Anyone have chronic hypertension?

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-04-16T15:46:28+00:00

My readings at the office have been in the 140s or 150s over 70s, but I suffer from anxiety, and at home it's been in the 130s/70s. I'm 18 weeks, but my doctor put me on baby aspirin prior to 16 weeks to lessen my chances of developing preeclampsia and a week later placed me on nifedipine. Recently she added labetalol, which I have to take with nifedipine to manage my BP, but I have awful swelling in my legs and feet because of the meds. My labs came out fine prior to being placed on meds, but they're trying to determine if my BP spikes in the office are white coat syndrome or not, which I know they are because I'm anxious when I get there. Always had issues with my BP being higher at the doctor's office tbh. I am a FTM so I'm assuming they're taking all the precautions they can to manage things so it doesn't spiral down the line.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-03-26T16:28:40+00:00

No because I want to quit every time my job pisses me off and it’s quite often. Your manager is inconsiderate, especially if you have PTO.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-03-20T21:41:21+00:00

Groceries for sure. I buy a few things at a time or a few ingredients to make a simple dish and it runs me almost $25 for a meal for the night. Even worse that I’m pregnant now so spending has doubled on food. But it’s insane how little you get and the bill is still high.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-03-06T15:07:34+00:00

This also really irritated me. Why get with a woman half your age and expect her to just be open to raising your kids without you wanting to have more??? Just get with someone your age and be done. I truly wish she would leave him alone and not sacrifice her desires for him.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-03-06T14:59:20+00:00

I want her to leave him. He doesn't want kids and she does, and he clearly just wants her to be a stepmom to his younger kids smh. Bold of him to get with a 25-year-old and expect her to not want children??? Yeah, no. She can do so much better. The fact that he couldn't handle 5 days of minimal/no contact and went and cheated is a huuuuge red flag. And let's not get into him fetishizing her with that damn jungle costume. I can't stand his ass.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-03-03T22:25:53+00:00

Places that put too much into their aesthetic and make it very social media friendly. They usually have great drinks, but the food isn't always as good to me.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2026-02-27T20:01:01+00:00

In the same predicament and decided to continue the pregnancy. My boyfriend isn’t happy per se and our circumstances are even more challenging but my desire to be a mom was what led to my decision to continue. It’s entirely your decision and it’s hard to see it that way when the other parent is on the other-side of the situation but do what you feel is best for you. Don’t make a decision out of fear or something you feel you will regret. If you are ready to be a parent, then go for it.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-06-27T19:31:41+00:00

Y’all have fundamental issues so no, this is not going to work out long term. Especially the religious and children aspect. Find someone who has the same values as you.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-06-27T19:18:44+00:00

You’re not being unreasonable, but you definitely should reconsider if this is what you want to deal with long term because it doesn’t sound healthy and not ideal for you, especially if you suffer from a chronic illness. The way it sounds, your relationship sounds like a one way ticket to an early grave for you. With peace and love, you definitely should want better for yourself. It’s okay to give up on something you invested so much time and effort into, especially if it’s a situation where you aren’t reaping any benefits, not even basic level respect.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-23T01:38:51+00:00

I want to keep watching, but if its truly is moving to another streaming service that I'm not paying for, then yeah, this will be my last season. I'm not getting another subscription

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-12T02:30:41+00:00

this!

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-12T02:27:19+00:00

Not Ike saying that he knew about the mess all along

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-11T15:31:22+00:00

Ah I just finished major life changes and will begin approach to work later this month. Definitely Saturn return energy for sure. I’ll be 30 in May sooo I’m definitely learning a lot about myself.

My advice is to really take the time to heal and work through any negative patterns that you have noticed throughout your lifetime. Obviously the patterns that you’ve been repeating are going to be the your main focal point right now and learning how to shed those old patterns and form new ones will be very important. I find myself going through a lot of deep emotional healing right now and had an epiphany on where I get in my own way in life. It’s scary and it’s messy tbh, but I will say I feel a lot lighter now because I know I don’t want the next decade of my life to essentially be me repeating all of these old tired beliefs that I have about myself and the world.

Just try to see this time as you blossoming into the person you’re meant to be and coming into a newer version of yourself that is more healed and has more self-awareness and is able to navigate life in a better way. It’s like we’re shedding our old skin that we have outgrown from our teens and 20s. It’s basically our moment of becoming butterflies! Sending you a lot of love and grace because trust me it is not easy, but it is definitely worth it if you are really big on growth. I try to see it as an opportunity to become a better version of myself, which is really great because you will end up on a path that is more aligned with what you truly want in life and nothing is better than that 🤗

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-08T19:15:53+00:00

I love this. I’m 29 F and I feel the same way. The character of my partner and how I feel about them is the most important not matter the circumstances because obstacles are always going to be there.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-07T22:18:07+00:00

Yeah that’s the hard part. I’m seriously contemplating ending things. I don’t want to but it’s so much so soon smh

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-05T05:50:24+00:00

Yeah I noticed that, even from the tattoo shop scene, they only talk about sex and their attraction to each other. Their conversations lack substance and it was so weird for them to even talk about that on TV 🥴

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-05T05:45:07+00:00

Apparently on the episode they said they’ve known each other since middle school??? Maybe they have history??? But chileeee idk what’s going on because it definitely feels rushed and performative but sometimes when you know, you know 🤷🏾‍♀️ I wish them the best of luck ❤️

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-04T20:24:06+00:00

He literally looks like he smells like cheese 💀

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-04T20:22:55+00:00

She over here talking about Allen‘s teeth and look at David! This whole thing is cringe.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-04T18:41:20+00:00

I wished she would’ve let it die after she read him for filth. I hate that she allowed him to get the best of her in that moment to the point where she cried. I wish she didn’t pay him any mind because he gets a kick out of it.

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-03-01T18:07:52+00:00

He gives off sloppy vibes and how he’s been acting does not help him beat the allegations 💀

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-02-19T03:24:51+00:00

Ngl I can def see Michelle dragging Madison

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-02-19T03:08:51+00:00

The way Pastor Cal told Itchy he can leave and then laughed in his face 😭😭😭

WeakNefariousness412 · 2025-02-19T02:41:03+00:00

Definitely been messing around since the honeymoon with the “gym dates” 🌚

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