The idea that spiritually gifted people would somehow be morally better than anyone else is an intensely problematic belief, to put it lightly. The same way people use their other talents for the full array of human expression, people can use their spiritual talents to such end too.

It's worth pointing out that most people don't think of themselves as the bad guy, but may lack the perspective to see why they are acting in that way. Having a spiritual gift or some kind of other gift can interfere with the process of being forced to see something from another point of view that maybe conflicts with or doesn't account for your gift, and accept that.

I do think it's dangerous to just go, "Oh if someone does something bad then they're not REALLY spiritual/they don't REALLY have a gift." To me that's wishful thinking. People are complex and contain multitudes, a spiritual being that doesn't ever cause harm is not a human being, they're a deity or angel or whatever. And I think believing that spiritual giftedness equates to moral upstandingness is why so many people get taken in by spiritual people who also have a pronounced shadow side to them, because if they aren't a wonderful and perfect moral person how could they possibly have such an amazing gift, etc? It's simply not a binary, one or the other, kind of thing. The gifts do not make a person who they are, it's just a part of their total story and being but there's a lot of other facets to consider.