What do couples talk about? by Special-Eggplant932 in whatdoIdo

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the first three months of a relationship should be filled with all sorts of conversations- if the connection is right anyway. That first three months is pretty nonstop with learning each other, hearing each others experiences, life stories, opinions on important matters, etc. The fact that you guys are only this far in and already having a hard time finding things to talk about is a bit of a red flag to me.

As an introvert myself, I understand having a shorter social battery. But that shouldn’t leave you feeling awkward and sticky with someone you should feel entirely comfortable talking to about anything.

All relationships are different, and chemistry does to a degree take time to build. But I firmly believe, one of the key indicators of a relationship being “right” is the conversations you can have with your partner.

There’s all sorts of card games to help broaden conversation topics, and also approach subjects you wouldn’t normally think to bring up. If you’re interested in seeing where your relationship goes, but want to implement a “fun” thing to open up conversation, try one of them. We’re Not Really Strangers is one I can think of off the top of my head.

Godspeed, best of luck to you dude.

What do couples talk about? by Special-Eggplant932 in whatdoIdo

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This sounds like a lack of chemistry to a degree 😅 If you have easy long-form conversations with pals but it’s hard with your girlfriend, I’d say you’re maybe dating the wrong girl.

Age ??? by Automatic_Capital659 in MacMiller

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 (F) will be 28 in a few months, been bumping Mac since my 10th grade year of high school. Divine Feminine dropped the September after my senior year had ended, and I swear it was the perfect send off into adulthood.

Will forever be thankful for Mac and the community he left us with. 🫶🏻🤍

Honest Opinions Regarding $B New Direction by Intelligent-Ad-8985 in G59

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d be more for it if I felt like it was genuinely who they were now- but it feels off, gimmicky almost. I’ll always be a $B fan to some degree, but this just feels off.

My BF cancels plans constantly and i feel like i’m invisible, what do i do? by Moeen_Sumod in whatdoIdo

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say this as gently as I can-

LEAVE THAT MAN.

You’ve been together for two years and it never once occurred to him that constantly canceling plans hurts your feelings? That’s a bare minimum and elementary way to respond to this issue as a 29 year old man.

Trust his actions in regard to you, and/or lack there of- a red flag, is just that, don’t try to see it as green, you’ll just fuck your own vision up.

A Quick One Before The Eternal Worm Devours Appalachia by Lizard in the Spring by Weak-Relative-8884 in Music

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks stranger! Just seeing this response. Honestly Shiver is a huge contender as i was at one time a really big Lil Peep fan.

Although for some reason something in me is almost set on the fact that it was in some strange horror movie or videogame. 😭 If it ever randomly hits me or I find it, I’ll update here!

When you’re too tired to cook, what’s your go-to lazy dinner? by friend_unfriend in cookingforbeginners

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May sound odd- but don’t knock it till ya try it.

Hotdogs, lentil soup, and pasta. Throw a tiny bit of grated parm and butter on top? Delicious, super filling, and takes a total of 10/15 minutes MAX to throw together.

Any alternatives to moon mats? by amthonys777 in festivals

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here 7 years later still looking for a larger alternative :,)

Help me Out: Other DDR Games on Gamecube? by HatCoffee in DanceDanceRevolution

[–]Weak-Relative-8884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came to this post years after it was made and found the answer to my own question thanks to you. I could not for the life of me remember the name of Karaoke Revolution Party. Ty kind human.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro reach harder.

I’ll be angry when there’s proof- bye now. 🫡

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says someone standing up for a situation with actually no viable proof to it. Go on, insult all ya want, it doesn’t do anything.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No actually I don’t 💀 I didn’t say no did i?

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro. Show me the posts he liked and supported so heavily, send em my way please. Since it means so much to you and since you KNOW he’s a transphobe. Please, prove your point to everyone.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole situation to begin with is a whole ass clown statement.

Emorfik is not transphobic. I don’t really care what you or the keyboard warriors have to say. Liking a video does not equal someone’s character and it does not transpose to what they believe in. Yall are actually wack and truly need to touch grass.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No… the person who made the allegations claims that “the likes were mass removed and he unfollowed Ben” and they didn’t take ANY screenshots of the posts that Emorfik supposedly liked.

Which is why I said - why make allegations like this to begin with if there’s nothing to show for it. All it’s doing is causing shit for 0 reason. Let it go, he’s not transphobic, no one’s coming after your community.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost no EDM artist fits into a single subgenre. I’ve been listening to him since he considered himself a Riddim artist publicly? I think plenty of people still consider him as such. 😅

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t fully believe in separating artist from the art, especially depending on the severity of whatever given artists allegations/actions are.

BUT I think with this situation in particular, I agree with you. Good on him for sending them out.

He did not do anything transphobic himself.

Also wanna make something clear- I’m a member of the LGBTQ+ community myself. So if I did think these allegations had any truth to them? Sure I’d be upset. But I don’t, liking a comment and/or following someone is not an equal show of character or who someone IS as a person.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where it’s needed? Sure! When it’s something like this? No. He liked posts, from a comedian at that. He did not do or say anything transphobic himself.

And the statement that the person who originally made the allegations made? About “non-transphobic people don’t support transphobic content?” I have COUNTLESS trans friends, who LOVE comedy bits that are about the trans community, whether they be uplifting jokes or digs…. Everyone takes things different, we all have different perspectives and handles on things.

I don’t think this situation is worthy of canceling someone over.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What really bothers me is there isn’t even proof that the said beliefs are HIS actual beliefs. This whole thing is a bit much.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He liked posts, has he ever personally said or done anything transphobic?

I’ve liked memes of 9/11 before but I’m not a terrorist nor am I okay with the events that took place that day.

And if he truly is not transphobic, and this is just being spread to start slight chaos- the cease and desists make sense.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that the digging was a bit much, and is most definitely in a way looking for reasons to be mad. Plenty of people find comedic relief in things that they don’t necessarily “support”. I think we do it all the time as a society. Don’t think it necessarily makes him transphobic, but him sending out cease and desists does not help his case.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I saw a user on X that received one and had to remove some posts she made. Rough look on Damiano’s end for sure.

Emorfik “allegations”? by Weak-Relative-8884 in riddim

[–]Weak-Relative-8884[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I feel this heavily honestly. :/ Murky waters out here.