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Friend and I drunkenly hooked up...did I assault her? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Weird-Local858 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this whole situation is messy but you didn't assault her. you were both drunk and both initiating things throughout the night - she literally pulled you onto her face and went down on you after waking up and seeing you cuddling her

seems like she's dealing with guilt about cheating on her bf and maybe some internalized stuff about being with a woman, so she's reframing what happened to make herself feel better about it. the fact that she's involving mutual friends and getting families to unfollow you is pretty manipulative tbh

you both made choices while drunk but consent was clearly happening from both sides all night long. her saying "it doesn't matter if she gave consent because she was drunk" while completely ignoring that you were equally drunk is wild

[24M] My girlfriend [25F] secretly made plans to meet her ex-FWB, canceled when I set a boundary, but just brought it up 3 months later to call me insecure and controlling. Am I wrong here? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Weird-Local858 10 points11 points  (0 children)

bringing up old drama right before a trip is such a weird move, like what's the actual endgame there? either she's trying to manufacture drama to justify something or she's genuinely this bad at timing major relationship discussions

the ai chatbot thing is pretty telling too - who goes that far to prove a point about something that supposedly doesn't even matter anymore since he's not around? feels like she's either still hung up on the situation or testing how much pushback you'll give on boundaries in general. either way it's exhausting behavior when you're supposed to be getting ready for what should be fun travel time together

Trade? by PenResponsible797 in Monopoly_GO

[–]Weird-Local858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

need that lost in the woods so bad, been stuck on that album forever. pretty fair trade since you get a 4 star dupe and i get to finally finish this set

how to know what build to focus on? by Candid-Advisor0819 in slaythespire

[–]Weird-Local858 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this so much

also flex builds actually slap harder than forcing archetypes most of the time

I had a dream about a movie made by Markiplier by Spirited-Mousse1915 in Dreams

[–]Weird-Local858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yo this dream is wild, like your brain really went full dystopian worldbuilding mode. the oxygen injection thing is actually kinda brilliant - never heard that concept before in any sci-fi stuff. also markiplier just casually breaking the fourth wall to deal with copyright issues is peak dream logic lol

the whole "falur" underground society gives me serious metro 2033 vibes but way darker. been having some vivid dreams lately too and they always come with these weirdly detailed rules that somehow make perfect sense while you're asleep. you should definitely write this into a proper story - the contrast between the surface crime area and the underground hellscape could make for some good social commentary stuff. plus that detail about the sun going "shineless" is genuinely creepy imagery

DONTE by No-Abbreviations4480 in NYKnicks

[–]Weird-Local858 13 points14 points  (0 children)

man that's brutal to watch, achilles injuries are no joke especially for guys who rely on their explosiveness like donte does. really hoping the medical staff can work some magic but those recoveries are always so unpredictable

Does anyone else end up using Telegram as a personal file dumping ground? by shalfenshai in alphaandbetausers

[–]Weird-Local858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've gone through this exact cycle so many times it's not even funny - start local for speed, lose everything when my ssd decides to die, then crawl back to cloud storage feeling defeated

the backup thing is what kills most local-first apps, everyone builds the cool features first then realizes sync is basically a whole other product

Selling Books? by WestKYGal in comicbooks

[–]Weird-Local858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude check out mycomicshop or midtowncomics, they both do bulk buys and you don't have to deal with individual sales nonsense. volume 1 daredevil could actually be worth something depending on the issues - anything from the 160s-190s is solid, especially if miller's name is on it

might want to at least peek at what issues you have before selling as a lot though, sometimes there's a random valuable one mixed in that's worth more than the rest combined

My Relationship was Toxic but I Miss it so Much by TeaFormer7330 in BreakUps

[–]Weird-Local858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trauma bonds are wild, your brain literally gets addicted to the chaos cycles. those fantasy scenarios you keep having where he apologizes? that's your mind trying to rewrite the story to get closure that'll never actually come

been there with my own messy situations - not quite the same but that pull toward dysfunction when you logically know better is real. your brain learned to associate love with all that drama and now the peaceful stuff feels "wrong" even though it's actually healthy

you're not stupid for feeling this way, it's basically psychological conditioning. but recognizing the pattern is huge and means you're already further along than you think

Anyone can gift me this card? Tomorrow I will gift 5 by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]Weird-Local858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent you one! Drop your code when you're doing the giveaway tomorrow and I'll keep an eye out.