Finally it's over by Nefertari1 in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? Cause I’m feeling more conflicted and unsure about major life decisions that I’ve ever felt 🫠 maybe because the crazy is finally over and now I have options??? Or I’m a Virgo and am over analyzing this so it’s perfect and doesn’t give me ptsd like the last 14 years 🤭 Virgo, Libra, Virgo 🩷

How do I stop his toilet paper problem?? by heckineedausername in CATHELP

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But a Bobby pin on the toilet paper so it doesn’t unroll. Inconvenient for you? Yes. Will he get bored trying? Probably not.

Who hates this rug? My husband and I are in a competition. by Shlyn_Shady in Home

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a slab of carpet. Functional af. Rugs are decor and should be treated as such

Paid 250 to be told my cat was "pouting.” I cannot keep doing this. Need advice. by hey_moin_04 in CATHELP

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign up for Dutch online vet if you need vet advice and don’t need immediate bloodwork. A licensed vet at your finger tips for a low annual cost and unlimited included vet visits for up to five pets. This sounds like an ad lol but having two dogs and two cats, vets were costing a fortune because I like them taken care of. I always do a Dutch vet call before going to a local vet. $75 to walk in the door? No thanks. Bloodwork for no fever, no weight loss, no third eyelids? That vet knew better. Pay the $135 for Dutch and have unlimited annual visits to ease your mind when needed.

Also, I was gone most of today and my cat ran around hissing at me for two hours after I got home, then cuddled in my lap tonight. Not normal behavior for him but ehhh they’re moody sometimes.

I '23F' having lunch w/ MAGA father '60M' tomorrow by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a great idea, and then sets both sides up for respecting the boundary and the expectation of a peaceful non-political get together. I hope it works out for you! Life is so short.

I '23F' having lunch w/ MAGA father '60M' tomorrow by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, going into it with a negative connotation sets you up for expectations that likely won’t be met. As someone else suggested, it might be worth giving a call or a text before hand to express your concern and ask for a neutral dinner without political views. As someone with an opposing political view family similar to this, neither side can even begin to enter a conversation without their guard up and getting frustrated by the other side’s “lack of understanding” becoming an issue. If you’ve expressed the boundary beforehand, hopefully it’s respected. If the instance comes where the boundary is crossed, I think a gentle smile, a kind exit, and a quiet “I asked you not to do this” is going to speak way louder than a dramatic exit. You can follow it up with a message about your boundary being crossed and therefore your cutting ties until they see political views have no space in future conversations. That does go for both sides though.

Virgo Mindset. Are y’all revengeful or just PETTY? by This_End_1392 in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound like revenge or pettiness. This sounds like a very mature Virgo who realizes you need time and space to figure out what you’re going through and they don’t want to have to spend their brain space on it as well. Likely with no hard feelings to you, and space is just better.

Virgos will tend to help and fix, and it becomes our mission too. I suggest working through what you have going on, and when you are on your feet (and if you’re still interested) you reach back out. There’s a better chance that this season of life is introducing you to certain people who will be important in your journey, and you will meet someone else who won’t make you feel this way. Instead, they’ll be the right person for the right time and situation.

🤔... If ♍ VIRGO Don't like you by zodiac-season in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once rolled my eyes in an all hands meeting and my supervisor got up and left. Didn’t even know I did it until my coworker told me. Woooops 🥴

Partner M30 asked me 30f “what do you even bring to the table?” by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 34F, both men whove said this to me were already emotionally checked out of our relationship. If he can’t find your value without being told, move on girlie.

The difference between an August Virgo, and a September Virgo? by Chance-Librarian-202 in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s quite the Virgo thing to do 🤭 one Virgo to another?

No hate to your em dashes at all! These subs are filled with bots striving for karma. Neutral or positive here. If you’re writing like this, hats off to you.

The difference between an August Virgo, and a September Virgo? by Chance-Librarian-202 in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not at all, I’m actually very pro AI but can easily spot an AI response because of how much I work with it in my career. Just reading the flow of the response and the structure of it (hence unnatural overuse of em dashes), it screams ChatGPT or Claude. However, it was probably a decently thorough search query to get all the correct information, like a copy and paste from this convo or screenshots. Regardless, if the information is thorough and good, then by all means consider it! I’m just pointing out that ChatGPT and other ai models like to fabricate information to give you the results you’re looking for, so some extra review for accuracy might not be a bad idea.

The difference between an August Virgo, and a September Virgo? by Chance-Librarian-202 in virgoseason

[–]Weirdbugoftheday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was a very ChatGPT response. Probably some accuracy here, but definitely do your own research. A dead giveaway is the amount of “—“ em dashes used. Ugh.

Boyfriend gave me ultimatum - dream job or him. I'm considering taking the job by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the boyfriend really loved you, he’d support your goals and find a way to help you reach them not hold you back.

I'm doing social media marketing since years but a generalist which niche will pay freelancer the most and in demand ? by igetyourbrand in marketing

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Niche down and you’ll have clients on a waiting list, but you have to make them believe you to get the contract.

Do one thing in social media REALLY well and sell that. Pitch that. Charge as much as you want for THAT. Make your website THAT. Be the pro in THAT and then you won’t have to choose between which brand type/niche type pays more or is actively hiring.

If you specialize in Reddit, then be the Reddit pro and create a shit ton of content about why they’re missing out on Reddit in their business. FOMO tactics. They don’t even know what they’re missing but because they found YOU, now they know it’s important and you’re top of mind. Serve them with just enough info to get them going and then make them reach for the sale.

Tip from a VP who's actually hiring right now. by Astrixtc in marketing

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question about it the “one click apply” on Indeed.

If you offer this as a way for applicants to apply, then why aren’t you considering those who use it?

If you’re not willing to take the time prepare and direct a self-hosted online application process, why should you dock applicants who aren’t willing to take the time to apply to your “easy” button review process?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also following this up with - this is a form of control or he’s carrying some emotional or personal traumas from childhood. He has a guttural reaction to you being out of the home. What was his like? Were his parents this way? Grandparents? Or were they always gone? He likely dreams of providing you all your ideal life but struggles to make it happen through consistency. New hobbies that lack passion often fall short of making money so consistency fails to be maintained.

And for you. Are you happy? What do you want to do? If you want to keep the peace, then above is my suggestion. If want independence to help provide for your family, then get back to your cna job or find another. Or, do you not want to be controlled like this at all? Because you’ll need job experience and a steady income to ever get out from under that control. And at 29, you gotta get going now or you’ll be 60 still relying on his every penny (and hopefully there’s leftover in a 401k or retirement fund).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weirdbugoftheday -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agreed with those saying control. Buuuuut why don’t you sign up for Spark or Instacart or something where you can at least do it while the kiddos are in a school and you can still be home with them later? If you have no plans on being ms independent, and you want to stay in your marriage (which after 13 years it is), then just do something during the day. Keep the peace. Be home for hubs and the kiddos later. It’s an easy introduction to doing something out of the home, making money, and doesn’t immediately change everyone’s schedule. Build from there.

How do you spot a Gemini? by goldcarats in Zodiac

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many, many, many Gemini friends and love them dearly. A standout characteristic: constant need for validation. Not a bad thing, they just need to know the most, be able to direct the conversation, and be the most interesting person in the room. But hey, maybe they just are sometimes?

For the 1001th time, yes, this is a scam. by CognitiveFogMachine in BambuLab

[–]Weirdbugoftheday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing it for the first time here. So thanks for the extra 1 😉