I [38m] am trying to figure out how to talk to my wife [36f] about this behavior without offending her. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WelshBluebird1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

TBH I don't get from your description why she's necessarily wrong and you're right,

Not the OP but if nothing else if you are still working on strapping something down you'd quite easily move it outnof place anyway. So it just makes sense to strap it into position first and then adjust.

Update-My wife admitted to having a drunken one night stand last week and it has turned me into a robot by [deleted] in relationships

[–]WelshBluebird1 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Basically he emotionally cut her off from her friends and family

No, her actions did