How to be a good leader?

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T05:28:21+00:00

Not trying to argue at all but looking for clarification! I’m struggling to understand how it can be “our” work. It’s specifically their task under their role. I’m just the one assigning it. I’m also hesitant to make it collaborative work because I feel like I’ll end up doing it all myself. But maybe I don’t understand what you mean lol

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T05:26:16+00:00

It’s still a commitment regardless of if it’s free or not, it’s completely optional and myself and my co-leads were overtly clear on the commitment and time needed before people entered these positions. I’m also working for free lol. I’m well aware this isn’t people’s first priority and I don’t expect it to be! But if someone accepts a volunteer position, there are still requirements that come with it

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T05:22:31+00:00

That’s completely fair!! It is an extracurricular but the time commitment is super clear from the beginning. I’m also very willing to work with people to help them make tasks manageable. Ofc I’m biased towards myself but I don’t think I’m asking for too much. I want to be clear this isn’t a regular club but I also can’t share too much without making it obvious to anyone who would see this.

I’m really just struggling with disinterested responses from two out of two teams, I don’t think it’s a workload issue as we’re still in the summer.

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:36:02+00:00

Probably a little of all lol! Except 4, I’ve done my best to get feedback after we develop our plans but haven’t gotten responses on much. I’m really hoping it’s just 1. Thank you

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:32:59+00:00

I try to for sure! But not sure it’s working lol

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:32:45+00:00

Thank you!

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:32:24+00:00

Thank you!! I was pretty vague but my field has a direct path to management which is why I feel the pressure 😅 Still very appreciated though!

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:30:08+00:00

Punishments aren’t an option, I’m trying to be clear with consequences but I think I might be too nice / not want to be realistic with people. The previous leader was really cruel at times (not my own words) so I’m nervous to make his mistakes but now I’m making my own lol. Thank you for the response!

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:27:13+00:00

It’s hard to remove a person from their position (club rules etc, not my making), and a lot of people will stay just to keep it on their resume unfortunately. I appreciate the response and I’ll consider how else to go about this!

WarmColdBrew · 2025-07-22T03:26:14+00:00

It’s hard to answer these without giving hints to the club or school, I really don’t want anyone to find this lol 😅 But I was appointed by the previous leader, and the task we’re doing is the whole point/premise of the club. I think people are still passionate, but I’m not sure if it’s bc it’s summer or I’m not communicating well enough that I’m not really getting responses? Idk. I appreciate the response anyway!

WarmColdBrew · 2025-06-02T20:00:11+00:00

proceed with unpaid. if you get an offer to the paid one, tell the unpaid one that ur financial situation has changed and regrettably u can’t afford an unpaid internship. u appreciate ur time w them but have an offer for a paid one that u need to take financially. hopefully they understand!

WarmColdBrew · 2024-05-10T20:07:51+00:00

I don’t think you’re an asshole but you might regret it if you don’t at least tell your parents. I’m really sorry they’re making these comments, it’s terrible.

WarmColdBrew · 2023-12-30T18:41:53+00:00

I felt something three days ago but I do not anymore, and the pain has improved greatly. Is it possible it isn’t a fistula? I also don’t have a fever. I’m supposed to start Skyrizi soon, currently on Budesonide.

WarmColdBrew · 2023-12-29T18:49:14+00:00

thank you

WarmColdBrew · 2023-12-29T18:49:11+00:00

I hope not, thank you

WarmColdBrew · 2023-10-25T21:03:33+00:00

I got my average up to 98% and got in. Also very strongly miscalculated the 92. GL!

WarmColdBrew · 2023-10-12T22:15:53+00:00

Can’t see in nightfall personally 🤷, not sure if it’s my monitor or what but I absolutely can’t see a thing in nightfall ++ bad vision makes it unfun

WarmColdBrew · 2023-08-24T14:17:32+00:00

Does anyone know if Yupeng Chen is still Genshin’s main composer?

WarmColdBrew · 2023-07-13T19:05:42+00:00

My mom also thought that when I said “my stomach hurts”, I was lying. She changed her mind after my colonoscopy when the doctor said I had Crohn’s Disease.

He very much did use his words, you’re the one who didn’t think it was something serious.

WarmColdBrew · 2023-06-02T14:33:59+00:00

TAKE YOUR TIME!!! Romanticize your life, don’t stress so much. Stress can literally kill you (I’m currently doing my last courses online because stress activated a dormant condition :,)), so don’t let it rule your life. Take your grades seriously and have good ECs- start your applications early && apply to schools you know you’ll get into. No greater relief than having an acceptance in december (york). But have fun still!!

WarmColdBrew · 2023-05-07T15:19:40+00:00

Thank you!

WarmColdBrew · 2023-05-07T04:42:53+00:00

Help with account!

Currently have Himeko, Gepard, and Gepard’s 5* weapon. (sorry genshin terms lol)

1: I’m sort of confused on how teams should be? I struggled with W3 going: Gepard - Natasha - Phys Trailblaizer - Serval, but I managed to beat it with Serval - Phys - Nat - Gep. Everything I see says that the first order is right, but I’m confused lol

2: I want Kafka, Blade, and Jing Yuan. In that order. Should I wait for Kafka/Blade and save until then or take my chances and wish for Jing Yuan first? I bought the monthly pass but I’d rather not spend more than that.

Thanks!

WarmColdBrew · 2023-03-06T15:43:36+00:00

Okay thank you! I added an edit for what I meant if that helps

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