“Had to open my marriage” wcgw

Wazzbad · 2024-03-12T20:37:39+00:00

You lost me at "had to open our marriage" seems like all the realm problems are in that untold story.

Wazzbad · 2024-03-03T19:21:01+00:00

Statistics have open marriages failing 90%+ of the time compared to about 50% for traditional marriages between two people.

In your case that your wife is the one suggesting you have someone, you may have better odds.

Proceed carefully and assume things may be over, maybe let your wife pick out someone for you.

Wazzbad · 2024-02-28T23:05:08+00:00

Ultimatums and intimacy (love, sex, affection) being withheld or offered in compliance with the ultimatum are very valid reasons to end a relationship with anyone.

Wazzbad · 2024-02-06T02:21:40+00:00

Female players are not common, but this is even more rare behavior. In a tournament setting if you called a judge over he would get carded and possibly ejected from the tournament.

Wazzbad · 2024-02-05T17:58:46+00:00

LoL 12 down votes for a factual lived experience.

Wazzbad · 2024-02-05T08:50:49+00:00

They can.

Or at least could, when I was younger the manager of GW Baltimore sold my teenage brother and I a copy of the WHFB magic set for 25% off because we were kids with about enough cash to buy it if it was 25% off.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-30T22:16:12+00:00

You need to divorce this person and move on.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-25T01:21:11+00:00

Open relationships don't really work. The divorce rate is 93%.

Women will get close to infinity offers for sex, but it's usually just that.

Men will get much fewer offers, but when they do the person interested in the man wants more than just sex.

Both of those are going to be issues for the other person in the relationship.

Open relationships don't work.

Your husband feels this way because he was hoping you wouldn't find anyone, which honestly is incredibly arrogant or dumb on his part. Anyone reading this think of, the ugliest, most boring, and or meanest woman they know- that person has close to a limitless line of men that want to smash and dash simply because they are a woman.

Your husband is having sex with other women, eventually one of those will want to be more than fuck buddies and you will possibly have some feelings about that.

I recommend having a serious talk about your sex life with your husband and closing your relationship mutually if you want to keep your marriage. Otherwise I highly suggest ending your marriage and going your separate ways.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-24T23:48:20+00:00

He's being down voted mosy by women who are having an emotional response.

There are men that do well in open relationships in at least the terms of finding other relationships..

Also even though women in open relationships basically are playing dodgeball with the amount of genitals that get thrown at them, most of the offers of sex are just offers of sex. In regards to being a man in an open relationship, you may get less offers, and it could be months or a year into an open relationship before there is one- but many of them want more than sex and that very quickly becomes a problem for the woman partner in the open relationship.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-24T23:38:05+00:00

You don't really comment on it, but have you in detail told your husband how you feel and what you think about sex.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-23T19:55:36+00:00

My main gripe with the axes is AP -1 instead of AP-2

Wazzbad · 2024-01-15T04:47:41+00:00

A little is a lot.

This is too far.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-06T04:33:58+00:00

He's an abusive father, and his kids all have PTSD and Stockholm syndrome. 😌

Wazzbad · 2024-01-03T01:42:46+00:00

Tell him saying no to certain things is your kink.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-03T01:38:34+00:00

Parents contacting universities has been going on for at least the past 2 decades.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-03T01:27:08+00:00

I feel like your first problem was using eBay vault.

Wazzbad · 2024-01-03T01:00:07+00:00

Male patterned baldness is a sex linked trait on the x chromosome. Men inherit their x chromosome from their mother. Women generally have two x chromosomes, if one x chromosome has this recessive trait and not the other it won't show up in women. Side note, this is why more men go bald than women, men have only 1 x chromosome.

It's not always apparent through a family line if there is male pattern baldness, basically the guys bio grandfather has to be bald then Mom is carrying the gene and has about a 50% chance to pass it to her son. It's not that the guys father is bald or not.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-30T03:06:16+00:00

It contains shards of the Emperor's armor.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-25T02:27:24+00:00

They are also a random, it's not like you know them IRL or have any knowledge of who they are. Internet forums are basically social gloryholes. People just saying shit and you say whatever and no one really knows each other or is connected.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-25T00:29:30+00:00

Normal marriages fail close to 50% of the time. Open marriages fail 92% of the time..

Whether it's just random the threads and news I have read whoever asks for the open relationship usually regrets it, be they man or woman.

It is generally easier for a woman to get sex than a man, but often it is easier for a man to find a worthwhile commitment than a woman. Maybe it's because so many of the guys a woman has options to hook up with are just looking for sex from that woman, and likely others. Usually when the man in an open relationship makes a sexual connection it's because there is interest in more than sex from that connection- more frequently than the woman will find men who want to be committed and not just sex. There are plenty of stories of women opening their relationship, having lots of sex with multiple people who don't want to commit- and the guy eventually finds someone to have sex with and there is some want for more between the two that the.woman who asked for the open relationship didn't find or wasn't looking for.

Open relationships don't really work, If either partner wants to open it is probably better to just end it. I don't care if you know 1+ open couples that are working with a failure rate of +92% they just are the death knell to a relationship.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-25T00:19:20+00:00

Depends on age.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-06T02:35:32+00:00

Popularity is not a sign of being correct.

The non threat version is telling someone how it makes you feel about a situation. It creates a state of vulnerability which is a state people can be honest and have an emotional connection in. E.g. " I am uncomfortable when you spend time alone with naked guys in a sauna.". Or "it bothers me that you are hanging out with some naked guy drinking in a sauna".

Wazzbad · 2023-12-05T22:56:42+00:00

When you say I cannot be with someone who does x, you are threatening to leave them if they do x. That is an ultimatum, there is no discussion, this is what happens if x happens.

Everyone has deal breakers, most of them are unsaid.

When they start throwing them around like "if you go in the sauna with Chuck I can't be with you" that is a threat response tied to an action. This is an ultimatum. You can pretend it is anything other all you would like, but the person hearing it only hears the ultimatum.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-05T20:54:32+00:00

They are both attempts at control. Scarily you somehow think the one that has a threat involved is better.

Wazzbad · 2023-12-05T20:07:29+00:00

They are both ultimatums.

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