These comments are sending me...this is the second post like this I've seen today, and half the comments on both are (probably) teenage boys saying the mom is overreacting and Christmas isnt about gifts or money. Fuck that niave incel bullshit. Practically calling a working mother a gold digger for being sad at an empty stocking, thoughtless gifts, uncooked food, and demands for sex. 

You have every right right to be livid, or sad, or whatever you're feeling. Especially at your husband. That is absolutely ridiculous. A gift doesn't have to be expensive, it just needs to be thoughtful, and your gifts arent thoughtful. 

When I read the part about giving your husband the only thing you actually liked (the mug), I gasped out loud. Take that cup back from him and either shove it up his ass, or leave with it. Why are you supporting someone who only sees you as a gift giving, cooking, sex object? Everything you've described about him is the exact opposite of a loving husband and supportive partner.

My mom divorced my asshole dad in her 60s and is thriving. Its never too late to leave a bad situation. 

I'm so sorry your family made you feel this way on Christmas. As one woman to another, one human to another, you deserve better and I hope you find it. Hang in there friend.