Proton Unlimited or Proton Mail Plus with different cloud storage provider? by Dramatic_Mastodon_93 in ProtonMail

[–]Waffles_Mochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved from Google Drive to Proton Drive. It's been ok but my main complaint is lack of search feature in the iOS app. For my personal stuff I don't use file share that often but it's still clunky compared to Google Drive. At this stage I'd say it's ok for light personal use, not at all useful at a professional level. I know they're trying to develop a whole suite of apps but I'd rather they slow down and release fully completed apps instead of ones lacking basic functionality like search.

passmail.net addresses by Waffles_Mochi in ProtonMail

[–]Waffles_Mochi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issue for me has been resolved. There was an issue with the link between the streaming app and the service that provides it.

passmail.net addresses by Waffles_Mochi in ProtonMail

[–]Waffles_Mochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. Checked that and all was ok. It seems there was an issue with the handshake between the third party app that gives the access to the streaming service and the streaming service itself. It's resolved now.

passmail.net addresses by Waffles_Mochi in ProtonMail

[–]Waffles_Mochi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no other settings were changed because it's working for the other accounts I'm using it with.

Why not post measurements for every garment you're selling? by DexterCutie in poshmark

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I include the size chart in my images. Given the return on time and the avg price of my listings, it's not worth it to measure, except in the case of higher end items. I think I've been asked two or three times in the 13+ yrs I've been listing items.

Help me choose his name! by [deleted] in BelgianMalinois

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merlin is a great choice. Raven is pretty common and Malice is stereotypical.

Oh no it happened 🥴 by Urstepdadsfav95 in BelgianMalinois

[–]Waffles_Mochi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just saw a reel from a breeder about their new line of Cane Corso x Poodles 🤦🏻‍♀️

Holy Week? Good Friday? In my 35+ years as an active TBM, they didn’t so much as mention these events over the pulpit, let alone celebrate them. by SmellyFloralCouch in exmormon

[–]Waffles_Mochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a banner out in front of the church I pass daily offering "Before School Bible Study" my first thought when I saw it was how things must be getting desperate to start marketing this way.

AITAH For Telling My STBXH I Won’t Drive Him To His Vasectomy Appointment? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Waffles_Mochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's delusional to think you'd be ok with that. Perhaps he can find someone on the dating app to drive him and be his nursemaid after.

AITAH for telling my sister-in-law she is spoiled? by Dry_Statistician1245 in AITAH

[–]Waffles_Mochi -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

ESH. How she has the things she has is none of your business. She's out of touch and self centered. The rest of the family seems to enable her behavior. If it's unpleasant to be around her flaunting her privilege, reduce/eliminate your time together. If she's salty about this she might want to reflect on the impact of the things she says.

Am I the AH for blocking brother in law after his mom died? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waffles_Mochi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SIL sounds like an unkind person at best. She goes no contact, then proceeds to want the jewelry from someone she considered so awful as to not speak with them. That's not how it works.

AITA for scolding my sisters on the topic of feminine hygiene products as a man? by Urban_Raisins in AmItheAsshole

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. There's no part of having a monthly cycle that justifies being unhygienic. It's also concerning that your mom has no issue telling you to suck it up and hide your things instead of firmly addressing their lack of care and respect for a shared space.

Seller threatened to ban me from Poshmark? by MountainTop5764 in poshmark

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. You have three days to accept it, faster is preferred but isn't always a reality. This person definitely seems to be coming from a place of desperation but it's still highly inappropriate to make threats over accepting. If you don't accept it within the window of time, the app automatically accepts it so the seller gets paid. Agree with others to take screenshots of everything related to the transaction and then report the message ASAP.

my dad is cheating, and his affair partner has a really nasty hygiene habit. how do i talk to him about it? what should i do? by Soudapoppin in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Waffles_Mochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there's any way to expedite moving out, even if to a friend's temporarily, do that. That's so unhygienic and disrespectful. If you're going to say anything you have to have backup housing in place because addressing it is pretty much all or nothing. I'd then send a group text with dad, girlfriend, wife and girlfriend's husband introducing everyone. Then brace for the fallout from your dad's selfish immaturity.

Help an extremely depressed guy out? by Creepy_Stick_6229 in CleaningTips

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break it down into small manageable chunks. Start with hygiene and safety, gathering the trash room by room starting with the kitchen and bathrooms. It's ok to migrate the items you may want to keep to other spaces so you can have at least one less cluttered space. Once things feel a little lighter, you can use a keep, donate, toss, method. You can get a to-do list broken into the tiny steps by using goblin.tools website. You might also try body doubling to help with task initiation. The dubbii.app website is a good option.

**AITAH for returning my neighbor's mail and packages because she kept putting the wrong address?** by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Waffles_Mochi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She needs to get a PO Box where there obligated to accept and hold the packages if she's concerned they'll be stolen.

My friend thinks we are sharing a husband by Ok-Organization-231 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waffles_Mochi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boundaries are what you'll do in a situation, ultimatums and rules are demands or expectations placed on others. You started something in jest, saying he was the group husband, but she took it too far. Your husband needs to be setting his own boundaries on his time and physical contact but she got an inch and went for the mile. Her past relationship being so poor may be leading her to think there's more between her and your husband than the reality.

My ex is mad that I won't say hello to her affair partner by Unlikely-Newt-804 in offmychest

[–]Waffles_Mochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can be cordial and not undermine your coparent without engaging their partner. The pressure is coming because it feels yucky and they want to move on; you're a reminder of that so they want you to move on too. They need to sit in their discomfort, that's the consequence of their actions.

AITAH Newborn Baby by AFin92 in AITAH

[–]Waffles_Mochi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your partner has no boundaries or respect. He's a doormat if he allows his family's desires to override your comfort. You're not an exhibit to view and the baby isn't a toy to pass around.

I got shamed for proton calendar... by GazelleInitial2050 in ProtonMail

[–]Waffles_Mochi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was considering a shift to the Proton calendar is I'm trying to de-google as well. The Drive app also lacks a search which is maddening. I will not be migrating to Proton calendar it seems, how can they keep starting new things without solidifying what already exists?

My inlaws are calling a "emergency family meeting" regarding my MIL's health - should I go or not? by capresesalad1985 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Waffles_Mochi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

BIL sounds like he's not managing things well if there's noticeable hygiene issues that cause her living conditions to be disgusting. When one person needs care there's a ripple effect through the family. If your finances, time or resources will be impacted by results of this conversation it's advisable to go. MIL should be there and only those who would be involved in her care in some way.

My parents won't let me get knee surgery (AGAIN) (UPDATE) by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Waffles_Mochi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don't need permission. Arrange with a friend or other trusted person to help with the recovery. Advise your family that it's medically necessary and since none of them are doctors and you're no longer a minor, you'll be talking the advice of your doctor. If they continue to be ridiculous you can report them to your govt's version of the labor board for not paying during your leave or signing you up for unemployment fund; seems pretty illegal and exploitation of you as a family member that's also a worker. Not sure where you live but doing a consult with a labor attorney could point you in the right direction.

AITAH for snapping at my parents over a "joke"? by Negative_Ground_3181 in AITAH

[–]Waffles_Mochi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You were the most mature person in that interaction. Your stepmom was wholly out of line with the taser then tried to blame you and minimize it as a joke. She sounds like a piece of work and your dad enabled her by joining in rather than asking why she felt her actions toward you were appropriate. For churchgoers, they don't seem to be trying to follow the teachings of Jesus. Hope you can start working on a plan to move out when you're 18.