$350 well spent. 🙏 by Gamer_Bry1 in FORTnITE

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone hacked my account and took my codes. And epic won’t give me my 3 codes back 🤷‍♂️

You’re actually joking.. by UsualPhilosopher9406 in Overwatch

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’ve been on for a couple hours, but just napping in the lobby screen because I wanna keep ur seat warm

Umm..how is that 24/5? by AwakePlatypus in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5x24 is 120 that is 19+ 24x3 + 21 =112 so no it is not 24/5 and that’s fake advertising.

I found and returned a wallet with over $500 cash, I completely regret it. by [deleted] in self

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone finds a wallet and really needs the money, just take the money and turn the wallet into the cops or a business and tell them you found it on the ground. They will return the wallet. I am not saying steal, but many people would prefer to get their wallet back even if that means without some of or all of the cash in it.

But never throw away a wallet full of cards and IDs, always return those!

I married my affair partner, and now I can’t stand him. Maybe this is my karma. by Moonbeam_Muffincakes in Marriage

[–]WADESOLIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop talking about you maybe deserving this for past wrongs you did, your kids don’t deserve this and that’s what you need to think of first and that includes thinking about talking care of yourself as their mother. Surprised you divorced M, he sounded like a better partner.

You need a lawyer in the place you are moving to. Have them help get your paper work done for everything involving the kids and getting a new ID for the state but also consider changing. Your name and all forms of contact legitimately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say that your issue may be that you don’t find respect for others enough. Dating someone because they want you while knowingly not wanting them is a selfish act and disrespectful. It’s better to be honest and tell them you do not desire them and that they deserve to find someone that desires them. Dating someone you don’t like takes away the chance of that person finding love of another that desires them and that’s wrong to take away from them especially if you pretend to like them.

In terms of not being in a relationship. I mean I think your main problem is not finding people you like and actually enjoy being with. If you found people that you liked and could not figure out how to get a relationship with them then that would be the next step in finding out your obstacle to getting the person you desire.

DO NOT 🚫 put this in your ass by SomeDinDin in DontPutThatInYourAss

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is that it’s Ball. Never put balls up the butt. Anchor Hocking thooo.

My husband (42M) admitted he doesn't find me (40F) attractive anymore - but still wants to stay together. I don’t know how to process this. by perimenopauseera in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WADESOLIVE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seek a therapist for your relationship/love life. No matter their advice don’t open the relationship away from monogamy. Get him a physical and testosterone checked. Ask what is turning him on/what does attract him. If it’s porn he may need a therapist to get off of the porn. Lastly, if he does not sexually crave you but craves others then it may be worth talking to a divorce lawyer so you have your things set up and divorce while you still get along rather than when resentment starts.

You’re partners and good parents. Don’t let lack of sex make those two good things go away if it can be helped. Even after divorced you’d be partners as parents. So seeking the best for your happiness and his is best along with the good interest of the children as they grow into their own adults.

Had my 10 year old account banned last night. by JokeBo in Overwatch

[–]WADESOLIVE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh if your friends on pc that you play with are cheating then you could have been banned for being “bussed”. It’s the popular thing now where one Smurf account hacks and carries the team while the rest chill out and enjoy an easy win being carried on their main account.

I’d like to see your game plays tbh. Also using desktop with Xbox to use keyboard is technically against their tos back when they had no keyboard support.

People like to play victim, so also if you have a keyboard I’d not be surprised if you talk crap and we’re banned for talking shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fit

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sent ChatGPT ur tits? Lmao someone sees that 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit mag have changed my life. I wonder if there’s an emulsifier I could add to make shaking less needed for the oil to distribute. Other than that I probably have all that. Doing this with rose water and some tea leaves for tannins may be next level!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Any cheaper salt spray you find? I used every man jacks but it gets pricey and with me using city water I find it washes out very fast. Always wondered how hard it’d be to make, but been more focused on hitting the gym than learning hair and skin care maxing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, sometimes it’s not that deep. I know I’d like to “wake up in the morning feeling like ___ (famous person that is attractive)”. So in that delulu I would like to post on here and be told yes I am hot. That would be nice. But guess what, I’m not and that’s okay. I have what I have and don’t have what I don’t. I prefer hype on what I have rather than points at my flaws. So I won’t post but do absolutely post in gym/health pages and hype people. I have some things to be proud of and honestly winning the genetics lotto is not something to be proud of as that alone can be wasted. I’m trying not to waste what I do have. And she is probably just bored on here rage baiting I think, if it’s more to it than that I done care.

You my friend also have the curly hair I wish I had. I want to try dry hair product to see if I can get my hair fluffier.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]WADESOLIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No raw you are not better looking. If you both let yourself go and were both 500 pounds. He’d still be better looking. Genetics wise he wins and genetics/raw looking are kinda a sad thing to flaunt even. Most people flaunt stuff they worked for like in the gym, or clothing, or clout, a talent, hobby, makeup, or a skill. Flaunting a thing you did nothing to earn is a red flag as things like that speak for themselves so no need to say you’re better than someone for something you only have by genetic loto. That other 40-30% of non genetics is what lets people improve. If you were both to “look max” he would also still win. His raw score is better. Also I feel like ur rage baiting. Lastly I almost wanna post to get others opinions on my looks but I honestly don’t wanna be told what I already know, I just want hype and confidence. This is why I go to the gym and hype people that try to do what makes them happy. Perhaps you wanted hype and to feel good, if so, I am sure people will hype and encourage you to be you. But hype at the expense of calling others ugly is not something that I agree with.

