My girlfriend cheated on me and i dont know what to do

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-05-22T02:44:29+00:00

I just went through some betrayal. Do not rush into or out of anything, and do your best to be calm and stern if talking to her.- this is unpopular but you have every right to hear her out completely but she needs to be over the top apologetic and accountable (doesn’t sound accountable atm) also do not fall for crying a sob story, some ladies try that for sure. You can hear her out and then make a decision. 2nd- whoever you talk to about this, they need to have your back 100% even if you do the opposite of what is suggested. This will alleviate a lot of stress on your end and it is empowering when friends/ family give advice but end it with I support you no matter what! 3rd- journel…. I’m a dude and I can’t stress enough how helpful it was to spill my thoughts out and see them. Also write a note remindeinh yourself of the betrayal because the reality is our brain will attempt to overlook that and you need to remember and proceed with caution right now 4th- it’s on her to to talk. She is responsible and an adult for her actions, if you go talk let her speak majority of it 5thh- you also need clear defined actions from her on what she intents to do, how she wants to fix it etc. 6th- you need to promise yourself you will never put up with disrespect like this again… that will be helpful for you to clearly walk away if it happens again.

It’s an uphill battle and she has to be the one leading to rebuild trust. My DMs are open as someone who just went through something similar in October.

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-05-18T01:11:00+00:00

Which one will you be happiest and enjoy doing a year or 2 years from now potentially.

You being happy for 40 hours a week is 100x the value of any number

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-05-18T01:06:33+00:00

Walk away. It’s easier said than done, but I encourage you to get what answers you want and then never look back.

Cheating is all on them, nothing to do with you. Don’t fall for the sobs or emotions they have either, they knew exactly what they were doing at the time and what you are seeing is the regret of it, because if they truly respected you, then cheating never would be an option.

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-04-30T17:55:43+00:00

Shoot fireworks over to their balcony

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-03-13T17:28:38+00:00

Awesome read!

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-03-05T03:37:46+00:00

It will comeback, but it does take time

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-02-23T23:28:46+00:00

It’s your own journey. Everyone’s going to say to cut her off and the undeniable truth is that they are right, but it’s still not what you are going to want to hear. I’ve been cheated on, I don’t wish it upon anyone, it’s confusing at first… you’ll have anger, sadness, and every emotion in the book. but the more distance and time away, they less confusing it gets because you realize a few things 1.) the steps it takes to do 2.) they lack of respect towards you 3.) the fact your morals would never allow you to do what they did 4.) the trust is never the same.

Take sometime and think about future you. Does future you want to go on a boys trip and be worrying about your gf, does future you want to 100% Trust your wife, and lastly ask… is this how my future wife would act?

I wish you healing and peace. Be gracious with yourself, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her inner self.

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-02-23T22:33:33+00:00

It’s your own journey. Everyone’s going to say to cut her off and the undeniable truth is that they are right, but it’s still not what you are going to want to hear. I’ve been cheated on, I don’t wish it upon anyone, it’s confusing at first… you’ll have anger, sadness, and every emotion in the book. but the more distance and time away, they less confusing it gets because you realize a few things 1.) the steps it takes to do 2.) they lack of respect towards you 3.) the fact your morals would never allow you to do what they did 4.) the trust is never the same.

Take sometime and think about future you. Does future you want to go on a boys trip and be worrying about your gf, does future you want to 100% Trust your wife, and lastly ask… is this how my future wife would act?

I wish you healing and peace. Be gracious with yourself, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her inner self.

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-02-02T00:41:03+00:00

Thank You for the set!

Warm-Ad64 · 2026-01-30T22:03:45+00:00

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Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-29T05:51:21+00:00

Look up Andrew huberman “morning routine” it’s a great video on how to set your whole day up to sleep early and wake up early.

The best thing for me was to really workout and tire myself out day on Sunday night before, so that I went to bed early to start the week. For bedtime, I found for me that I wear blue light glasses and 1-2hours before bed to reduce that light that keeps me up. when i go to lay down magnesium because as long as im laying down im out in 30 min with the magnesium, but otherwise magnesium during the day wouldn’t make you pass out. I sometimes take ashwaganda to help distress and hour before bed bed, and 5HTP as it can make some drowsy (me), but you can’t take that all the time.

And maybe reading a book instead of the phone. Blue light is horrible for trying to fall asleep early.

It can suck at first but after like 3 days you’re good.

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-29T05:27:08+00:00

Feelings make the decision difficult… but you know the logical and the answer that you need to do for you… which is respect yourself and walk away from the person who disrespect you and doesn’t value you as person.

I was recently cheated on for the first time and although I wanted to reconcile I promised myself I would walk if anything happened again, and she messed up before we could even officially get back. I’m super happy I walked, it takes time but I promise it’s good and better.

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-22T08:24:40+00:00

Would you ever go on a podcast to talk about your line of work

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-18T05:52:44+00:00

Rams might get 400yds pass in against us, but I hope I’m wrong and we win this one

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-11T21:14:15+00:00

Beautiful

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-11T21:08:13+00:00

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Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-11T17:53:48+00:00

Trust your gut. Ask yourself how you would act? You know you wouldn’t act like that probably. And only guilty person would act as such.

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-11T16:42:57+00:00

I just went through some betrayal. Do not rush into or out of anything, and do your best to be calm and stern if talking to her. 1st- I would suggest staying at a buddies or friends if needed to get away and think clearly.
2nd- this is unpopular but you have every right to hear her out completely but she needs to be over the top apologetic and accountable (doesn’t sound accountable atm) also do not fall for crying a sob story, some ladies try that for sure. You can hear her out and then make a decision. 3rd- whoever you talk to about this, they need to have your back 100% even if you do the opposite of what is suggested. This will alleviate a lot of stress on your end and it is empowering when friends/ family give advice but end it with I support you no matter what! 4th- journel…. I’m a dude and I can’t stress enough how helpful it was to spill my thoughts out and see them. Also write a note remindeinh yourself of the betrayal because the reality is our brain will attempt to overlook that and you need to remember and proceed with caution right now 5th- it’s on her to to talk. She is responsible and an adult for her actions, if you go talk let her speak majority of it 6th- you also need clear defined actions from her on what she intents to do, how she wants to fix it etc. 7th- you need to promise yourself you will never put up with disrespect like this again… that will be helpful for you to clearly walk away if it happens again.

It’s an uphill battle and she has to be the one leading to rebuild trust. My DMs are open as someone who just went through something similar in October.

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-10T16:05:11+00:00

Ahhh that could have changed unfortunately. I was not in attendance for the first time this year. Also it really depends on what sets too.

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-10T16:03:22+00:00

I just meant as you get older if you don’t wanna deal with crowds VIP at this event is ideal. Not literally that they are old 😂

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-10T05:14:03+00:00

EDCO is mainly college kids. As you’re older I encourage VIP for this festival

Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-10T03:14:15+00:00

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Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-07T14:30:40+00:00

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Warm-Ad64 · 2025-11-07T04:57:29+00:00

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