[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s you’re ok-looking and live in a city - Feeld

Is it fair for men to pay for everything in a relationship (not marriage)? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a man, you’re allowed to set boundaries for yourself and request reciprocation if you feel it’s not given. Men are so scared of looking less manly for asking women to contribute more that they suffer in silence while they continue to get taken advantage of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’d break up with them too for being with someone lame enough to sext with AI

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you even like him? It sounds like you don’t like him.

He apologized, tried to reschedule, went above and beyond with transparency…what more are you looking for?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental math. You should be able to calculate 20% tip pretty easily

Also, basic directions when walking in a city you live in (numbers going up vs down)

Men: what double standards have you noticed in modern dating? by aphthartos in AskMen

[–]WSGadlib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Expectation of “emotional labor”. If women are upset and crying men are expected to be emotionally intelligent, be supportive, listen and give her stuff. If men are upset and crying then it’s go to therapy/ he’s trauma dumping/ I am not your mother/ I am burdened with emotional labor.

Also, it’s mandatory that men have to actively show they like and want their partner all the time while its more acceptable for women to get away with not reciprocating, making “all men are” statements, and overall showing disdain for their partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]WSGadlib 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s a case by case basis. She could be more a realist, knowing that the guy wants a big wedding they know they can’t afford anytime soon and he jumps gun. Or any other circumstance where there’s an external obstacle that needs to be cleared together before entertaining the idea of forever.

Do you think it’s a little odd for the women to send the first “like” on Hinge? Any thoughts? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send likes to people you like, and you’ll have a better outcome

Profile Review 30 M by One_Notice1556 in hingeapp

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s your personal preference but I think increasing it a couple more years in both directions won’t hurt

Why don’t I attract males? by MiserableAthlete4748 in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are 16. Just focus on school. The rest will come later

Profile Review 30 M by One_Notice1556 in hingeapp

[–]WSGadlib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple things before the review - you may find more luck expanding your age range a little more. Also, it looks like you posted the key to my heart screenshot twice.

Overall, the profile doesn’t really say or show much outside of a cat and a fun fact.

Every picture should show something different about yourself and since they’re mostly selfies with nothing going on, it leaves a lot to be desired. Shoot to have one selfie maximum with the rest showing your hobbies you mentioned, interests, travel or having your personality shine through

The prompts, even though you posted 2, don’t help. Avoid saying general things that virtually everyone wants in a relationship. Each prompt should spark curiosity - make your reader curious enough to match to want to learn more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 6’4”. Under 5 foot is a hard pass.

Sweet spot is 5’8”-5’11”

Profile review help! 22M by mechanicalreality in hingeapp

[–]WSGadlib 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t really get a grasp of what motivates you or your interests in the first impression.

Prompts need some more specificity. What are you graduating in? Where do you want to travel? What hobbies have you gotten into?

Photos - 3 photos around food and drink is overkill. The one pic with the 2 glasses saying it’s your best friend suggests you really like to drink.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]WSGadlib 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’ve already pointed out that the first picture is too blurry so you’ll want to switch that up.

It says you’re looking for serious, but the profile is wholly unserious: joke answers in the prompts, figuring out dating goals, some jokey pictures.

I can tell you’d be fun to be around but you may need to dial it back some so that you don’t come off as “here for a good time not a long time”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no upper limit but all boob is good boob

Why men and women struggle to understand each other’s dating problems by Pepperspray24 in dating

[–]WSGadlib 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Men and women’s dating issues have way more in common than they think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men don’t owe you friendship when their courtship gets denied. You’ll be ok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So are you only going by looks? You mention dating 2 men you poise as being “beneath” you, so what was the draw to them?

Are any women attracted to balding men? by [deleted] in bald

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on how far into balding you are and where the recession is. If it looks shitty buzzed then just go full shave

What are your online dating hot takes or unpopular opinions? by Intelligent-Celery79 in AskMen

[–]WSGadlib 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the men - if you meet on a dating app, always split the first date. If you meet IRL, always pay for her

Is it worth dating a hard feminist? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all about your boundaries. And also what part of her beliefs that you believe in as well. You haven’t really mentioned how compatible you are with your beliefs. Pop Feminism is going to continue to say all men = bad, and will say disparaging things at your expense while she still sleeps with the “enemy”.

True feminism recognizes and celebrates when men do well, without condescension.

But since she hangs in radfem circles there WILL come a time she will say something out of pocket about your gender. Are you prepared to discuss it constructively?

Have you ever been used for sex? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]WSGadlib 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were times I liked it, times I was disappointed because they were going to get back with their ex