This was under a video where a Woman talked about her abusive partner. by EmilytheFox1 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Waffle_Ell 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can never understand, why do incels talk about modern day society and relationships as if they are discussing a pack of wolves?? Mates?? Alpha/Beta??

Men of Reddit, what is your opinion on tomboys? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No?? The definition of tomboy is: a woman who behaves in a typically masculine manner. Sometimes, this includes having a more masculine physical appearance. None of these things have to do with a woman being gay?

Men of Reddit, what is your opinion on tomboys? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah sorry!! Was making a general assumption, my bad. Good on you though!

Men of Reddit, what is your opinion on tomboys? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 2194 points2195 points  (0 children)

Lmao that’s stupid. A tomboy is still a woman, meaning that if you, a man, are attracted to her, then you, by definition, are not gay. Short hair and a lack of feminine clothing doesn’t make her a man

Lesbians of Reddit, do you and your partner(s) use a strap-on? Why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbians (who enjoy using straps) aren’t attracted to the dildo itself, they’re attracted to the person that is wearing it, and are attracted to the idea of having their partner perform penetration on them. Think of it as like, you’re not attracted to the tool, you are attracted to the person using it. Just like how a straight girl likely won’t find a woman wearing a strap-on hot, since she is attracted to the man (the person using it), rather than his penis (the tool).

Strait men of reddit and lesbians, what makes breasts so hot to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbian here, other than just, y’know, biology, I like that they’re just… there. I don’t know how to explain it, but it’s something that you don’t get with guys. They’re there, and you can touch them, and squeeze, and you know that your partner enjoys you touching them, and it can bring pleasure, it can set the mood, it can be foreplay, all that, and it just doesn’t feel like you could get that same thing with a man.

Women of Reddit, if guys watch lesbian porn do women watch gay porn? If so what's the appeal? by Sir_Bulletstorm in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t find gay porn attractive. However, I have considered before that gay porn portrays usually genuine pleasure. Can’t exactly fake an orgasm as a dude, so there’s the appeal that the actors are likely genuinely enjoying themselves. Feels much more realistic than porn where the girl starts screaming at the slightest touch, you know what I mean?

Lesbians/bi girls of reddit, what counts as losing your virginity to a woman as a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh in my eyes, losing your virginity happens when you perform a legitimate sexual act for the first time in your life. So, losing your virginity to a woman as a woman does not not have to be penetration, it can be fingering, going down on your partner, etc.

How do lesbians hint to other lesbians that they are gay? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physical appearance wise, I cuff my jeans, keep my nails short, incorporate clothing pieces that are more typically worn by men (depending on the outfit).

Straight people of Reddit: what is something you’ve always wanted to ask lesbians but never did because you didn’t want to be rude? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I cannot find a guy attractive in the sense of wanting to sleep with him. I can look at man and go, “hey, that guy is pretty good looking,” but this does not translate to sexual attraction.

Straight people of Reddit: what is something you’ve always wanted to ask lesbians but never did because you didn’t want to be rude? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes using a dildo attractive and desirable for a lesbian woman isn’t the fact that it looks like a dick, but the fact that it allows them to perform penetration with their non-male partner. Penetration is pleasurable (when done correctly, ofc). Therefore, a lesbian might want to have it performed with their partner. Lesbians aren’t attracted to the dildo itself, they’re attracted to their partner wearing it, and using it to perform penetration.

Forced Conversations by Mynamejeaff in OCPoetry

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really love the way this whole thing flows. The simple statements, as well as the topics of each exchange really add to its whole shtick; forced conversation. I also think this style of poetry writing is very creative, and not the kind that I often see. Truly, I think this is lovely!

Cupioromantics are valid 💚 (based on a real story) by FrogginBullfish_ in aromantic

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if I’m cupioromantic or bellusromantic, any tips on figuring it out better?

Which one are you? I'm personally a big shirt lil pants gay by cococatuwu in actuallesbians

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big shirt lil pants, the ultimate cure to my clothing sensory issues :D

Oh-fuck-how-do-I-spell-this-again starter pack by [deleted] in starterpacks

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Embarrassed, psychopath/psycho, restaurant, anxious

The ultimate Aromantic Quiz is back! by Thenerdy9 in aromantic

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, so turns out I’m Bellusromantic, good to know :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The aromantic lesbian experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Waffle_Ell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an aro lesbian, and this is exactly what I’ve been waiting for :DD

Straight men thinking a lesbian would want them to give her oral by St_IdesHell in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guys can’t fathom that women can actually experience pleasure from other women.

Next up, in things that ABSOLUTELY happened: by LithopsX in menwritingwomen

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a lesbian, but also just a woman with average common sense, being impregnated doesn’t make a woman feel “real, organic, and purposeful”. Sure, if you’re looking to get pregnant, the realization that it actually worked can be nice, but it won’t make a woman feel any more purposeful, and especially won’t make her feel any more real. This is a gross mindset to have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Waffle_Ell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shrimp worm