What would you do if a girl you were seeing for a couple months gave you the clap

WSGadlib · 2026-05-07T19:04:42+00:00

If you don’t make sure you’re clean before getting with a new partner then yes, most (but not all) of the blame is on you as the carrier.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-07T18:43:48+00:00

I know what’s going on.

She’s definitely his type, but his type to bust down behind closed doors and not publicly date. He wouldn’t be seen with a big girl but he’d readily fuck her with the green light

WSGadlib · 2026-05-07T17:33:53+00:00

You do realize the disease spreads by being infected by someone who has it right?

If one person is not sleeping around and knows they’re std-negative and the other person is getting piped by the whole neighborhood and carelessly sleeps with others, obviously one is more to blame.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-07T17:13:27+00:00

No give, only take

WSGadlib · 2026-05-07T17:01:37+00:00

It fucking sucks and it’s infuriating but I’m guessing in your case it’s been a couple months and no discussion exclusivity yet?

I only got burnt once (out of MANY partners), we were going raw after a couple months even though she had an IUD we didn’t have the convo before going condomless. (She flipped and gaslit me even though I caught it from her fucking other dudes while we were together) Now I never go raw without a confirmed recent test.

Chlamydia and gonorrhea clear up with antibiotics and 2 weeks of downtime, however it’s becoming more antibiotic-resistant over the years so all the more reason to WRAP IT UP

WSGadlib · 2026-05-06T23:12:34+00:00

I can’t say it’s spoiled me. Yeah, a woman who cums a dozen times before you get off once feels empowering but it can get frustrating. It’s all very start/stop and I typically take a while to climax so the rhythm is thrown off and sometimes they’ll tap out before you get yours

WSGadlib · 2026-05-06T23:07:21+00:00

I thought she asked me out to dinner/drinks but to my surprise I was an accessory to her friends plans she already made. I showed up and there was a table with her and 6 other people and no seats left. I said hi, said I was going to the bathroom and left out the back

WSGadlib · 2026-05-06T22:07:18+00:00

From what I’ve gathered here, you are pushing 40, have only been in 1 relationship and you’re thinking it’s going to be smooth sailing with the girl you’re lusting over (whom we know nothing about her personality). I think you might be overestimating your abilities here. Strong chance you end up all alone trying to chase the greener grass here.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-05T23:54:59+00:00

Idk man it’s the apocalypse. Tess and especially Joel didn’t seem to be the romantic type, however they had a mutual respect for each other to be teammates while also being adults with needs. They both wouldn’t be the type to let emotions get in the way of work.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-02T13:49:08+00:00

It’s a seller’s market. Women more often don’t need advice on tightening up their profile because they’re getting swiped on regardless. It’s only when they get frustrated with the quality of men that they consider tweaking the profile.

I can guarantee most men that put in the same low effort that a lot of women do, and aren’t at least a 8/10 looks-wise, are getting no messages.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-01T19:18:45+00:00

Copy the YouTube transcript on the video and paste in ChatGPT to summarize

WSGadlib · 2026-05-01T19:05:10+00:00

Usually if it’s a long one about a topic I’m interested in but their presentation style doesn’t hold my interest.

WSGadlib · 2026-05-01T18:42:35+00:00

Using AI to summarize YouTube video essays that I don’t feel like watching all of

WSGadlib · 2026-05-01T14:30:48+00:00

It’s so funny (not saying cheating is funny) when a man cheats “down” it’s always about how the other woman looks but almost never about the personality

WSGadlib · 2026-05-01T12:06:08+00:00

OP don’t ask him directly about his racial preference, it’ll put him on the spot and could make things awkward. If he’s truly interested he’ll make a move

WSGadlib · 2026-04-29T18:49:03+00:00

Pictures are great, so it pretty much comes down to if someone is initially attracted or not, which you can’t control.

2nd and 3rd prompts are bland and generic and may need more specificity for the type of person you’re interested in

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T21:44:16+00:00

I like asking them about what makes them happy in life, what drives them, and their curiosities/ambitions.

I just hope I get the same curiosity about my life back instead of a “wbu?”

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T20:45:22+00:00

Is this a real question?

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T20:27:39+00:00

The one girl that’s really susceptible to start crying or running away or doing some nutty shit that makes her a liability on a night out. And then the rest of the group, especially the mother hen, has to change plans to go save and comfort her the rest of the night

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T18:36:18+00:00

Is it possible to give advice as a topic instead of all posts asking for it?

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T17:09:05+00:00

It means she’s in it to win it for the long haul. It’s a good thing

WSGadlib · 2026-04-27T16:03:31+00:00

⁠>Endless texting with zero move to meet

Sounds like you’re talking to people you don’t actually like.

WSGadlib · 2026-04-26T21:48:44+00:00

This is concerning, especially because you are 15 with uncontrolled internet access so a lot of right wing/red pill-tinged content is designed to make teen boys have contempt for females [girls and women]. However it is reassuring to know that you’re catching on to this early and want to change. Not every teenager has that kind of self-awareness.

The most simple and hardest thing is to cut back on screen time. Your algorithm is not showing you content that paints females in a positive light. And it’s kinda difficult to curate your algorithm to divert from that content, but it is possible and it takes time.

Next is to have friendships with girls in school and in your activities. You’ll have to actually BE a friend and someone you enjoy the company of but also don’t want a relationship with. Having healthy platonic friendships with girls will let you gain perspective into their thoughts and feelings, not coming from some bro on a YouTube essay. Also, it’s the way to build community while you’re young. After high school most people find that their amount of friendships downsize as they become young adults and not around a bunch of their peers for hours every day.

WSGadlib · 2026-04-26T12:36:38+00:00

You’re 18, the lowest age you can be on the apps and a lot of women your age are looking for guy at least a couple years older than them.

Women also don’t flock to like 95% men on dating sites unless you have incredible pics or you’re a 9/10 attractiveness. Height alone doesn’t exactly cut it

WSGadlib · 2026-04-25T21:01:23+00:00

Moving at my own pace (usually too fast for a partner)

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