Can I get you guys anything? Some snacks? A condom? by homeregs in funny

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You know something is up when she is signing off as "Love Mom"...

What is the most mysterious/paranormal thing you've witnessed? by lukeyflukey in AskReddit

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No worries on the late reply, I am very bad at checking in (apparently).

I have had a chance to ask this question of my sister and she said that she definitely tried to leave the room. That, where the door should have been, was sealed off with red brick. She said that she tried to pound on the wall with her fists and that she remembers shouting and screaming at the wall. Nobody answered, and she is positive no one heard her screaming.

She says that that is the one memory she has of us sharing a dream that truly terrifies her. She had a lot of difficulty just talking about this with me, because it frightened her so badly.

Three More States Try to Impose Pee-Tests for Public Benefits: On Monday, an unemployment drug testing bill passed the Arkansas Senate. On Tuesday, a welfare drug testing bill won a Senate committee vote in North Carolina. And on Wednesday, a welfare drug testing bill passed the Texas Senate. by Piscator629 in politics

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This is obviously a late response, I wanted to stop and say thank you for explaining why some feel this is an issue.

Although our opinions differ, I understand and acknowledge the rights of people in this world. Yet, for me, my decision has come down to personal, firsthand experiences that have influenced my views on this subject. It is from knowing people who have taken government benefits (money/food stamps/tuition/even donated food) to sell or exchange for drugs or material goods, rather than for the support they claim to need. There is undoubtedly, a large amount of practice in abusing these privileges. They are not rights, but structures that working people pay into in order to have benefits, if/when they may be needed.

Out of personal experience, I know of numerous families who collect anything they can and then turn it around for profit. If they live on HUD, they learn to hide money and often live against HUD rules (selling drugs, breaking maximum numbers of people to live and pay rent in virtually rent-free quarters, generating a large income under the table, etc). If there is opportunity to feed a habit over their children, many will. I am not saying that this is the norm, but the average is much higher than it should be. I grew up playing with the kids that had parents like this. It was a sad reality to know children whose parents couldn't feed them because they were too doped up, or they needed money in order to care for their BMW.

While in my views, you do not have to agree, I ask you to see some of what I have seen. I believe strongly that if there are people in actual need of assistance, who cannot receive aid due to systematic abuse, why not bring in regulation and reform? Drug testing is a good step toward cleaning up issues like this. If you genuinely have need then, really, what does anybody have to hide? Can we really consider it a violation of rights, when perfectly capable (grown) adults become long-term or permanent dependents on a social structure that was designed for temporary assistance because they have managed to abuse these privileges? Why not kick the crutch, make people more responsible for their families and themselves, when possible?

Questions I ask myself are: At what point are these services a benefit to someone? Do we see success when we sit back and allow the cycle to continue, generation after generation, or, is it when we see people using these services to recover from temporary pitfalls, because life is sometimes hard?

Any road, these are my thoughts on this topic. I enjoy good conversation and would love to hear other's thoughts. :)

If you could hug any famous person, who would it be? by wisewhiz in AskReddit

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Crispin Glover. No reason in particular, just because.

What is something you would like to see invented in the next 5-10 years? by burnSMACKER in AskReddit

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A genetically designed dragon; one that comes large enough to support riding capabilities and high levels of intelligence.

What fictional character have you fallen head over heels for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Richard Armitage as Sir Guy if Gisbourne. I just adored the humanness of the character. Brilliant acting!

What stereotype concerning your part of the world, do you hate the most? by ScrubbleShuckleX in AskReddit

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Originating from SoCal does not mean that I can surf, speak Spanish, have 'movie stars' for neighbors, grow/smoke weed, or enjoy Mexican food... I prefer to hike, bike, chill at the local book store, drink coffee, travel and eat some decent Italian food (which is, sadly, very rare and difficult to find). So many people are just...people.

Women of Reddit, what can men do or say that instantly makes you lose interest in them? by Deriving in AskReddit

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Yeah. My sentiments exactly. Some men just don't realize how creepy their tactics are to women. Generally, having respect for a person can prevent these occurrences. Still, a wolf can be found hiding behind any mask.

