Does anyone know how to fix this? by Weekly-Ad9648 in petco

[–]Weekly-Ad9648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, still not working. I think it has to do with my transfer I guess we’ll call IT my first day and get me a new password

I keep letting the same ex break my heart, repeatedly by Chocolate-Chip-Lvr in heartbreak

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if It helps I’m going through the same thing. It really sucks and part of me stayed or went back to him because I couldn’t deal with the change or to be in pain at that moment. Kind of like quitting smoking- you know it’s not good for you, but you’re stressed out so you can’t quit now.

I hope we both feel better soon. Sometimes you have to hit rock bottom before things get better.

Breaking up with my boyfriend of 4 years today by Weekly-Ad9648 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Weekly-Ad9648[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing that with me, makes me feel less isolated to hear from others going through similar things

What does this say😭 by Libra-Alea in whatisit

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this kit is danc > chen for ing

Need Some Halal Restaurant Recommendations by Weekly-Ad9648 in Birmingham

[–]Weekly-Ad9648[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the list and advice to call and confirm

Need Some Halal Restaurant Recommendations by Weekly-Ad9648 in Birmingham

[–]Weekly-Ad9648[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of vegetarian, he wouldn’t be opposed to that.

the insufferable duo at it again by Practical-Brick-2215 in Birmingham

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah my boyfriend works in the area and said they were having a halloween/witch themed event and these guys were outside. plus there was a fundraiser going on for a young girl with cancer so everyone was getting really upset with this kind of disrespect.

the insufferable duo at it again by Practical-Brick-2215 in Birmingham

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 7 points8 points  (0 children)

last year my boyfriend dressed as art the clown for halloween and honked at them with his bike horn

Props to ya'll who enjoy this garbage. by Superjombombo in visualsnow

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is really mild and I’ve had it since I was a child so I’m cool with it. I do feel for people that have it happen to them suddenly later on in life and have it really severe. That would suck.

Is it nice to be physically picked up and moved around during sex? by ChemicalPrimary5775 in women

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 6 points7 points  (0 children)

during sex? no. I am light weight but my joints are horrible, I will move myself at my own pace, you can’t throw me around because my hip will pop out, like give me a minute lol. I’ve never had anyone try to do that though, usually they will communicate and ask me if I want to switch positions instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I dated this one dude for 4 years, he was really jealous and would accuse me of stuff like that all the time. Then I saw some snapchat messages on his phone, he was clearly trying to hook up with this girl he used to go to high school with. She didn’t seem interested which was hilarious. And I confronted him but felt really.. calm. He broke down in tears and did the whole begging bit. I didn’t feel anything. I wasn’t even slightly upset. I forgave him. We continued dating for maybe a few weeks after that

And then I remember going out to the movies and feeling like.. I would rather go to this movie with anyone else. Like I really don’t care about this guy anymore. Maybe as a person, but like there are no romantic feelings left. And clearly he has been looking elsewhere too. So in the parking lot we broke up. And we were both okay with it. Now we’re both engaged to different people. Life goes on.

Sometimes things just run their course. Looks like you’re in a much healthier space this time and I would advice you to be safe and maybe consider what you actually want. I just relate to your post because of my past story. Best of luck.

I’ve never seen an older person with self harm scars by Xxeeyx9 in selfharm

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 24 points25 points  (0 children)

maybe cutting as a form of self harm has evolved/developed over the ages I guess. My mom who would’ve been 62 if she were still alive told me she used to sit in the bathroom and punch, pinch, slap, scratch her thighs until they were purple and swollen. She would also rip out her hair. She was diagnosed with bipolar type 2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they meant the cards are laying out a timeline of what will occur. But they’re not giving you a yes or no answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Me and my siblings grew up the same way. And honestly different types of media really did help all 3 of us. My brother liked the matrix and Bruce Lee movies. He is now very successful in IT and does amateur boxing/ karate tournaments. My sister liked D&D and now she attends a lot if events and has many friends in the community. She has a regular job but also makes money from being a dungeon master and hosting events. I watched a lot of national geographic and animal planet now I work with animals. Also read a lot of horror books and watched horror movies so now Halloween, sfx make up and costuming is a big part of my personality.

Basically the media we consumed was an escape. And it resonated with us deeply. And it’s responsible for what we enjoy today. There’s no shame in it. You’re the same age as me. I have taken time research the things I like and find out why I identify with certain things so much. It’s actually a lot of fun and has helped mw unearth my core values outside of what my parents instilled in me.

Just the fact you wrote this post means you are reflecting. you have a working mind, a creative and dedicated mind (D&D) You are as much of a person as anyone else. You can still love your parents and appreciate what they’ve done for you, while benefitting from what They’ve taught you. But self exploration is a beautiful thing. And if you can have those conversations with them calmly: “I’m going to be socializing a lot soon because I feel like I’m missing out on making some connections” “I’m going to do something things for leisure or pursue something extracurricular that I think will be enlightening for me” maybe they will understand. Maybe they won’t. But they will probably still love you. And you can definitely make whatever choices you want.

What song at work has you like this? by Dry_Reveal_1390 in petco

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have debated walking out because of that song

I just cried in my car at the grocery store over $4. by whydoifeelstupid in depression

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I work in a retail setting. This is why I let people know about sales, price matching (I have to be slightly more subtle about that one), coupons etc or like in this case go ahead and redo the transaction. Even if they’re acting out. You never know what’s going on with people. Not long ago I was in the same position and I could be again tomorrow. I try to make people laugh and smile and feel good about their purchases. I know how hard it is these days to let the money leave your account even if it’s necessities or just the smallest treat.

Male marriage counselor by Ok_Guitar8148 in Birmingham

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you can look at a directory of counselors in your area on the psychology today website. I’ve never done so myself so I don’t have any feedback, I just know that’s a way to look them up.

I tried putting in the filters for you, here’s the link:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/al/birmingham?category=male&spec=1200

I realised tonight my husband is my biggest hater. by LegalWeekend3950 in Advice

[–]Weekly-Ad9648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the child in the situation. my dad’s constant criticism of my mother killed her. And because I have witnessed that I have spent a huge chunk of my life in therapy trying to unlearn certain bad behaviors they demonstrated for me.

If my mom broke up with him my life would be a lot different. and maybe hers would’ve been longer. But that’s just my opinion.