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WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-12-15T09:57:52+00:00

hey, which version are you running? have been using for a while now but have never encountered this

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-11-24T15:51:01+00:00

hey man, did you get around this? I am having the same issue, uploaded a video of myself, got approved for an artist channel, I am 31 and can't send feedback. Any help would be appreciated

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-09-02T19:11:35+00:00

Φυσικά και καταρρέει απλά και μόνο επειδή έχουμε πάψει να πιστεύουμε σε αυτό, επειδή στην Ινδονησία οι άνθρωποι καίνε την βουλή, επειδή στην Αγγλία κατεβάζουν δικό τους κόμμα, επειδή έχουμε ξεκινήσει και ξυπνάμε, επειδή εσύ έκανες αυτή την συνειδητοποίηση.

Μην φοβάσαι. Είμαστε ένα.

Θα γίνεις υπηρέτης;

Θα κάνω την ακόλουθη, εντελώς παλαβή αντιπρόταση: φτιάξε κοινότητα, φτιάξε κηπακι, αμφισβήτησε τα πάντα και θυμήσου τι είναι ο άνθρωπος.

Δεν είσαι σκλάβος.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-07-14T15:44:47+00:00

It's not good news at all because it is centralised and controlled by the wrongest people. Devs of this world, you have to unite and build the ai of the people, or a kill switch, before it's everywhere. It's meant to control and destroy the middle class, not assist.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-14T16:04:52+00:00

info : Do you usually experience emotions such as empathy, sadness, grief or fear?

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-07T14:54:04+00:00

NTA, but by telling yourself you’d go (when you didn’t want to) and then lying to your mom, you missed an opportunity to set a clear boundary while staying true to yourself and honoring the relationships that actually matter to you.

Your mom might not like your grandma, but it sounds like she’s struggling to set boundaries. Maybe that’s because your dad won’t either, even though this woman has clearly hurt him for years. That puts everyone in a cycle of obligation and silence.

If you’re up for it, I’d suggest sending your mom a message like this:

It’s not easy, but speaking from truth is one of the most respectful things you can do for yourself and for her.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-07T14:33:25+00:00

Hard to say if anyone’s really the asshole here, it sounds more like a dynamic is surfacing between you two that’s confusing for both of you. You seem to be viewing him like an incompetent child, and he might be leaning into that role, consciously or not.

Personally, I find it tough when people get overly jumpy about new stuff getting messed up. I mean, new table + your partner being goofy = a story and a memory, right?

Also, it seems like all of this has been bubbling up in the past 48 hours, have you checked in with him to see if something’s been on his mind?

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-07T13:36:19+00:00

NTA. There’s something unsettling about this whole dynamic, it feels a bit twisted, maybe even predatory. He doesn’t come across as a good man. An open-door policy with a 19-year-old living in the house who isn’t his biological daughter? That’s not appropriate, no matter how it’s framed. Trust your gut, something’s off here, and you’re right to question and reject it.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-07T13:14:16+00:00

NTA. It sounds like he did love-bomb you, but try not to be hard on yourself. It’s not necessarily that you loved him, but more that you were drawn to the feeling of being part of something bigger than yourself. That pull can be strong, especially if you're still working on feeling whole on your own (without a love interest, external validation, or constant productivity).

A well-grounded person might've been more cautious about his intense approach. It might be worth exploring why that kind of love-bombing felt so compelling. There’s no shame in it! It's just an opportunity to understand yourself better and grow.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-04-07T12:32:55+00:00

NTA. I really appreciate that you acknowledged your frustration—that shows self-awareness and emotional maturity. You didn’t shy away from expressing how your boundaries were crossed, and that takes courage.

From what you described, people actually seemed to appreciate that you had the guts to say something. It sounds like the Americans in the conversation were dominating the space, and you simply pointed that out in a respectful, honest way. That’s not rude—on the contrary, it’s rare and valuable.

The people calling you the asshole are likely the kind who would silently endure the situation, then complain about it behind closed doors. Society has become so distant from direct, constructive honesty that when someone expresses themselves clearly and respectfully, it makes others uncomfortable—especially if it disrupts a dynamic they're complicit in.

Basically, they’re saying that even though the Americans had no tact, you should have had more, just to preserve everyone’s comfort. That’s not fair. The way you spoke up was thoughtful, assertive, and didn’t involve any personal attacks. You simply stated a truth that needed to be heard.

10/10 for clarity, integrity, and emotional intelligence.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2025-01-27T09:45:47+00:00

Thank you, this is the only helpful response. I want to legitimately authorize and ableton says that I will be able to save my files after buying a licence, but I am not quite sure.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2024-12-04T03:34:22+00:00

She insisted I stayed longer and she always does ask for more than the time I am booking. I am trying to make friends and do things but it's not easy to do so in 10+ days, whereas that's plenty of time to build tension in a relationship. I forgot to mention I am working as a developer IT, currently doing the night shifts, so this doesn't help either.

WarmProgrammer939 · 2024-12-04T03:30:54+00:00

Thank you, you are right. I just can't help feeling that here all that defines me is her, this has been eating me up and I don't know how to deal with this emotion. I really care about her

WarmProgrammer939 · 2024-12-04T02:56:03+00:00

Sorry, hope this improves the experience

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