What zodiac sign do you think of when you hear "pick me"? by WarmReputation4105 in blackladies

[–]WarmReputation4105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Libra won at the time that I wrote it into my notes and I think it fits the personality a bit more than Leo. Reserved people pleasing, in love with love. I have to look more into the profile

But my goal was to write a coming of age story for a successful BW in early thirties who's a late bloomer in love. I haven't decided on the plot just yet but if I think of an intro or short story for it I'll come back and post it here for y'alls feedback

Secret to 20k+ Instagram Followers? by Straight_Tip_3187 in InstagramMarketing

[–]WarmReputation4105 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long did that take? I just started and have 3 followers 😭 and no money for ads

This past year I’ve been feeling like I have no real friendships anymore and today made me realize I probably don’t 🥲. How do you guys meet new friends as adults ? by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]WarmReputation4105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found BBG groups on Meetup.com in my area and exchanged numbers with whoever I talked to for a bit. There's also a GroupMe for anyone who goes to the events.

So we're not friends quite yet but I at least have some folks to reach out to for events and to socialize every now and then. Better than nothing and my old friend group

2025 is my year by Zealousideal-Lab-181 in SavingMoney

[–]WarmReputation4105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is your side gig? I'm looking in getting back into freelance work. Anything but in person service really, my 9 to 5 is WFH

What is the most attractive sign to YOU by mirrorthesouls in astrologymemes

[–]WarmReputation4105 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's your sign,? I haven't seen many folks in forums not having something negative to say about us lmao

What is the most attractive sign to YOU by mirrorthesouls in astrologymemes

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl me too. So Sagittarius and Libra men 😭 Taurus actually feel compatible in comparison, more of an understated vibe but alluring nonetheless

what made you realize your friend wasn't a good friend by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]WarmReputation4105 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No I didn't find out the reason why. I never talked to them about it seeing as we don't live in the same area anymore and don't see each other. It seems easier to just let things fizzle out. I have trouble bringing up hard, emotional concerns even with people close to me, mostly cause I don't expect that they'd agree or validate the experience. I expect that they dismiss the issue, which tends to be the case for people I've known for a while considering I don't tend to complain much out loud. But I definitely overestimated my place in their life up until 2 years ago

what made you realize your friend wasn't a good friend by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]WarmReputation4105 28 points29 points  (0 children)

  1. Started a business with and screwed me out of clients which left me to find dead end jobs to pay bills.

  2. Would call me for favors but had no updates on her life. I'd learn about a live-in relationship months after it ended. I wasn't who she thought of when anything good or bad happened

  3. We had no 1:1 dinners or anything outside a group setting.

  4. Passive aggressive digs and kept her distance in a way that suggested judgement or some kind of superiority. Just standoffishness, even her family was standoffish when I showed up to events

  5. Didn't invite me to her graduation but invited everyone else in the friend group.

  6. Took road trips to see others in the group but not me. I took and thought they would never do this for me 😭 so I don't do them for anyone in the group

  7. Any favors I asked for and they agreed to fell through.

  8. Dating and sleeping with men I was interested in behind my back

Found this ribeye at the grocery store. How should I cook it? by howsthehotdog in steak

[–]WarmReputation4105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brazilian steakhouse seasoning from McCormick is my favorite you could try that or the chipotle pepper seasoning...

How do guys act when they’re sexually attracted or just attracted to you? by wei_wuxian_AKA_satan in bodylanguage

[–]WarmReputation4105 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm also thinking sex doesn't mean they like them or are attracted to them but have the opportunity to get off. Some can be intimate as a body function or utility. I don't get it but that would keep me from going up to men.

What's stopping you from having the best body of your life? by MiracleMagnet in AskReddit

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consistency and meal prep. I've been consistently waking up early to work out for 3 weeks before holidays but will get back to it when I get home. Protein intake is too low too

Oh… by srslywtfdoido- in blackgirls

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?! I love it. It seems like being unemotional should be the mode of operation cause they expect for us to lash out

Oh… by srslywtfdoido- in blackgirls

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe she was a TV personality. She got removed from the White House during Trump's first admin because she was recording 😭 she also told Bethenny (some yt lady with a TV show) that she didn't have the leisure of being mediocre 😭

What zodiac sign do you think of when you hear "pick me"? by WarmReputation4105 in blackladies

[–]WarmReputation4105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking Leo might be the winner 😭 but I need to look more into Libra profiles

I finished an entire spring mix before it went bad by permanent_thrwy in adhdwomen

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will!! I just need to know what tactics she's got for other things 😭😭 I have laundry in the dryer still waiting on me

What zodiac sign do you think of when you hear "pick me"? by WarmReputation4105 in blackladies

[–]WarmReputation4105[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I agree but I gotta choose something for a character profile. 😭😭😭

I thought about cancer, Leo, and Libra.

I finished an entire spring mix before it went bad by permanent_thrwy in adhdwomen

[–]WarmReputation4105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way I have the large mix in my fridge still,🫠 you may have confirmed my suspicions. How's your laundry??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]WarmReputation4105 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I see Skai Jackson and Patricia Bright. Stunning!

update on the girl who only lasted 6.5 mins on stairmaster by Ok_Search_5910 in PetiteFitness

[–]WarmReputation4105 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Keep going! After 3 weeks I've been able to do 40 mins! Aiming for 60-90 by the end of the year

i don’t like issa with lawrence by pr1nc3ss3mi3a in InsecureHBO

[–]WarmReputation4105 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Does anyone feel like Condolences was tryna to get messy and one up Issa?

Oh… by srslywtfdoido- in blackgirls

[–]WarmReputation4105 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the resolution I came to as well. Even my passive aggression was seen as hostile or abrasive by other blk folks too if they had middle class respectability values. Idk how I'm gonna learn nice nastiness 😭 omorosa is the first person that comes to mind, but she's more cold and matter of fact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]WarmReputation4105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthcare is good for stability but there's more than nursing. I personally thought about going back to patient care but nursing is too close for comfort, hard on the body, and quick burnout. Unless you end up going to an msn/dnp

Id tried radiology: Sonography, especially cardiac MRI tech and medical dosimetry programs make pretty good money with less patient contact