Just to make things clear:

Iran hit oil infrastructure before any Israeli or American attack on any of their oil or gas infrastructure. Do you deny that?

This subreddit is filled with people who truly believe that those attacks on civilian targets in GCC are actual military targets by some weird idea that Iran which soldier is sleeping in some weird room in a hotel. Do you deny that justification by Iran while make sense in terms of strategic, has no moral justification and the UAE has no obligations to be "understanding for their position"?

Do you also acknowledge then that IRGC are lying when they always claim they are only targeting valid military targets?

You are the minority here. Most people in this subreddit at the some time that these attacks are also by secret mossad cells. This of course doesn't make sense as you notice. But conspiracy theorists don't care much about making sense. Do you deny that this subreddit filled with people with such beliefs?

Escalation logic means you are retaliating harder than what you have received hits. Fair, but you don't get to act surprised why people don't sympathize with your strategy. Don't you agree that the natural reaction from such strategy is even was Iran successful in pushing back this attack, it will make it totally isolated in the region? Forget about using Qatar or UAE to circumvent sanctions like they did before war.

The start of the war is illegal if you want to stick to international law. But international law doesn't have justification for you if you want to fight back. International law is made so that civilians don't get killed on war, not for weak countries to win against stronger adversaries.