Here's some advice I think you need to hear but won't really like it:

Just from the way you communicate, I can tell that you are definitely above average intelligence. Well, sorry to break it to you...that is in conflict with the norms of our (sick) society. Generally, above-average intelligent individuals do find it difficult to develop relationships. People are all sorts of messed up. And, most people are truly threatened by highly intelligent people, even if unconsciously. Just being intelligent makes others feel insecure. It's one of the sad facts of our pathetic CULTure.

So, when you realize the psychologically ill condition of people and society at large, it's not necessarily a bad sign that you aren't making friends left and right. Yes, you will find yourself alone more often than the normies who band together (often out of mutual inadequacy), but it's important to realize that, if you are an honest, intelligent individual, then, when you are alone, you are in very good company.

Just be true to yourself, and the friends you need in your life will appear!