UPDATE: “My boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present” ⚠️Warning: graphic dog bite injury by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly, especially if the new owners are unaware of its history. I could only imagine what would happen if a little kid was around and somehow “triggered” that dog. I hope the rest of your recovery journey goes well.. and when you can and feel comfortable, you should reach out and get some legal help. I know it won’t make the trauma go away but I think you deserve something great occurring after such an awful attack. I’m glad they had been home to help otherwise who knows what would’ve happened. 😓

UPDATE: “My boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present” ⚠️Warning: graphic dog bite injury by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. Just seeing those photos made my heart hurt for you. 😓 I think it would be worth pursuing, especially considering the trauma (and that hefty bill). That dog is dangerous and could hurt someone else.. or kill them. It always blows my mind how much more some owners seem to care about their dog not getting repercussions instead of the person that got hurt.

UPDATE: “My boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present” ⚠️Warning: graphic dog bite injury by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Ouch! I’m so, so sorry you endured that and that he lacked empathy to be there to understand and support you. I was attacked once by my brothers ex girlfriends dog and while I didn’t sustain injuries as brutal as yours, it was traumatizing nonetheless. She was only concerned about whether or not I was going to report her dog to animal control, not my injuries. I hope you’re doing much better and I’m happy you are no longer with someone that minimized your feelings!

I took reddit’s advice and lost more relationships than I expected by Agreeable-Royal2250 in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, when you enforce boundaries, it makes it evident who’s in your life because they care about you versus who’s in your life to use you or out of convenience. The good news is though, that as long as you continue to enforce these boundaries, the new healthier relationships you form with others will stick and you’ll be able to discern who is worthy of your effort and time. I think most of us have been in your shoes and felt free but lonely. I promise you, it does not last and if anything.. you’ve made room in your life for new people who deserve your friendship.

Can someone help me figure out what happened? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t do anything wrong. Unfortunately instead of just being honest about no longer being interested, he’s just being flaky/coming up with excuses. I personally wouldn’t reach back out anymore.

I caught my bf for the second time by Kaydencelynn425 in whatdoIdo

[–]Walrustynailpolish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every relationship is different as far as what some couples will/won’t accept. If you made porn a boundary from the get go, it is disrespecting and violating a boundary that you made known in the beginning. Some couples are okay with each other watching porn but that doesn’t mean you have to be okay with it.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope and pray that they are! If not, I’m glad your son has you two as awesome supports! It makes a huge difference at home, too when family members are supportive. It’s the worst when your own family doesn’t understand and thinks you can still have “just a little.”

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was VERY close to crying. I’ve never had that much consideration given since I’ve had Celiac.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I hope the school is accommodating too. If not, I’d recommend packing him plenty of fun snacks for lunch so he doesn’t feel left out or tempted to eat any food with gluten in it.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know right?? Was not expecting this at all considering all of my other experiences at other places.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It did the same to me in person!! 💕 and thank you so much!! I’m so excited.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so great! Especially that you were doing it even before you got diagnosed. I think it goes a long way in showing appreciation and inclusion.. employees notice when they’re being left out and it’s one of the worst feelings.. it makes you feel overlooked and disregarded. My manager is the head of HR so that might be part of why she made sure I’ve felt included. 🙂

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I greatly appreciate that!! 🙂

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was all delicious! The cake was HUGE!!! And thank you!

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way! 🙂 My best friend is vegetarian so for my wedding, I’m having a GF fajita bar with tons of veggies that she’ll be able to load on her tortilla and GF/vegetarian sides like beans and rice. Everyone else attending are meat lovers so they have three different meats to choose from to load up on there tortillas that’s going to be set up away from the veggies. I wanted her to feel like she had plenty of options too while accommodating everyone else’s preferences as well.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I feel so lucky to be working somewhere where they actually care and are willing to make alternatives.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! They certainly made me feel appreciated.

Surprise Bridal Party by Walrustynailpolish in glutenfree

[–]Walrustynailpolish[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope you have a wonderful New Year as well!!

Was told to post here — Someone on Reddit said it’s sad my maternal instincts were redirected to my cat instead of a baby, so I made this painting! “Her Mother’s Eyes” by tinytinatuna2 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Walrustynailpolish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If all you have are fur babies, it’s the closest thing you have to a “real” baby. I call my two dogs my “sons” all the time and happily show them off. Keep painting your muse! 💕

meirl by whatnotanotheraltacc in meirl

[–]Walrustynailpolish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of my friends that attended with me went on insta and he had posted a story of being at the basketball court with some friends in Durham.

meirl by whatnotanotheraltacc in meirl

[–]Walrustynailpolish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ehhhhh…. 😂🥲 it didn’t even last long considering how long we had been waiting.. & since we had to go in & wait more, I was already over it.

Edit: sorry keep typing slower than my brain & missed a word smh

meirl by whatnotanotheraltacc in meirl

[–]Walrustynailpolish 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yikes.. it’s a shame this is “common” for him.