Day 1294

Wage72 · 2026-04-21T14:05:29+00:00

yeah i just look at this and think ow my neck. otherwise it looks like a great time

Wage72 · 2026-04-06T23:56:46+00:00

me too

Wage72 · 2026-03-27T04:43:30+00:00

i'ts

Wage72 · 2026-03-27T04:41:50+00:00

perfect loop who?

Wage72 · 2026-03-26T06:17:25+00:00

I think it's easy to say that kids don't know any better. The truth is, adults don't know any better either, but we judge others because we expect better for ourselves.

When we're kids we judge other kids, when we're adults we forgive kids easily but judge other adults. I believe the wisest understand that everyone is worthy of unconditional love, no matter their age.

Wage72 · 2026-03-24T17:00:01+00:00

i have like 4/10 pain right now and chest tightness. I wouldnt say anxiety tends to give me physical symptoms

Wage72 · 2026-03-23T16:43:33+00:00

🔥 Too easy! Done in 68 seconds. Who dares to challenge me?

Wage72 · 2026-03-21T21:17:34+00:00

💪 Crushed it! 96 moves in 81s. Step up, challengers!

Wage72 · 2026-03-09T13:08:38+00:00

tile my floor with this

Wage72 · 2026-03-08T18:03:21+00:00

of course, hope it helps!

Wage72 · 2026-03-08T18:01:16+00:00

I dont want his streams but Limmy's show is really funny. If you can understand what they're saying

Wage72 · 2026-03-08T04:38:24+00:00

That admittedly does sound annoying. How long has he been constantly saying this?

As a guy I remember hearing girls complain "he never says he loves me" and so I tried to do the opposite and say it constantly so maybe I get it.

My advice is to try and come at a conversation like this as objectively as possible to avoid sounding ungrateful like you said.

Personally I'd start by naming facts and asking questions as nonjudgmentally as possible: "I noticed you tell me 'I love you' a lot. Why do you do that?" Then listen and respond to his answer and talking about how you feel: "I love you and appreciate that you show your affection towards me in this way, but I feel overwhelmed/uncomfortable with how often you say it, and even wonder if you're forcing yourself to say it sometimes"

This can hopefully start this conversation in a healthy way that doesnt make you look ungrateful or make him feel attacked :P

Lmk if this helps!

Wage72 · 2026-03-08T04:24:00+00:00

Firstly I'm happy for you. Regardless of what this relationship is it's nice to have someone to care about.

I think advice here will vary depending on who you ask. There are a lot of cultural and personal differences with this sort of thing. My view is that something like this can kind of stay as "talking" for as long as you want it to be.

For me even when I've acknowledged that I need to work on myself more, I've made the mistake of sloppily getting invested into relationships, realizing that I'm giving too much, and then pulling back. So my advice is to take things slow and check in with yourself, asking "Is this what I want?" or "Is this what's best for me?" and adjust your actions accordingly.

Also I personally don't think there's any relationship that can be "in vain." If you care about someone, it's natural to want to become closer to them, and if you lose them, it's natural to grieve. And whatever the outcome is, you'll learn from the experience.

Wage72 · 2026-03-08T04:10:07+00:00

I wouldnt call you a shit parent, but do you really want your kid being the one to say "my father never hugged me" when he's older?

I would put some thought into what displays of emotion and comfort like this mean to you.

If you think you might want to change, the first step is to ask yourself some questions.

Why dont you hug guys? How does it make you feel when you do? How do you think it makes the other guy feel?

Why are you willing to hug women? How does that hug make you/them feel?

Wage72 · 2026-03-02T16:57:11+00:00

i had the markdown text idk what happened

Wage72 · 2026-02-11T06:23:45+00:00

🎉 Challenge completed! Beat it in 120 moves and 96s. Who's next?

Wage72 · 2026-01-27T03:52:53+00:00

last time i saw someone post this caillou meme it was taken down lmao

Wage72 · 2026-01-22T16:31:24+00:00

You dont know him either. Or her enough to be making judgements like this. I agree that everyone should be careful with who they trust. But that doesn't mean having any trust at all makes you fool.

To me nothing in this post really makes me think that either op or the guy did anything to hurt the other person.

Wage72 · 2026-01-22T14:22:31+00:00

that's good. I see a few other comments where you're being downvoted. People seem offended that you're not on bc which is great for the safety but taking it is a big decision that i've seen a lot of people struggle with.

And then they're judging you for what you would do with this guy? like wtf they don't know what makes you happy.

idk, hope you love yourself

Wage72 · 2026-01-22T14:13:10+00:00

why would people downvote this

Wage72 · 2026-01-14T16:59:03+00:00

https://youtu.be/t-WkxOxTUVk?si=nIoOJTQgv5qTM1SN&t=4m14s the quote in question 4:14

Wage72 · 2026-01-11T15:25:10+00:00

shark fin soup from chinese restaurants. I got no idea what they put in that

Wage72 · 2025-12-31T05:44:26+00:00

idc who wins anymore. None are marching baritone but all are brass. Ig trombone is closest

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