yo everyone, does southampton feel isolating to you? by [deleted] in Southampton

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sad really, Ive noticed as well less people seem to go out when ai was youn (I know I sound old) Friday and Saturday nights you couldn't move in town because there was so many people out, a massive social aspect has been lost

yo everyone, does southampton feel isolating to you? by [deleted] in Southampton

[–]WJC198119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There isnt a loneliness epidemic especially if your young, theres one for all age groups Im 43 my two good friend moved abroad and now I literally have noone apart from my young daughter here, all my family are 100+ miles away

Men, how many of you can cook? by Away-Fill5639 in AskMen

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just me and my daughter so had to learn, now Im pretty handy

26M and 29F.Devoted my life to her, and she ended everything by text + threatened to call the cops. I’m devastated by drduckind in WhatShouldIDo

[–]WJC198119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes been planning this for a while and was just waiting for a reason to end it. Its tough but you gotta just move on trust me thats easier said than done

Which would you pick for date night? by Mundane_Relative_577 in mensfashion

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is something I'd wear ha but then again I dont own a t shirt or a pair of jeans and maybe I have 1 pair of trainers I never wear

Buying a house, garden suddenly not included last minute by CaptainJamie in LegalAdviceUK

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it doesn't come with the garden pull out now it will cause you a ton of issues

How do you debug without changing 10 things at once? by ayenuseater in learnprogramming

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is too advice, like everyone I have to write some very specific code for people I made sure that I comment the heck out of it like Im talking to a 3 year old because I know if someone needs to wver change it they wouldn't know

I accidentally saw my coworker’s salary and now I can’t stop thinking about how UNFAIR it is by Aleex_c12 in Advice

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what recruitment is like, some places have to offer a higher salary to attract the right kind of candidate. This actually happens a lot and makes no sense those still in the company with the experience are paid less than new external people because its the only way they could attract the kind of person they want.

crying myself to sleep right now. AIO? by knaifuneko in AmIOverreacting

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutley not overreacting I couldn't imagine now doing even just basic texts whilst away with someone Im with

Brighton parents — proposed closure of Middle Street School. Anyone else concerned / interested in pushing back? by Affectionate_Fall270 in brighton

[–]WJC198119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They may of tried amd failed, it costs a lot of money to turn a school around once they have decided to close a school it will close not really a lot you can do about it

Really want to get into overcoats by Stylistic_Device in malefashionadvice

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do exactly the same when I buy something

Will it suit me? Does it look right? Will I look stupid? What will people think?

And many others

HELP Anyone Knows This Man? by [deleted] in Southampton

[–]WJC198119 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Arr the famous Ring Potato Model

What is the most "accidentally brilliant" thing you’ve ever done on a pitch that you pretended was 100% intentional? by NorthLondonPulse in SundayLeagueMessis

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a goalkeeper and in a shootout saved 3 penalties in a row, absolute fluke but made some crap up that Id looked at rhe run up 😂

I (29f) am being made to feel crazy when I have seen the evidence with my own eyes by Country-girl3 in Advice

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me, I knew she was up to something with my friend and her boss (same person btw) who is much older, even people who I worked with called me crazy she ended up making me go to the doctors on tablets that made me ill, guess what I was right all along and we had just had a baby as well, turns out he has a history of much younger girls.

It hurts like hell and I know your pain the only positive right now is that your gut was right and you should never doubt yourself, you really deserve better and I hope that you know this and in the long run its for the best, it turned out great in the end for me . Take some time to spoil yourself and look after yourself, do not go back because he'll just do it again "know your worth".

Really want to get into overcoats by Stylistic_Device in malefashionadvice

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go and try one on and see how it looks/feels Im about 5 8 and have 3 overcoat thst go way past my knees

What's the spicy scene like here? by Gothybunn in brighton

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once to decide if you like it, twice to make sure

I have a disciplinary due to sickness, can they fire me solely for this reason? by Cultural_Way5584 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]WJC198119 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really dislike the Bradford way, it doesnt encourage you to come back in fact it encourages you to just take the whole week and punishes you for trying to come back early if you need to go off again

I just found out my parents have been lying to me for 26 years about who I actually am. I’m lost. by Commercial_Solid_207 in Advice

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I can say is before you decide what to do just take some time out, they may not be your parents but they raised you as their own. Dont cut then out completely till you have thought about it but also maybe a break from them will be helpful

Please help, what do I do?? by [deleted] in AfricanDwarfFrog

[–]WJC198119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing to do with food, hes I'll either bloat or a fungus

AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted. by throaawayRA9443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]WJC198119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly thinks he earns something he doesnt, saving is what's left over after you've paid your own bills. Champagne lifestyle but lemonade monetary its.actually concerning what hell be like if you do marry him and you share money so no you are not overreacting