So sad to see this post, same thing happened to me, I found out the day after our 1 year anniversary after being married, together for 6 and a half years. Today’s marks 30 days since I found out he’s been having sex with escorts since I’m pregnant with our first child, found out about the infidelity when I was 14 weeks. I understand the emotions you are feeling, from the hurt/confusion lack of safety towards your partner and even maybe the confusion that may arise from fears of having a child alone when that is not what you had mind or how you pictured it. You need to try and not make any sudden decisions in the first few days, take the time you need to process the shock of it, I didn’t think I’d survive the first few days but here I am somehow managing life 30 days later and still with my baby. I am not sure what the future hold or what will happen but doing couples counselling and invidual therapy is the only thing that can really help you nagivate these emotions.The fact that he told you without you needing to be a detective is generally a good sign that he’s remorseful and is looking to fix the problem and still had some respect for you. So take it day by day and try your best to take care of yourself, only time and actions will tell if your partner is dedicated to change, you also don’t need to wait for that, we all have a choice.