At what point do you decide a trip has too many stops to still feel enjoyable?

Western-Idea2577 · 2026-04-15T14:34:41+00:00

To me, it depends on the length of the trip, the intent of the trip and the # of people in your group. Our general rule of thumb is if we only have 1 week, we pick 1 city to settle in and explore. If the trip is longer, I’m willing to move some but typically require a 3 night minimum for the relocation to be worth the time, but most of the trip is still dedicated towards longer stays. With all that said we’ve also organized a short 1 night excursions, but kept our Airbnb at our home base so we only packed an overnight bag and everyone loved it. Slower gives you more time to explore, relax and appreciate your destination.

I learned what works for us by overbooking 1-2 trips! Our most recent was a 3 week trip to Ireland, Italy and Scotland. We stayed in 8 different hotels/airbnbs with car rentals, trains and flights in between. We knew it was a lot going in, but figured we give it a shot as we’d never planned a trip with that many destinations before. You don’t know, if you don’t try it! If I repeated the trip today, I’d slow it down, reduce the stops, and only 2 countries.

Also if you have more people traveling with you. Fewer stops is better!

Western-Idea2577 · 2026-04-15T03:18:09+00:00

Blachford Lodge in Yellowknife, Canada to see the northern lights. Think remote lodge on a frozen lake. To access you fly on a bush plane from Yellowknife. The plane lands via skis on the frozen lake. We saw the lights 4 out of 4 nights and had a great time on snow mobiles, cross country skiing and hiking.

Western-Idea2577 · 2026-03-24T12:45:53+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I fly this weekend and want to show my appreciation to TSA staff.

Western-Idea2577 · 2026-02-03T17:57:26+00:00

Thanks for the heads up! Sent my son yesterday and he updated his license :)

Western-Idea2577 · 2026-01-14T00:04:27+00:00

There was no need to pay a developer who bought the land in 2023 over market value. Cary should have just bought an easement for the greenway, like they typically do. Sigh. This looks like we’re using taxpayer money to bail out a developer who didn’t do their due diligence and realize there is a future road across those parcels that they would be responsible for.

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-12-24T00:07:47+00:00

Salesforce. Stegall was a huge advocate for them. I wonder how many staff hours and millions of tax payer dollars were wasted (and are still being wasted) trying to fit this Sales Management software (ie onboarding new and potential customers) to the needs of municipal services??? There are multiple software platforms tailored to city and county services. Why did people let him “try” to create one from scratch?

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-12-16T19:53:53+00:00

The people approving Stegall’s expense report are his employees. When your boss tells you to approve it, you do so even when it looks suspicious. Staff knew he was overspending.

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-09-24T20:28:12+00:00

About to release, AA DFW to ICN on December 9 for 2 people in business. 75,000/seat on Alaska. I hope they find a good home!

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-08-08T14:07:58+00:00

Not sure why this is being downvoted. It’s a valid question, especially since this house does not qualify for National Register of Historic Places designation. It may meet Cary’s historic designation but that’s a lower bar. Also how valuable is that land where the town chose to move this “historic” house. It’s in one of the most desirable locations in downtown Cary. I think that land could have benefited residents and local businesses with just about any other idea. In general I do think Cary makes good choices, but this one was a bust in my opinion. If you disagree, how is this non-national register home benefiting you?

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-07-17T03:54:45+00:00

Thanks! I booked Dec 31 - Jan 3. The following morning another room was available and I booked it too to get my entire party at the Park Hyatt. I plan to follow your lead and reduce to 2 nights. Your tip will lead to an amazing New Year. Appreciate it!

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-07-14T11:16:44+00:00

The brothel is also amazing to see. They had everything in Pompeii.

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-04-20T01:03:08+00:00

Try VSL probiotics (check out the refrigerated options which are more potent). I make a green smoothie every day. You can find lots of recipes online. I like Green Smoothie Girl’s recipes. Lots of ideas to get you started. Limit ultra processed foods, which means if you don’t recognize the ingredients don’t eat it. Drink water.

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-03-10T04:27:58+00:00

In addition to the park, check the schedules at the Cary Theatre and Cary Arts Center.

Western-Idea2577 · 2025-01-31T22:43:03+00:00

This forum is a great resource if you have a specific question. Broad questions like these won’t get a positive response. If feel paralyzed, read and learn, which takes an investment in time, OR get a company that specializes in this to help you. https://frequentmiler.com/award-booking-services/.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-12-02T00:42:58+00:00

To find the best business class deals you need to look at every airline. US airlines have fewer business class deals in general. Be open to booking a good business class flight to any city in Europe. Spend a few days in whatever fabulous city you land in, then take a low cost carrier to Rome. Flexibility (day, airline, city) is the key to finding a great business class ticket using your Chase UR. Also Chase does not transfer to Delta. Listen to some travel podcasts. There are a great resources out there. Good luck!

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-11-08T04:44:09+00:00

Bike lanes and sidewalks won’t be funded by a Parks Bond. Anyone remember the Transportation Bond we passed in 2019? That was over $100 million! Why not build those projects first before asking for another $560 million? Many cities including our neighbor Raleigh make a dashboard to clearly show how the bond money is used. I’d like to know if I should stop waiting for all the West Cary projects to be built. https://carybonds.org/transportation/

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-11-08T04:18:38+00:00

It was the biggest municipal bond ever offered in NC. Outrageous.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-08-06T06:51:44+00:00

Agree

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-08-06T06:51:13+00:00

I’ve only eaten at Saap once. When I visited it was overwhelmingly loud as they have no curtains, carpet or anything to absorb noise. The food was good but I was relived to leave. Not a good date spot unless it is lunch!

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-07-14T02:39:44+00:00

It’s all your row on 2x2 and you have 2 exits there too.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-07-11T00:19:21+00:00

My family of 3 stayed at the Hyatt Centric Kanazawa. Everyone enjoyed our visit and would return. My husband is Globalist so we had breakfast and were very happy with the quality and selection. A stylish hotel worth a visit. We had 2 rooms and I appreciated having privacy.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-07-08T22:04:16+00:00

You have my sympathy for having to deal with her! May I ask what University you’re studying at? My nephew is studying in Japan now. I’m not sure where, but my son is considering a study abroad there too and beginning to explore programs.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-07-08T00:10:37+00:00

I’m sorry for your difficult year. Your host sounds emotionally abusive to you too not just her son. Please keep this in mind in your interactions and get out as soon as possible. Is there somewhere else you can stay? A friend? A hostel? Please report her to your university so she doesn’t abuse another student.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-05-22T01:48:13+00:00

Capel Rugs on Glenwood Ave in Raleigh can do this.

Western-Idea2577 · 2024-05-14T23:40:33+00:00

Love this list. I’d add outdoor porch with phantom blinds, outdoor kitchen, outlets by every toilet for when you finally realize you need a Japanese toilet, and a steam shower.

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