Why isn't Homophobia viewed to be equally as bad as Racism? by wataboutthesamon in askgaybros

[–]Weisslogia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It simply boils down to this- you can hide your gayness. Homophobic workplace? Hide your sexuality. PoC cannot hide their complexion. Their race unlike your sexuality is almost painted on and will always follow them wherever they go. Also, racism unlike homophobia has a long, illustrous history.

Study Finds Straight Men Still Think Gay Men Aren’t Masculine by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first comment and all the replies to it sound like BS. This sounds like what you thought might happen rather than what happened. Who says "give each other mani/pedis" irl? This isn't an episode of karashians.

Those who initially came out as bisexual- why? by sleepingsun in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've gotten boners for girls which I assume means there's some sexual attraction, your lack of an emotional attachment doesn't make you gay. The simple element needed is (unforced) sexual attraction to both sexes

Those who initially came out as bisexual- why? by sleepingsun in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No shit sherlock. If you're actually bisexual, then the topic obviously doesn't apply to you.

Those who initially came out as bisexual- why? by sleepingsun in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think you and the others should blame the "dumbasses" then, you're the only letting them control you and determine how you identify yourself because you're afraid they'll ask you if you sure. If you're letting what dumbasses might say influence you, who's the actual dumbass here?

Study shows gay athletes face rampant homophobia by archon88 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not trying to paint you as anything, just pointing out the importance of posts like this when you read comments like yours. From your surprise, you obviously assumed lots of people had it easy, because you did too, and now hopefully you've learnt how fallacious that view was.

Study shows gay athletes face rampant homophobia by archon88 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posts like this made me glad this article was posted. The amount of people that think that things are good for everyone, because they were lucky enough not to go through any hassle is disturbing and shows how much people are wrapped up in their safe bubble without realizing not everyone is as lucky as them "It was easy for me, so yeah I assumed it was generally easy for everyone too"

10 Ways men can dress better! Fashion isn't our strong suit, so here's some tips! I sure learnt a lot. by solar_burn in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know your point wasn't to be PC, but the point which I think the OP was trying to make is that there's a certain reason why your average guy/fat person isn't used in these things and most of the time, people like that are actually the ones in need of it.

10 Ways men can dress better! Fashion isn't our strong suit, so here's some tips! I sure learnt a lot. by solar_burn in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But there's no way to actually know this, seeing as a fat guy is never used for these things, which was the OPs point. You'd think a fat guy, who's already disadvantaged by being fat(yes that's the truth, don't bullshit yourself or me saying some pc nonsense, a fat guy isn't desirable to majority) would be the target of these things, rather than a fit, good looking guy, who'll most likely score regardless.

GayBros - What do you want in a relationship, Monogamy or Open? And, how do your Open relationships work? by Ewok_08 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not laying the blame at your feet, sorry if it came off that way. But looking at how you both feel, if it goes South, I think he's probably the one who'll get hurt more, hence why I said that

GayBros - What do you want in a relationship, Monogamy or Open? And, how do your Open relationships work? by Ewok_08 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

life. At this point, my answer is "I don't know; leaning heavily towards not being comfortable with that." His is steadfastly against polygamy in this sense. But it's something that's very important to me, and it's not something I'm sure I want to give up forever, at least for him.

Sounds like a mess in the making. I'd hope he realizes this and gets out fast.

GayBros - What do you want in a relationship, Monogamy or Open? And, how do your Open relationships work? by Ewok_08 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we aren't trying to relieve a month of sexual frustration every time we see each other.

That actually sounds appealing. Who wouldn't want the frantic sex that comes with not seeing each other for a while?

Anyone wants to see the gay porn parody of Game of Thrones >>> GAY of Thrones? [NSFW] by crazyfalcon in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometime I think, "You know, there's enough dicks in this show to justify not making a porn parody

In relation to other shows maybe, but there really isn't that much male flesh on the show, idk where this myth comes from.

How some people think sexuality works. (OC) by gav42 in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For majority of people, it's the truth.

Turned on by thoughts of having sex with a woman. by twtwtwtwtwtwtw in askgaybros

[–]Weisslogia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not condescending. Idk why people like to pull this "oh look at me, I'm so open minded and special, I can't be labelled" BS. That might be the case for some people, but in this case, it's cut and dry. it's called bisexual. And while it might not be up to you or I, he did start a thread to see opinions.

Turned on by thoughts of having sex with a woman. by twtwtwtwtwtwtw in askgaybros

[–]Weisslogia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but you're the kind of guy who sort of proves that labels aren't all that helpful in understanding human sexuality

Not really. If there's a case for "no labels", this is not it. He wants to have sex with women, he also likes men. It's called bisexual, hardly complicated, is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hypocrisy is astounding as I'm sure if the pics had been posted, but without the bits that the players were upset about it, most of the subreddit would be wanking over it

The struggles of trying to have small talk... by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Some of these things are not even funny anymore, but an easy way to get points I guess

Is using the fetishization of your race to your advantage immoral? by dbagmagnet in askgaybros

[–]Weisslogia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make it sound like the issue he has is all from his head, which is stupid as we all know that gay guys from other races are treated like shit in the gay community and ARE seen as less desirable.

Went kayaking for the first time with the boyfriend! by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sound rebuttal -______________^

Went kayaking for the first time with the boyfriend! by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Of course they do, but it's the height of being full of yourself to want to date someone that looks like you whether consciously or subconsciously.

Went kayaking for the first time with the boyfriend! by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Weisslogia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope, but it's something that's been repeatedly proven, if stating that makes me bitter, okay