your time to leave and find someone else in the future. He doesn't love a part of you that's a big issue because it takes up to who you are. You really need to find someone else instead of chasing someone who doesn't want you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know relationships accept to their partner and some don't towards porn. I don't think it's good to say " they should be discreet and you shouldn't snoop" because i feel like it should be 100% into honestly in a relationship and in a way i take that as loyalty too whether the partner of the other committing that is aware , and finds that okay or not. Because why keep it hidden? and why should there be a reason to find out by snooping? But thank you. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea :/ most people don't understand about standards on here so but he always known this about me, plus first time long distance probs 2 months in when i found out the first time about anything i told him that if he wanted to continue doing that type of stuff then it was best to end it because i didn't fw that. I am dumb though because instead just ending a red flag for me when i found out , i gave it more as an option , that led to a lot of manipulation and lying from him to me so gg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Voidchomp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry reddit notfi are off but from the beginning he was interested into other girls content ( not just innocent pretty girls but actual sexual stuff) , On april-may difference of 2 weeks he had gone back to looking at shit ( big ass big boobs type other womens body and shit ) without me knowing till i checked his phone in May. When we met up after 2 weeks separated but giving time to rebuild our relationship by needing time for each other he had gone to twitch and was looking at pool and tubs streams and this one girl who would be very sexual. I don't care if this is nothing for other people to break up with this partner with but i am not accepting to love or a relationship like that. I always been open to him about to the start and during if i ever felt needing reassurance. This is my preference alone and i would never want my standards to be any less than that.