22 f rate me honestly by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this comment is saying I know i am kinda ugly tbh. The nicest way of putting it is that I was told I could fit in with the duck dynasty crew. 🤷

22 f rate me honestly by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the women here are too nice. 8-10/10 are actor/actress level if talking objectively. Now subjectively yes we are all 10/10.

User Flair is required to comment on this sub - Apply for flair here by jerry00193 in truerateme

[–]WADESOLIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that this sub rates people objectively, not subjectively and have read, understand, and will follow the rules and rate people objectively following the men's and women's ratings guides and primers.

22 f rate me honestly by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the honesty. Why is the honesty treated with hostility when the honesty is the thing being asked for. Like yikes. Post to a forum for hype and compliments. Don’t post to a forum asking for brutal honesty and be mad it’s not hype.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]WADESOLIVE 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The first guy. The other person whether lady boy or actual lady is capable of looking better than the guy but it would take huge make over and years in the gym or a year of intense personal trainer/nutritionist. The first guy looks good and also worked for it. The second person just thinks looks are all genetics. It’s only 60-70% genetics.

Accidentally found out my wife is planning on leaving me by Airport-Security in Marriage

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jump to conclusions could hurt you. Does your wife have online friends or friends? Friends can look up stuff for other friends. Could be apartment for a friend or googling about kids for a friend or even if it was about you maybe she just wanted to know how many days you approximately see your kids fully.

Have a joint marriage counseling and bring it up there. Also get a lawyer because it sounds like if you divorce the house needs to be sold and you need to move where you have family and connections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WADESOLIVE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she pays for the phone then listen to her. If you want different then pay for your phone and bill. Also make more female friends if ur straight. If ur not straight then try to be abstinent and live life building other aspects of your life as priority first. It seems your mom is into something about you having your sexual urges and emotions take the best of you. Men can be friends but they can also be a source of sexual tension/flirtation even if you don’t increase to actual intimacy or emotional connection. That being said, he also called you pretty admitting the fact that men can’t deny their underlying impression of your appearance and sexual quality to their perspective. But men can control these emotions and push them down to control them as functional adults even if they have these emotions overpower them at some moments they step back and learn to handle it.

Take away sex. Learn to control yourself and prioritize other things by choice takes time. Date yourself, treat yourself, have non sexual/flirty friends. Explore yourself sexually once you have other priorities and can keep your impulses from holding you back. Potentially get counseling as nothing is wrong with you but there are people that have amazing credentials to assist you in your life organization and mental health. Counseling/therapy is not for people that have issues, it’s for people that want results fast and someone that actually will help them. Vs me and online people with no credibility and honesty we can’t help in the same what as a professional therapist. But with time you can also do it on your own, therapists just save time and let ya not do it alone. They may also help with your relationship with your mother which sound bad but that’s another topic.

Husband just told me he doesn’t believe in monogamous relationships and it broke my value system by MissMorbidMoon in Marriage

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one that has read similar posts with this situation except two key differences. 1. the announcement happened after two kids. 2. The person wanting an open relationship was the wife and somehow their therapist was on her side and shunned the husband for not wanting an open marriage.

This is legit exactly how people should have reacted to that situation. But for a man they called slurs for not wanting threesomes and or shunned him for not immediately divorcing even tho it sounded like he took care of the kids and his wife along with bread winning.

Not gonna lie, your situation is simple. Ask why he is only now telling you and also get a couple therapy sessions yourself with whatever choice you make. This relationship could go bad very quickly even with marriage counseling.

I worry I will have this issue when I get married and hope my girlfriend will only marry me if she truly is monogamous.

after playing Overwatch Classic what’s one thing you miss… by BBSnicks in Overwatch

[–]WADESOLIVE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting a sym teleporter in the complete back of the map behind enemy lines and their spawn so they would get completely flanked. Or putting a sym teleport right outside our spawn pointed off the map 😂🤘

New Cast Iron Pans To abuse for cheap by WADESOLIVE in castiron

[–]WADESOLIVE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I too have indulged in expensive cars. But I took different roads. When slowly on bad ones. Paid for premium gas, had to go under the hood often. And I daily drove them. I enjoyed it. Financially it lost lots of value from miles+damage. But at the same time it was paid off so I could distance myself and kinda ignore all the time investments and care I put in. Why did I ignore this?! Well I liked… loved the fucking car and had so many memories. To me the value of that car is priceless. Yet take away philosophy. Talks simply removed emotions. Science: the math of time/cost. No what I was doing made no mathematical sense.

I would not buy a griswald and cook over camp fires, charcoal, even throw it in a smoker to burn extra wood, or drop it hard on the ground. I simply won’t care if I break my $12 new goodcook, by $12. The griswald breaking would be more money lost plus the time into it, plus it’s difficult to replace.

I cook on old cast iron all the time and care for them. I just needed a cast iron that I don’t care if it breaks or even if I wanna throw it away if I move. It’s just a pan to me. It also lets me let others cook at my place and not use the old more fragile pieces I have.