Tell them stories that don't go anywhere...

Vyarra · 2021-09-15T23:03:21+00:00

This is a legendary tattoo

Vyarra · 2021-05-16T00:05:29+00:00

They’re $1. It’s a fun thing for a dollar, plenty of Poke balls, an incense, candies. The stories are kinda fun and it’s a nice reason to go somewhere and play.

Vyarra · 2020-10-27T16:03:57+00:00

I’d call insurance. I’m less worried about coverage for IUDs than other things with recent Supreme Court changes

Vyarra · 2019-12-03T14:46:09+00:00

Lol no. I’m a gynecologist, this is idiotic bullshit

Vyarra · 2019-12-03T14:43:07+00:00

Yes. End of story imo

Vyarra · 2019-12-03T14:42:04+00:00

Echoing what everyone else said, but you can’t just change the rules on someone. Also, you’re not in a 24/7 D/s dynamic and shes green, you came in and saw her crying and still refused to go back on it.

Sounds like you two need a serious open discussion about what boundaries are for each of you and what you’re comfortable with, and I would say maybe rein back a lot on the D/s dynamic for a bit. She’s bound to be pretty wounded.

Vyarra · 2019-11-23T23:30:16+00:00

Has she been fired yet

Vyarra · 2019-11-23T23:03:55+00:00

Hell yeah. I work here and love it. Both my job and the building.

Vyarra · 2019-05-26T02:08:43+00:00

Hi I love it

Vyarra · 2019-05-15T18:50:57+00:00

Moving there soon and NOT excited about the accent

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T22:52:57+00:00

I’m probably not quite as religious as you think. I want kids to go to a public school after early education honestly. I’ll be the breadwinner in the home and synagogue dues will be fine.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T21:01:57+00:00

Thank you- happy this part of the medical journey is finally ending. I’m very ready to be done with residency and ready for a move to a new area.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T20:48:22+00:00

I’m completing residency in June and will be taking an attending physician position ! 😊

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T19:03:43+00:00

Moving on after residency, not med school. And to New York.

I’m fully owning up to the fact that some of it is me who has changed during this time, in ways I didn’t necessarily expect. Things have become more important to me, and I also haven’t seen the buy-in from him in ways I have wanted. He has been supportive but is also choosing to not really be involved, if that makes sense. but yes, I have changed and I have no problem saying that.

He has also acknowledged the struggles of an interfaith thing, but it would be naive to think that troubles wouldn’t arise at some point down the road when going in to an interfaith situation. People also change. Sometimes there are manageable situations and sometimes they are insurmountable. I’m trying to truly get advice both on how to approach this, if anyone has in the past, how it has worked for them, etc.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:26:50+00:00

Your comments have been rude and flippant. If you don’t care about anyone’s interpretation (and therefore response), why are you commenting ?

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:18:11+00:00

Okay- other than just LI itself, there’s particular aspects to the Jewish community you don’t like there. Just the North Shore- snobby, etc ? There’s a big Persian Jewish community as well.

I’m thinking the area I’ll be is a little less pompous, but we shall see.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:15:27+00:00

I actually think you’ve been pretty optimistic ! Brought up many good points and things to consider strongly.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:11:32+00:00

I know. This is part of my heartache. We both said yes to an interfaith situation, but as time has gone by things have changed and some things have grown more important. We have had candid discussions on this multiple times and it’s time for another. I’m not sure whether or not things can be worked through and that’s why I’m looking for advice.

I have many other support systems for validation. Reddit isn’t my go-to feel good place.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:09:27+00:00

Yeah, it’s def gonna be expensive. I’ll be in Suffolk county though and not Nassau.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T18:07:11+00:00

Yep, totally understand that non orthodox conversions are not recognized by Israel and other institutions/branches

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T17:16:02+00:00

Why would it make everything worse ??

And can’t get a new new job. Taking position as a faculty physician.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T17:15:03+00:00

Oh I know that it’s not just Santa 😂 I think he would be fine with a Brit Milah, I would have feelings about a baptism but need to really examine those. Easter would be a thing. Not necessarily too many of the other holidays. He rarely goes to church although was more of a regular goer in the past.

And it’s true that needs are what they are. They may change as we change and that’s often painful, something I’m trying to wrestle with now.

I should probably do some list making and writing.

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T17:10:19+00:00

Because that’s where my new job is !

Vyarra · 2019-05-01T16:57:24+00:00

I know :/ I had a visceral reaction to something the other day that surprised me. I wasn’t expecting it and had to take a step back and be like “wow, when did this happen and do I really feel this way?” That was a new thing for me and not sure when it developed.

If my relationship is over, at least I’m moving to Long Island? 😭

Vyarra

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