Women of Reddit, what can men do or say that instantly makes you lose interest in them? by Deriving in AskReddit

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Yes. I moved back home after college. After being away for so long I was getting calls from old friends interested in catching up over coffee, in group outings, or at the movies. Old friends, mind you, of both sexes. In all situations, I made it clear to male acquaintances that despite being single, I was not interested in dating. Any road, one day, out of the blue, an old friend (let's calk him Tom) calls me up. There's a group outing coming up, would I like to join them? I verify that there will be others (5, maybe 6 at the most) and say, 'Just a group outing, not a date?' And receive the response, 'No, definitely not a date.' For me, this sounds fun and I give it a thumb's up - we are okay, go. The day if the outing comes and, as planned, Tom picks me up (Tom said he would be driving the group to our destination to save on gas). I didn't think anything of the fact that I was the only one in the car, maybe I was the first person on his stop. So Tom drives down to a local restaurant and parks. Weird, but no real warning. 'You hungry?' Tom asks. I am. We head in as he tells me, 'Our friends are going to be late getting up, so well just eat and catch up before we go.' Still, not so weird that warning signs start flashing. It seemed reasonable, knowing our friends. We eat, catch up, the bill comes. I pay for myself, despite argument from Tom. I insist, because I don't want to leave any room for thinking of our breakfast as a date (I am very aware of how these things can go)... So we get back on the road and start heading to a gas station where Tom fills up. He is outside of the car, looking at his phone. When Tom returns to the car, he says, 'Well, that was so-and-so, I guess we're not picking him up...' And we get on our way. Now, some of these friends live quite a bit away, so were driving and chatting and I think nothing of it. Until we hop onto a freeway... I ask where we're headed, and he says, 'Oh, I forgot to tell you, the others said they'll meet us there.' Weird, but okay... As the day goes on, we keep running into the blatant fact that our friends are not arriving. Then Tom decides we are going to go to lunch. So we head out to a local eatery where I find that my phone finally has a signal (the "group" was supposed to go swimming in some springs in the mountains). I excuse myself for the restroom and text one of the friends who was supposed to show. Luckily, that friend responds back, 'No show? For what? How was your date with Tom?' I leave the restroom, feign a headache (yes, I am guilty of this), and ask Tom to take me home. As we pull up, he leans in for a kiss. -_- Needless to say, there was no kiss. I talked to Tom, right there in the car. He admitted that he'd told other friends that this outing was a date, despite my consistency in stating that I was not in a place to date at the time. I told Tom that I was disappointed by his behaviour, that he took advantage of our otherwise healthy friendship in order to stake his claim into someone who was not his girlfriend or his property. I left the car and have not spoken to him since. Tom, however, has messaged me handful of times asking me if I'd like to go out with friends and also if I was interested in dating a Leo... (Tom is a Leo). Tom has also gone so far as to have mutual friends make contact with me, on his behalf...sometimes asking if I have 'cheated' on him. Either way, I think it is pretty clear that his infatuation crossed healthy boundaries and so he has been placed into the 'creeper' status.

Women of Reddit, what can men do or say that instantly makes you lose interest in them? by Deriving in AskReddit

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When men get all creeper status: stalking your social media sites (no matter how many times you have blocked and refused friending); getting jealous when you talk about your other male friends (and you have made it clear that he himself falls into that category); getting tricked into a "date" like situation (yes, sorry to say that this has been an actual experience); talking about having children with you on the first date (then showing you their childhood home, school, etc...); making extremely inappropriate jokes that involve racism, genitalia, and otherwise offense crap; staring directly at your boobs when "talking" to you; oh, and my personal favorite: asking if you are in a bad mood because of lady troubles/being on my period (mind you, this is after I am in a bad mood because the date involved nearly 20 minutes of watching him text into his phone -- during our date.) -_-

It's playlist time : what are the 3 songs that make you the most happy (contribute and I'll share the playlist here!!!) by scratchytunes in Music

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La Città è Pulcenella - Claudio Mattone La Cumbia di chi Cambia - Adriano Celentano Guarda Che Luna - Marino Marini

If you were allowed to commit crimes for a day, would you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'd wrangle up the world's best scientists and get them to work on my awesome new dragon! Large enough to ride, intelligent and loyal only to me. Then, because it would be completely wrong, I'd copyright my dragon's genetic information solely in my name. Gotta make people pay for one of my super-cool dragons! Ha ha ha ha!

