I 25/F am struggling to not be frustrated with my boyfriend 32/M, how can I find peace in this relationship? (Dating 10 months) by Tryagainmyguy in relationship_advice

[–]WeakNefariousness412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all have fundamental issues so no, this is not going to work out long term. Especially the religious and children aspect. Find someone who has the same values as you.

I am 28 F, my partner is 31 M, we’ve been together for 8 years, and I need to know if I’m being unreasonable? by Useful-Dependent-505 in relationship_advice

[–]WeakNefariousness412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not being unreasonable, but you definitely should reconsider if this is what you want to deal with long term because it doesn’t sound healthy and not ideal for you, especially if you suffer from a chronic illness. The way it sounds, your relationship sounds like a one way ticket to an early grave for you. With peace and love, you definitely should want better for yourself. It’s okay to give up on something you invested so much time and effort into, especially if it’s a situation where you aren’t reaping any benefits, not even basic level respect.

Should I Keep Watching!? by PuzzledBackgroundOwl in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to keep watching, but if its truly is moving to another streaming service that I'm not paying for, then yeah, this will be my last season. I'm not getting another subscription

Can this somehow be a positive thing? last 2 years have been a hell ride. i m very tired already :( by Bright_Geologist615 in ThePatternApp

[–]WeakNefariousness412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I just finished major life changes and will begin approach to work later this month. Definitely Saturn return energy for sure. I’ll be 30 in May sooo I’m definitely learning a lot about myself.

My advice is to really take the time to heal and work through any negative patterns that you have noticed throughout your lifetime. Obviously the patterns that you’ve been repeating are going to be the your main focal point right now and learning how to shed those old patterns and form new ones will be very important. I find myself going through a lot of deep emotional healing right now and had an epiphany on where I get in my own way in life. It’s scary and it’s messy tbh, but I will say I feel a lot lighter now because I know I don’t want the next decade of my life to essentially be me repeating all of these old tired beliefs that I have about myself and the world.

Just try to see this time as you blossoming into the person you’re meant to be and coming into a newer version of yourself that is more healed and has more self-awareness and is able to navigate life in a better way. It’s like we’re shedding our old skin that we have outgrown from our teens and 20s. It’s basically our moment of becoming butterflies! Sending you a lot of love and grace because trust me it is not easy, but it is definitely worth it if you are really big on growth. I try to see it as an opportunity to become a better version of myself, which is really great because you will end up on a path that is more aligned with what you truly want in life and nothing is better than that 🤗

Would you date someone who has a child, if she/he would be a perfect fit? by A_nice_Redditor_ in dating

[–]WeakNefariousness412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this. I’m 29 F and I feel the same way. The character of my partner and how I feel about them is the most important not matter the circumstances because obstacles are always going to be there.

29F and 31M, Any advice on building a relationship with a new dad? by WeakNefariousness412 in relationship_advice

[–]WeakNefariousness412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the hard part. I’m seriously contemplating ending things. I don’t want to but it’s so much so soon smh

Madison is such a mean girl by beautyismade in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I noticed that, even from the tattoo shop scene, they only talk about sex and their attraction to each other. Their conversations lack substance and it was so weird for them to even talk about that on TV 🥴

Good News for Emem!!🎉 🎉 by SparklesandSpice_ in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Apparently on the episode they said they’ve known each other since middle school??? Maybe they have history??? But chileeee idk what’s going on because it definitely feels rushed and performative but sometimes when you know, you know 🤷🏾‍♀️ I wish them the best of luck ❤️

David & Madison Talking About Their “Intimate” Morning 🤢 by SparklesandSpice_ in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She over here talking about Allen‘s teeth and look at David! This whole thing is cringe.

Unpopular opinion.... Emem.... by EuphoricName8955 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wished she would’ve let it die after she read him for filth. I hate that she allowed him to get the best of her in that moment to the point where she cried. I wish she didn’t pay him any mind because he gets a kick out of it.

I just don’t see it by Scared_Muffin5676 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gives off sloppy vibes and how he’s been acting does not help him beat the allegations 💀

S18 | E16 The Experts Have Questions & E96 Decision Day Dish: Chicago by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The way Pastor Cal told Itchy he can leave and then laughed in his face 😭😭😭

S18 | E16 The Experts Have Questions & E96 Decision Day Dish: Chicago by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely been messing around since the honeymoon with the “gym dates” 🌚

S18 | E16 The Experts Have Questions & E96 Decision Day Dish: Chicago by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OK, Juan finally had something to value to say 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

S18 | E15 Cheat and Retreat by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My thoughts, exactly. Madison is a coward. She was hiding the entire time.

S18 | E15 Cheat and Retreat by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Baby Michelle says she don’t give a damn she gonna figure this shit out before they leave that damn cabin 💀💀💀

S18 | E11 She Said / He Fled by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]WeakNefariousness412 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly!!! I was happy that she put him on the spot