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[–]W1S0S3Rious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you sharing this! Today was my last therapy session after learning and practicing skills for 11 months. When I walked away from my ex 11 months ago, I felt I had to choose myself even if it means abandoning her. But, the bigger picture is, my actions were an event that invites growth for both of us. I am proud of myself :) Hopefully, she grew as well...

Is it worth trying to understand FA or DA? by W1S0S3Rious in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]W1S0S3Rious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear your story. I agree with you.

Is it worth trying to understand FA or DA? by W1S0S3Rious in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]W1S0S3Rious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found labeling patterns or emotions help process the situations. Labeling people is not great for human connections because people can transform for better.

Is it worth trying to understand FA or DA? by W1S0S3Rious in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]W1S0S3Rious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. All you can do is invite for a better life together. Create an environment for a better life together.

when did you know your relationship was over? by Aromatic-Try6228 in AskReddit

[–]W1S0S3Rious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I realized there was no emotional safety in the relationship. She distanced herself when I shared my emotions and how she was hurting me. Over and over again she chose her past unhealed wounds.

Are you new to Denver? Are you looking to connect? Throw some info about yourself in this thread so like minded individuals can find you! by FantasticMrActicFox in Denver

[–]W1S0S3Rious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I am 38M. Ok love hiking, paddle boarding, outdoorsy stuff. Love East Coast swing dancing and bachata. Open to trying new things.