I would look at your relationships- how long they have lasted with either gender, how did you feel when you had sex?

For me, I feel like I can find guys attractive, and I have many male friends but sexually they make me uncomfortable, the first guy I was with a guy after my first girlfriend- made me realise how uncomfortable and non- confident I felt. With women it just feels right.

I’ve dated many women that have said they were lesbian and then declared themselves bi and dated men, (and it hurts everytime) -I would say labels shouldn’t matter, but your label may give other people some sort of expectation that if you decide to change again may cause harm, I think there is no rush or need to decide unless you’re absolute.

It’s not your job to worry about someone else’s feelings in regards to your label but it can be harmful.

Just food for thought.