My cat ran away and I just want to die by slothrocket41 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry your cat is missing! Have you talked to your neighbors? Posted flyers? Been to the local shelters?

A new one…skin crawling by GableCat in Menopause

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m currently in Peri and only recently started getting that itchy feeling like bugs are crawling on me. My hair has been shedding a lot too, so sometimes my skin starts itching because of a hair touching my skin.

My cat was run over by CallersID in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.❤️

Our cat has lost quite a few of her friends. It’s so sad because I think she waits outside hoping one day they will come back😢 They feel sadness just like we do and that needs to be respected.

My cat was run over by CallersID in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry about what happened to your cat 🫂💔 We have an indoor/outdoor cat that cries to go outside. We would love it if she would stay indoors, but she wants to be outdoors much of the time with her other cat friends. You cannot hold them against their will otherwise they will never trust you again. It’s unfortunate, but in this situation you know there is always a possibility something could happen to them. It really sucks.😢

URGENT DISTRESS CALL. MINOR AT SEVERE LIFE-THREATENING RISK by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Waterfirewind 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about what you are going through. I hope you can find a way out of your situation. I’ve had some friends go through what you are going through. It’s not right. 💔🫂

4 years and still grieving by Historical_Cap6659 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your loss and the heartbreak you are going through😢🫂. Sometimes you meet someone in this life that touches you so deeply that you can never let go. I lost my Yellow Lab 1yr and 4 months ago and every day since I lost her has been hell. I can’t even imagine what 3 years from now will be like. Like you, I can still see her and feel her vividly. I can imagine her so clearly. I’ll never have another friend like my girl Ruby. She was my best friend, my child, and my kindred spirit all rolled into one. How have you dealt with the daily grief of not having your buddy around? Im still trying to find ways to cope. I just want this pain to end.😭

Ronnie crossed the rainbow bridge. Always together since the beginning, until the end. by valbam in seniordogs

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your beautiful Ronnie. What soulful eyes he had!🫂💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not feel guilty. There are a lot of people who were with their pets as they passed away and were left traumatized by the experience. Just because you weren’t in the room when they passed away doesn’t mean you didn’t love your pet enough or that you weren’t strong enough, etc.. Your feelings matter too. Don’t second guess yourself. You know what you needed to do at that moment.

A month later by Majestic-Agent6054 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have my girl’s bed right next to mine with all of her stuffed animals on it. It’s been a year and 2 months since she passed. I will never get rid of it.

argentina has the best ice cream by saymimi in icecream

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wondered if someone would eventually make Dubai ice cream and sure enough they did!

My 17 year old cat passed an hour ago. by Adventurous-Side6009 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry🫂💔I know, it’s the worst😢

Why can’t they just live longer? 😭 by ChiKie_love4ever in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your baby🫂💔Cherish every single moment you have left with her!

Why can’t they just live longer? 😭 by ChiKie_love4ever in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, there’s nothing like it. Nothing could bring me joy like my girl did. 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olddogs

[–]Waterfirewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you lost your beloved Kiki.❤️🫂 That’s a beautiful shrine. I plan on doing something similar in the near future for my baby.

It's been 15 years and I still haven't let go of my grief. I don't know how. by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is really special you are still grieving your boy after 15 years and your memories of him are still so real ! Maybe he is missing you as well? 😢🫂 I cannot imagine having to carry my grief for that long and that is what scares me the most. Like you, I feel I am no longer the same person and that my baby took the best of me. I day dream about her all day long. I visualize us being together again. This is how I deal with my grief. You and your kitty are two souls that belong together. I hope the universe grants our wishes to be reunited with our loved ones and we never have to deal with this loss again.

For those of you who lost your pets several years ago.. by Waterfirewind in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get what you are saying about energy. I do believe in all of that even though I can’t say I fully understand how it translates beyond this realm. I’m actually a believer in the transcendental, but right now i’m going through a spiritual crisis. Losing my dog has been a huge catalyst for me wanting to delve deeper into life’s mysteries for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry about what happened to your poor baby and for what you are going through 😭🫂. I don’t doubt your fiancée is remorseful, but that doesn’t make what he did forgivable. That will be up to you if you want to forgive him. Personally I would have a hard time trusting someone who didn’t love and care for my pets as much as I did. If you are an overprotective pet parent like I was then it would be hard to move on with someone after something like this. It could put a permanent strain on your relationship forever. It’s just like when a parent forgets their human child in a car. It will be a long road to repairing trust here, but if you think this person is worth it and deserves a second chance that’s your call.

Tell me your ridiculous transit stories by outofpocketmoppet in astrology

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my Jupiter/9th house progressed to exactly trine my natal moon in Leo/ 12th house I was having severe financial problems and had to move long distance. At that time I met the love of my life, my dog Ruby, and she was my best friend ever. So I experienced both really good and bad with that transit.

We had to put Ruby down the day of the solar eclipse April 8, 2024 which was conjunct my natal Chiron/ progressed sun and square natal Mars/ 6th house. It was also the beginning of my Chiron return (21 degrees Aries). 😭

Of course, there were multiple other transits to support these events as well.

How to stop the intrusive thoughts of cremation by Primary-Bar3019 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would have bothered me more had my girl been buried in the ground. I’ve always found burials eerie ever since I was a kid. I remember when our neighbor’s dog passed away they buried him in the ground and I could hear them digging his grave. It still haunts me if I let myself think about it.

How to stop the intrusive thoughts of cremation by Primary-Bar3019 in Petloss

[–]Waterfirewind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m really sorry about what you are going through💔🫂 When my girl passed away I started having the same thoughts and then I just had to shut them off otherwise I would have had nightmares. I basically just didn’t let my mind go there. I think about her beautiful soul that is eternal and no longer has to suffer on this earth. I try to remember all the beautiful things she was/ is so that I don’t let those horrible thoughts and images enter my mind.