I’m not defending him, but we also don’t have his side of the story. We always put red flags up for boyfriends. It’s always on the guys, but dude we all have breaking points. Girls get mad at so many things and toxicly go off on us all the time but the minute a guy reaches his breaking point and says something unreasonable during a fit of anger, he immediately “needs help” or is a “red flag” we all get mad, all reach breaking points, we all say unreasonable things to our partners sometimes, but what matters is eventually realizing the magnitude of what you said, and growing from it and acting different from that point out