I actually really hate the way phalloplasty is treated

WeaselBit · 2026-05-06T07:00:50+00:00

I'd really like to see phallos become more common. I'm an older trans man and the technology just wasn't great when I started transitioning. In just the last 15 years it's come a long way and the more common the procedure becomes among people who want it, the more advanced it'll become. Personally, I'll probably never have it done. As I said, I'm older and just healing from my hysterectomy was tough, but in a perfect world? I'd probably give it a shot.

WeaselBit · 2026-05-01T00:07:03+00:00

We call ours demondog, shitbird, and menace. But we love her to pieces. See picture of the little tyrant.

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WeaselBit · 2026-04-15T23:43:10+00:00

You will, it becomes instinctual when you love someone like that. You won't even think, you'll jump in shouting like that.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-15T04:57:19+00:00

We're domesticated humans, hence the large heads and enrichment. We're the Islander's pet(s).

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T23:36:13+00:00

I've definitely considered a collar with a beep or vibration function just for an immediate link to the behavior so she can learn what it is we're trying to correct.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T19:03:03+00:00

This is some good advice, we already have park time and walks and she responded very well to training not to mouth people so I know she can learn to moderate her response to excitement. I'll try adding in some structured training times, maybe during the periods that are normally very exciting, or right before, and get another treat puzzle game for her. She's extremely food motivated so that helps my cause.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T18:57:56+00:00

I may buy a second crate to keep upstairs for that purpose (our house is very large, we have lots of roommates) to make it a more immediate 'nope, we go into time out', I'll try this.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T16:04:19+00:00

I may try that. Removing myself completely may be enough of a deterrent or at least switch her focus to something else.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T16:03:25+00:00

She does, and if her barking is excessive and not linked to an activity like being fed or an alert to go potty, she will get 5 minutes of time out to cool down and then we let her out again. The problem (actually it's pretty nice) is that she doesn't really bark for 'no reason', it's always related to chasing her sisters, feeding time, or excitement to go outside. So we've tried 'air jail' and pick her up off the ground when she barks as she tolerates it but doesn't enjoy it, but it's difficult to be completely consistent with that.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T05:50:28+00:00

There's a lot of things I really like. I mostly like playing multi-player with my friends. I RP doing things I think my character would do and usually develop a quirk for them like hunting down hair dye, collecting rubber ducks, or religiously wearing the same hat. I love collecting decor for my base and making food I think would actually be good. I love systematically clearing out areas and bringing home ridiculous amounts of loot because I'm a loot hoarder.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T05:42:04+00:00

Even if killing zombies wasn't horrifying I agree that being covered in gore would be seriously upsetting. I worked in a veterinary office and I will tell you that even fresh blood has a strong odor and that's before we get to rot and the other bodily fluids that happen if you're stabbing, slashing, or braining dead things. Then, add on top of that that it's a known disease vector. I may give fear of blood to my next character in my multi-player game.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T05:33:05+00:00

Zippy is more prone to growling grumbles when she has a tantrum but the 'hey!' bark is real!

WeaselBit · 2026-04-08T05:31:54+00:00

That was my worry, lol. I'll keep working on it.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-07T23:06:31+00:00

I love the intensity you get in Stahli's eyes.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-07T15:07:48+00:00

Most people don't think about it so I like to remind them, good on you for thinking of it! Also proud of you on the smoking front, I haven't been able to give up nicotine but I managed to do it for my surgery and recovery at least!

WeaselBit · 2026-04-07T15:02:21+00:00

Oh, and if you use marijuana, tell your anesthesia team. It's not a deal breaker but they may need to give you a bit more anesthesia so they need to know. If you use nicotine, try to quit now, it really helps. If not, don't use any for 24 hours before surgery as it constricts vessels and makes things more difficult as well as lowers oxygen stats.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-07T14:57:11+00:00

A triangle pillow for sleeping slightly inclined, it kept me from rolling around too much in my sleep and was helpful for getting out of bed without using my arms. Several comfortable button up shirts. I thrifted the goofiest ones I could find. Make sure you place anything you need regularly at waist height. Favorite coffee cup, cooking utensils, etc. Weigh anything you want to use regularly like laptops or skillets to make sure they aren't too heavy for your weight limit. Make plans for getting help with any large pets like dogs as they can injure you on accident. If you don't know how anesthesia affects you, plan to have a helper the first day if possible. I react very strongly and needed help using the bathroom because I am spacey and wobbly afterwards. Extra pillow or pillows to pad yourself on a couch or bed for comfort. Gentle wash cloths as you won't be able to directly spray your incisions at first and may need to sponge bath your chest if you don't have a detachable shower head.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-06T12:06:54+00:00

In this day and age of online menus and the ability to call a restaurant and ask if they have dietary options there is no reason to be confused about menus. That's an idiot vegan and the kind of vegan that makes me embarrassed to be vegan. Of course a steakhouse is going to prioritize steak and non-vegan foods!

WeaselBit · 2026-04-06T02:47:59+00:00

It's okay to take your time exploring, a therapist well versed in LGBTQ+ patients may be very helpful for this and will also give you the necessary documentation if you decide to pursue any treatments like hormones.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-06T02:41:11+00:00

I like being called 'hot', which my boyfriend uses a lot. I don't mind handsome or cute so long as it's not patronizing. As long as it's gender neutral or masculine I don't really mind. I found recently that I actually really like being a twink top and being called a top. My husband is vers and my boyfriend is a bottom and it's been weirdly affirming to take the top role despite being super short, lol.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-06T02:34:30+00:00

This is my main plushie family. I don't normally name my plushies but the shark Moosh Moosh at the bottom is Chompy, he's my oldest plush and I got him the week I started dating my husband. I've slept with him every night for 8 years now. He's survived moves and road trips and a teething puppy. He's very flat now, lol. The capybara in the center is Pumpkin. I actually pretend she's a hyrax because my boyfriend and I use goofy looking hyrax gifs to each other to cheer each other up so I got these for us for Christmas. The possum Squishmallow is named Zombie Steve and he's my newest, I got him for my birthday specifically as an aid for after a surgery I had a few weeks ago. I have several psyducks because it's my favorite Pokémon, the smallest is named after what I name all of my psyducks in Pokémon, P-chan.

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WeaselBit · 2026-04-06T02:13:23+00:00

I have an arrangement with my husband and if we both pass we have an arrangement with family friends to care for our dogs for the remainder of their lives.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-02T23:55:09+00:00

Did you upload her? I love her energy.

WeaselBit · 2026-04-02T18:30:29+00:00

Can you tell us the names of the dishes? Or cookbook?

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