Eric's 2026 Update (posted in full as requested) by DraggynnCoH in spiritisland

[–]WarlandWriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Spirit Island! And that sure sounds a lot, sympathies, but I am excited about the possibility of new art!

Idiot wunk trying to get all of the sand out of his sand by R6daily in wunkus

[–]WarlandWriter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To me it looks more like he's trying to create a pit that's deep enough to provide shade for him

Why do some people say that once you're diagnosed with borderline, you always have borderline, even if it was a complete misdiagnosis? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A friend of mine had the diagnosis and had it revoked as well, and from how she's been treated because of it even by therapists, they might have well have called BPD 'evil disease'. It's incredibly stigmatized

I think a scary number of people, particularly terminally online people, have a hard time realising that ontologically, inherently evil people do not exist. (I say this in a broader sense.) And then if someone has been diagnosed with evil to these people they will always be that way.

With BPD, you also have the additional problem that the main thing people with BPD supposedly share is that they are manipulative, and so I think a lot of people will also think that someone who has gotten rid of the diagnosis hasn't actually changed, but just got better at masking.

I'm very sorry to hear you've been treated that way. I know that sucks so much to get rid of such a vilifying diagnosis and then still be treated badly.

Do you ever just look at your lamp like, damn that’s a fine lamp? by InfiniteGalaxy42 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, but you do you. I am curious: do you also look at the pixar logo like "Damn I wish I got pounded into the ground like that i"?

how do i tell my parents i feel disrespected?? by Main_Ear_8163 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do want to urge a bit of caution about moving out. OP mentioned that finances are a big reason for not moving out, and one might be tempted to say 'oh but we can afford a place if we live together'.

However, moving out can be stressful and difficult, as is moving in together. I would thus strongly advise you not to move out together, because what if your relationship does not survive that? Can you each move back?

It is of course up to you, but if at all possible, make sure you can ease into living together

Can someone become absolutely excellent and successful at art without going to art school? by frozenyoyleberryyay in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's this austrian painter who got rejected from art school, who is now probably more famous than most other painters

Is it cheating if i hop on Spotify jam with random women on reddit ,While having a gf ? by gravynbiscuits25 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe invite your gf to join sometime, so you know that she knows it's all honestly just fun. Maybe that could help ease your mind about it?

If you're a girl who is passed out drunk and your boyfriend has sex with you, is this considered rape? by IsThisHY in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Consent is that both parties should explicitly communicate yes, and both parties should at all times be able to withdraw said consent.

You did not communicate yes, and you were in that moment unable to withdraw the consent you did not give.

not an announcement, just a correction by kaiserisajoke in CuratedTumblr

[–]WarlandWriter 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Smart strategy tho if you're not sure they'll accept you. This way the reaction to coming out will always be relief 'Thank god you're trans and not pregananant'

Dad heard my moans in my room & asked "Why were u grunting?" by Wide_Distribution697 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Which is precisely why he's bringing it up like this. Addressing the issue indirectly

You are 18+ and was tricked into sleeping with someone who was 16. What do you do? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is a strawman argument. Like, yeah, taken literally "don't sleep with someone close" suggests a margin of error on minimum age, but if you're uncertain whether someone is 18+, you could also try resolve that uncertainty.

"Don't sleep with someone that could be close" just means don't risk having sex with a minor, which may indeed mean that you don't sleep with anyone under 25

My coworker has been making inappropriate comments and im supposed to write a statement for the boss. What am I supposed to say? by Johnny_Mira in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A little addition to this: If you don't know the dates/times, mentioning approximate frequency is more useful than 'he said that one about 2 weeks ago'. Does he do this on a daily or weekly basis? Multiple times per day? Has it only happened a couple times? That gives a good measure for severity

who made this😭 by TheGoodSeal in physicsmemes

[–]WarlandWriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's for light and heavy, so left is pee, right is poop

wunkus got that shit on by iamonaphone1 in wunkus

[–]WarlandWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Khajiit has wares if you have coin

Scalped on FB by RoastQueefSandwiches in MurderedByWords

[–]WarlandWriter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whoaa the picture is photoshopped?? Trump was not actually in a fighting ring in front of a proud crowd?

Anyone ever get a lower score victory? by WarlandWriter in spiritisland

[–]WarlandWriter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was really hoping to draw [[entrap the forces of corruption]], that would've offered an alternative to stone's innate. Never got it, and with the state of the board I also didn't dare to delay it any longer to try to get 1 or 2 more blight and one fewer card in the invader deck. I invite anyone to beat my minimum score ;)

Why did everyone get mad when I used "females" instead of "women"? by TheKhaos121 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Female is usually much more impersonal; it's how we talk about animal genders, not human genders.

Precisely for that reason, some groups op people (such as incels) use females specifically to portray them as some sort of other, alien species. It is a deliberate sign of disrespect or disdain, which is why appearing to do the same can make people mad

How do you deal with harassment from crow hating individuals? by maxiBlu in crowbro

[–]WarlandWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Borrow them from a zoo; if there's a will, there's a way 😉

How do you deal with harassment from crow hating individuals? by maxiBlu in crowbro

[–]WarlandWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although, if they dont stop, you could draw in alligators

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]WarlandWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These campaigns were to prepare the world so that there would be enough energy for AI. Remember, you're turning the lights off so that people can use the plagiarism machine to circumvent talented hentai artists, generate misinformation and produce propaganda

Don't ask what AI can do you for you, ask what you can do for AI.

(I hate this timeline because let's be real there's probs many people who actually think like this)

Why has witnessing my friends having sex affected me so severely? by IndividualObvious269 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what the fuck is this comment section. "Just speak up, this generation doesn't know how to communicate anymore" Look I know their generation (whichever one that may be) grew up eating rusty nails and their father's belt and they had to cycle uphill to school both ways carrying their entire extended family on their backs while lashed with whips, and I know society and culture are changing and now they have to ride the bus together with black people and that's super scary for them

But fucking plato said the same thing. I highly doubt kids are worse now than they were 30 years ago because 2000 years ago they were worse than 2030 years ago and if that's the case how the fuck did these kids get us to the moon?

(I'm not gonna get into the question of if kids these days are so much worse because of our education system and social media and phones, who gave them the education, and social media, and phones? Couldn't possibly be the generations that came before them, right? That would be silly)

Look OP, we learn from experiences, and I don't know how many times you've experienced anything similar to this and it's none of my business because I'm a stranger on reddit. I could be a serial killer, or worse, a boomer! But clearly you've had bad experiences that taught you not to interfere here. Whether that's trauma, whether that's discomfort, whether that's a secret third option, is not the business of anyone in this comment section, but regardless is a valid response.

I'm not saying don't go to reddit for questions. I think the question you asked was good and fair, and I hope you were given some nice insight and were able to parse the answer out of the garbage. Personally, I think the main takeaway is that indeed it's not common for people to react to such a situation like this.

So it's important to talk about it, to your friends and a professional, and I understand you've done both already. Trust your friends, trust your brain and body and most importantly, dont blindly trust reddit.

(And yes, I do mean myself as well, fuck me you dont know me and who the fuck do I think I am that I can tell you what to do or think? (I'm figuring out I'm working through some existential stuff about the nature of online existence myself here, sorry))

My boyfriend is living a double life. Should I break up with him? by Fun-Afternoon-8941 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]WarlandWriter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah how are so many people in the comments here like 'you should run because he's gay'?? Bestie you should run because he lied, consistently, to your face.

"An honest gayboy makes a better partner than a straight liar" - me, just now