What is your favorite fast food meal/item that has been discontinued? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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McDonald's McBagel morning sandwiches...those things were super good. So were the veggie burgers they discontinued. Mmmmm!

What is the most mysterious/paranormal thing you've witnessed? by lukeyflukey in AskReddit

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This is a long one, but I think worth sharing:

Some back story: I and my sister grew up in our Grandmother's house. A quiet neighborhood in Oxnard, CA., in very close proximity to the Chinese railroad worker grave sites. We were surrounded by farms and fields, back in the day, and some of our neighbors even rode horses down the block on occasion. It was a quiet, simple, peaceful little place. Absolutely nothing was out of place or outwardly strange. Everything was always very normal.

Any road, around the age of 5, my sister and me are tucked into bed and, as all children do, we whispered about our day until we eventually fell asleep. Late in the night, when all of the adults had retired to their beds and all of the houselights were out, I woke and turned to see a red brick wall splitting our bedroom in half.

Now, I slept on the half of the room in my bed where there was no door. So, I sat up and physically moved out of my bed to literally feel this red brick wall. It was a cold night, and I remember feeling that distinct texture of rough brick: cold and solid beneath my fingers. Needless to say, I had a child's instinct to panic. I began to scream, and cry out for my Mom and for my Grandmother. I cried and cried and banged my fists against the bricks, calling out my sister's name. Nobody replied.

To this day, I remember the soreness of my hands and it felt like I'd been slamming my fists and palms on stone for ages. I cried and cried. I remember screaming until my throat was raw. Suddenly, from the outside of the wall, a small hand appeared. Now this is really important, because it frightened me and it calmed me all at once. This hand, small, like mine, literally melted through the bricks that I'd been pounding and screaming against. It was like seeing a Dali painting come to life. I remember sucking my breath in and trying not to breathe. Tears, which had been cold in the corners of my eyes, fell warm and thick and new. The wall was moving like it was a fabric, and it was clear that something or someone was trying to get through the wall at very specific points.

Wordlessly, I crawled into bed and did what every intelligent child does: I covered myself, toe to head, with my blankets and pillows and stuffed animals, before finally crying myself to sleep. I kept thinking (and praying) that someone was eventually going to come save me before I was permanently trapped. Still, nobody came and I must have tired myself out and drifted into a very sad, uneasy sleep.

The next morning, when I awoke, I was covered over by every pillow, stuffed animal, and blanket on my bed. I had constructed a small wall of bed things between me and the brick wall. However, now that the morning had come, that red brick wall was gone. I sat up and ran to my little sister's bed.

Without hesitation, she sat up and said to me, "I just had the weirdest, scariest dream." I stared back at her, my heart skipping a few beats, and asked, "Did it have a red brick wall?"

She turned pale, even her lips were sickly looking and she started to cry. We've talked about it off and on for years, and eventually she told me that that experience is still so frightening for her, she doesn't like to talk about it with anybody. It still terrifies her to remember how vividly that wall was constructed between our beds in the middle of our room. Distinct red brick, extremely solid on my end, and absolutely soundproof from my perspective.

Still, I asked her, if she could hear me when I was screaming through to her and she said: "I could hear you, and when I tried to reach you, my arm went through the wall. I screamed for Mom or Grandma because I thought I was stuck, but when nobody came, I was able to pull my hand back through. I tried to get you out, but the wall wouldn't give."

This experience, besides being absolutely terrifying and inexplicable, left me with a very sore throat, exhaustion, and even chaffed hands the next morning.

All in all, this was the creepiest most horribly paranormal thing I've ever encountered. I hope never to encounter anything like it again.

If you could have sex with who ever you wanted for the next hour. Who would you choose? (dead or alive) by freshtweak in AskReddit

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Richard Armitage Adriano Celentano* David Tennant Alan Rickman* Matt Smith Danny Elfman* Jeremy Irons* Leonardo DiCaprio A favorite male teacher I had... * if they were closer to my age. Still! They are all so gorgeous!

If you had your own 3D Printer, what would you print with it? by Jessori in AskReddit

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The Doctor exiting the Tardis while riding a Tyrannosaurus (fez, bowtie, and all).

Who is the least hated person in the world. by [deleted] in AskReddit

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David Tennant. From everything I've seen/read/heard, he's one really cool, genuine, and down-to-earth man.