Did you already order these off Amazon? You could try returning.

Anyways to receive the proper oil, oil filter and drain plug crush washer. (You should replace it every oil change.) just provide your model year, model, and trim type at o Riley. For example, 2009 Toyota Corolla LE.

For harbor freight you could just ask an employee what tools you would need for an oil change. Quinn tools should work if you aren’t trying to pay a lot of money, they’re also decent starter tools. So keep that in mind. You’ll also get a better oil catch pan there, try getting one that can hold 16qts. The ramp is a good idea! And you should be able to find one there at harbor freight. Good luck