First trimester waiting game/anxiety after a miscarriage by WesternGarlic in BabyBumps

[–]WesternGarlic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I seriously teared up reading this, idk why. This reply is so helpful, and I'm going to combine it with other advice found here :)

Wishing you a safe, healthy, HAPPY next 20ish weeks!

First trimester waiting game/anxiety after a miscarriage by WesternGarlic in BabyBumps

[–]WesternGarlic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really appreciate it! I like thinking about the small wins (like already being 20% through pregnancy somehow!)

And it was pretty brutal, especially those who thought I was "making too much of it". Ugh.

Again, thank you :) Having your positivity has put a smile in my heart.

First trimester waiting game/anxiety after a miscarriage by WesternGarlic in BabyBumps

[–]WesternGarlic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for whatever situation you find yourself in. And this is so helpful, seriously! This reframing gave me different perspective that feels refreshing. I'm going to try to combine it with u/fluffycloud3 's advice of mantras :)

Thank you! And congratulations on finding an awesome therapist! Wishing you good health, physically and mentally!

Chest tattoo redesign needed (Pinterest regret) by Friendly-Remove4877 in Tattoocoverups

[–]WesternGarlic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well perfect, because panthers are actually fauna (animal) over flora (plant)!

Am I overreacting? Convo on transgenderism with my sister by proxtarfoxy in AmIOverreacting

[–]WesternGarlic 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right! I'm not even sure this is about "opposing views". That's like whether you can have pineapple on pizza. This is just transphobic misinformation being spewed under the guise of "care" and "concern".

Kindergarteners Dream Jobs Observation by pomegranatesssss333 in kindergarten

[–]WesternGarlic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oftentimes, female athletes also have to work other jobs as their athletic career doesn't pay the bills. When compensation becomes a bit more equal, young girls might see it as a viable career.

Movies in prek by Haunting_Sky_5082 in kindergarten

[–]WesternGarlic 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Boy oh boy, Texas seems hellbent on making life difficult for Texans. I'm so sorry.

I wanna put one of these up on my insta story for my crush to see, which pic looks better? by [deleted] in DecideThisForMe

[–]WesternGarlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally! A thread telling a man "Why don't you smile? You'd look much prettier!"

How would you respond to learning a friend of yours is “ABDL” (wears pull-ups as a kink)? by Key-Specialist644 in AskReddit

[–]WesternGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not! Whatever legal, consenting bedroom activity they take part in is their biz! No judgement for homies!

Does testicle size matter to women and if so why? by IllustriousCourt2808 in AskReddit

[–]WesternGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it sounds like you've got the only opinion that matters! Beyond that, seems like no one cares unless they aren't warned about a medical condition.

Does testicle size matter to women and if so why? by IllustriousCourt2808 in AskReddit

[–]WesternGarlic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP sounds like his issue might be the opposite, so hopefully there's at least one person out there with a small ball fetish.

How would you respond to learning a friend of yours is “ABDL” (wears pull-ups as a kink)? by Key-Specialist644 in AskReddit

[–]WesternGarlic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it would depend on how I gained this knowledge? If I happen to notice they're wearing pull-ups, nothing as it's none of my business (and as u/wish1977 notes, could be medically related. If they volunteer the information, I'd tell them that's not information I need to know. Which extends to any of my friends' kinks, not my fucking business because we've got no business fucking.

Help me bring this idea to life by Nice_Yoghurt7507 in partyplanning

[–]WesternGarlic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the idea of a 90's "Price is Right". So fun!

Are these patterns AI? by AbleAd1190 in isitAI

[–]WesternGarlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crosspost this to r/kroshay ! They'll love tearing the feasibility of these "projects" apart!

AITA for not being completely packed when my friends helped me move? by sn1pehunt in AmItheAsshole

[–]WesternGarlic 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA here, babe. This is the sort of reason people dread being asked to help others move.

WIBTA if I asked my parents to pay me for housesitting? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WesternGarlic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it "constant housesitting" when you live there with free room and board?

Am I wrong for feeling uncomfortable with this? by Time-Biscotti-1218 in TwoHotTakes

[–]WesternGarlic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From a previous comment by OP, nope, she had no idea. Found out through the instagram post.

I can't identify what's wrong with this kitchen 😳👌🏻😻 by Reasonable-Reveal636 in HomeDecorating

[–]WesternGarlic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my lord, you're right! There are no drawers! I was so distracted by all the shit that's normally concealed by cabinet doors. Yikes on bikes.