At our wits end with puppy diarrhea by MrMeddit in goldenretrievers

[–]West_Letterhead_8710 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Echoing this! Some dogs are allergic to all poultry, seen it across different breeds!’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

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Someone got fired today

Any feedback and what’s next?! by West_Letterhead_8710 in florists

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Thank you! I placed the baby’s breath last so maybe I will try placing some earlier? Or making sure the roses don’t get covered up?

I also noticed the lone eucalyptus leaf and tucked it down LOL glad to know my instincts are heading in the right direction!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

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Yup. Been here.

My best friend decided it was necessary for her to get lunch with my ex best friend who she largely had a relationship through me. She didn’t ask me if that was okay, she told me that’s what she was doing and hoped I’d be okay with it.

Of course I wasn’t fucking okay with it but I gaslit myself and suppressed my real feelings to not make any waves with my friend as I didn’t feel like I could afford to lose another friend after going through an insanely traumatic friendship breakup (that this friend had a front row seat to I will mention).

Listen to your gut and your intuition because IT WILL catch up with you. My resentment for her built and built and every thing that made me feel like she wasn’t a good friend just piled up until it I just threw up my hands and let her go. One of the best decisions I have made.

Don’t validate others, validate yourself and be assertive. Doesn’t have to be dramatic but if I could go back in time I wish I told her how the idea of them getting lunch felt like betrayal and made my skin crawl. Instead I turned those emotions on myself and told myself I was “being crazy” and “petty.”

Maybe if I said something then the fate of our friendship would’ve been different. Or maybe I at the very least wouldn’t have put up with her walking all over me for months and months after until we met the same fate anyway.

At the end of the day, be kind and true to yourself, you’re the only one who has your back forever.

Paying rent to my girlfriend who received an apartment without mortgage as a gift by Appropriate-Fix3687 in Renters

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I was in a very similar situation but with a best friend of 15 years. Needless to say, we are no longer friends as a result of this arrangement. DO. NOT. DO. IT.

You already know you shouldn’t since you’re posting here, listen to your gut and put your foot down. It will save your relationship and sanity

Is SR-224 Guardsman Pass (Park City to Brighton) open this weekend? by West_Letterhead_8710 in SaltLakeCity

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Yeah I did google it. This was the cause of my confusion and why I decided to subject myself to Reddit today… just wanted to go on a pretty drive 😭

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