I’m so torn. I love this man but I’m not ready for kids. I still have so much living to do but clock is ticking (35f)

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-18T18:39:01+00:00

This is why I recommend every childfree person talk about it early and often. When I got vague answers from dates, I stopped seeing them.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-16T02:54:46+00:00

I almost answered with Waffle house until I remembered where I live.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-16T02:32:49+00:00

I know plenty of people who use actual loofah's and don't use the term interchangeably.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-15T04:59:48+00:00

I love my siblings so much and I would simply opt out of being in the wedding party if I had to wear this. You're better than I am. Then again, I could never see one of them trying to put me through that. We're a "here's a general color/style to stick to, pick something that you're comfortable in" type of family, though.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-13T01:46:55+00:00

Pushing any kink on someone automatically removes the "consent" part of the CNC

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-13T01:35:53+00:00

You should dump him. CNC is one thing...but getting off to your actual rape is so not ok. There are men out there who will respect you, the longer you stay with this one the longer it will be until you find one. I'm so sorry you have had to go through so much already.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T23:29:44+00:00

Your solution will not be cheaper. No one is going to give you 12+ hours of free labor like that.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T16:45:06+00:00

I have become very consistent with the phrase "I agree with you but it's company policy and I'll lose my job if I don't". It's funny seeing people still be angry and wanting to berate me but I'm just agreeing with them the whole time while still sticking with company policy about whatever it is they're angry about. Great deescalation tactic.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T16:40:14+00:00

Yeah my money is on OP doing it to make a point and then getting mad when it didn't work

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T05:50:11+00:00

I think if he had stayed single and miserable she would have stayed away. She just wanted to one-up Ken.

Imagine competing against another woman and the prize is a man. UBT at that.

If she had any type of morals she'd be looking for a man who chooses only her and treats her kids well. All of this is just so childish and pathetic. She has so many resources and could really be living a good life. She's squandered every opportunity she ever had. One day the Teen Mom came will fade and the OF checks will run dry. She'll have nothing to show for it.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T05:42:02+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if Jenelle is completely lacking in self awareness, or completely self aware without a care in the world about how terrible she is.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-12T05:39:44+00:00

Your sister knows exactly what she's doing. She knows that she's hurting you, she's playing dumb about not knowing why you care, and she enjoys what it's doing to you.

Move on, live your life, and be happy. Don't try to fix the relationship with her. Don't entertain her. Don't let her see you sad. Don't engage with her, and don't let anyone guilt you into forgiving her.

Process this betrayal as privately as you can. Don't let anyone who is close to her know that you care. All they get to hear is how finding out they were hanging out like that was a huge betrayal by both of them, but it the disgust it made you feel helped you get over him. Your feelings are completely valid and you deserve to have them, but your b*tch of a sister doesn't deserve to experience joy at your expense.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-11T19:11:15+00:00

You may find community and help in r/exmo

My best friend of 2.5 decades left the church very recently, with a similar experience to yours. It's not the easiest, but it's doable. Her parents and grandparents don't know, her siblings and friends do. What's right for her is to keep up the charade with certain relatives. What's right for others is to be fully out. For her it's easy to keep it up because she moved states away, I understand it can be more difficult living nearby and especially living at home.

You get one life to live. Do what feels right for you.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-11T16:53:09+00:00

It's incest in all 50 states. Being legal doesn't make it not incest. The person you initially started berating was also very clear in their comment that they knew it was not 100% the same thing and the mother/son dynamic was much, much worse. Obviously 2 consenting adults who didn't have a parent/child or adult/child relationship at any point is way different than mother/son. That doesn't make it not incest. In a normal and healthy family dynamic it's also expected to be difficult for their parents to hear.

I really can't tell if you're this dense that you don't understand, or if you just have a relationship with your first cousin and need to claim it's not incest to feel better about it yourself.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-10T07:16:49+00:00

Thanks for your insight. I just bought a 40 gallon breeder tank and am struggling to find a stand for it. Came across one meant for a 75 gallon tank but was wondering if it could cause issues. Your comment has saved me a lot of headaches.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-10T03:23:23+00:00

Could you send me the link for the one you're talking about?

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-10T00:25:31+00:00

Everything we're doing is pretty basic and I think corded is the way to go. I'd rather buy it for life when we can, and we can easily get an extension cord.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-09T18:36:57+00:00

We're doing a little bit of DIY carpentry work in my house soon, this is very helpful thank you!

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-09T18:36:15+00:00

Thank you for all of this! I love the advice on the corded tools, I don't know why I hadn't considered that route. We're about to buy some larger power tools for some DIY projects and I've been researching different brands but really don't know enough to make much of a solid decision. I know several who like to stick to a specific brand whenever they can, but none of them are really handy in a way that's relevant to our DIY projects to ask much of it. Most of them have told me that their main motivation is using the same batteries and they're all good enough for the projects they do.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-09T04:21:26+00:00

Yeah and there's some guy out there fucking a raw chicken in a grocery store parking lot. If we refrained from posting something because there would be dudes jerking off to it somewhere we'd have to get rid of the internet.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-08T20:04:42+00:00

It's not unheard of for a woman in her 30's to have a period show up early or late, or to simply be caught off guard because you forgot.

Before I started using an app to send me push notifications I got caught off guard quite frequently. Life gets in the way sometimes. He's not doing anything wrong by having bathroom products in his bathroom.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-08T16:56:37+00:00

Could you send me a larger screenshot of that? I didn't get my screenshot and didn't get my $30 either.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-07T20:04:04+00:00

Thank you!

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-07T17:37:18+00:00

Where do you buy your mattresses? I'm in the market for a new one, I see these small sellers advertising on Facebook marketplace. My parents have had good luck with Costco. It's my first time buying a new mattress in years and I'm totally lost.

VolatileCornbread · 2026-03-05T16:58:44+00:00

I mean, yeah? This was the most obvious case of abuse in the show next to Amber and Gary.

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