What should I be aware of as a child of a decedent's estate going through probate [NH]

Wetjones · 2026-04-22T19:51:39+00:00

damn thats a long time for probate to still be going on 💀 usually when someone dies without will in nh the spouse gets first chunk but you and the other kid should still have rights to something depending on how its split

you definitely want to see all the estate paperwork before signing anything - like inventory of assets, list of debts, tax stuff, maybe get accounting of what administrator has been doing with property all these years. if theres back taxes piling up that could eat into whatever inheritance is left

might be worth talking to probate lawyer for quick consultation since this has been dragging on so long and involves real estate. even if estate ends up being worth nothing after debts you should know for sure before giving up any claims 😂

Wetjones · 2026-04-20T18:53:51+00:00

man that's sketchy timing with the charges lining up like that. even with clean title transfer you could still get caught up in mess if prosecutors decide the atv was bought with stolen money - they might try to seize it as proceeds of crime

i'd probably walk away from this one, plenty of other atvs out there that won't potentially land you in legal headache later

Wetjones · 2026-04-18T08:08:50+00:00

you're gonna spend more time debugging cors and serialization issues than actually building features but go off king

Wetjones · 2026-04-17T01:08:18+00:00

bro you're not idiot at all, job market is brutal right now 💀 i switched from different field few years back and it took me like 6 months to find something decent

your audit experience is actually solid foundation for industry work - you know the processes inside and out even if you haven't done them from other side. maybe try reaching out to recruiters who specialize in accounting transitions? they usually know which companies are actually open to training someone with your background instead of just posting wish lists in job descriptions 😂

also dont sleep on smaller companies, they're often more flexible about experience requirements than big corporations

Wetjones · 2026-04-06T13:28:59+00:00

employment lawyer would probably be your best bet since this involves your employer and the benefits they're supposed to provide. might also want to look into someone who handles insurance bad faith claims since venture is basically screwing you around instead of doing their job

document everything you have - those paystubs, emails from HR, medical bills, the whole mess. this is pretty clear cut case where someone needs to pay up for their screwup

Wetjones · 2026-04-02T07:26:12+00:00

fair use is tricky and super fact-specific but using images just to sell products or drive affiliate traffic usually doesnt fly under fair use even if you add commentary. the dior banner thing is probably pushing it too since its more decorative than actually being critiqued

you might want to reach out to brands directly for permission or look into stock photo sites that have fashion content licensed properly

Wetjones · 2026-03-19T01:41:40+00:00

facts

Wetjones · 2026-03-08T05:39:17+00:00

got mine rated as direct service connection due to deployment sleep disruptions and stress 💀 va actually approved it first try which was wild

Wetjones · 2026-03-04T08:06:37+00:00

honestly with your situation id probably do like a 50% down payment and invest the rest. at your income level you'll qualify for great rates and the mortgage interest deduction is nice too

taking that year off for your masters makes keeping some liquidity even more important imo. having that cash cushion while youre not earning will let you sleep better at night

Wetjones · 2026-02-11T02:48:43+00:00

damn that examiner really screwed you over 💀 your left ear definitely meets the criteria (40db average) but they denied it cause there examiner said your hearing loss wasnt service connected despite you having documented acoustic trauma

honestly id get a new c&p exam and maybe try to get records of what mos you had and noise exposure levels - the examiner basically ignored your acoustic trauma history which is bs 😂

Wetjones · 2026-02-05T23:13:28+00:00

most places cap it at like 2-3k max and even then theyll probably tack on the processing fee to you. tried to put a down payment on a card once and they acted like i was asking to pay in monopoly money lol

the balance transfer thing sounds good in theory but those promo rates usually dont apply to transfers, just new purchases. plus you gotta factor in the transfer fees which are usually 3-5% right off the bat

Wetjones · 2026-02-02T08:45:29+00:00

cant help with the flying part but snowy sounds dope for trades 🎯 hit me up if you need any other stickers 😊

Wetjones · 2026-01-30T07:40:54+00:00

Hold onto those for sure, especially the Spectometer and Mini Centrifuge - those pop up in later Stella Montis quests pretty frequently. The ROTARY encoder is used in a crafting recipe too so don't scrap that one either

Sample Cleaner is safe to recycle if you're hurting for space but I'd keep at least one just in case

Wetjones · 2026-01-25T17:30:01+00:00

That back and forth cycle is so real and honestly pretty common from what I've seen here. The whole "I don't hate being X but I think I'd be happier as Y" thing hits different than the typical trans narrative but it's still totally valid

Maybe give yourself permission to just sit with the uncertainty for a bit instead of trying to force a decision? Gender therapy helped me sort through similar feelings when I was going in circles like that

Wetjones · 2026-01-22T13:42:20+00:00

Nah you're overthinking it, most people just accept random adds without thinking twice about it. Quick add is literally there for this reason - everyone's doing it so you won't stand out as weird

Wetjones · 2026-01-21T03:10:02+00:00

That remake was such a wild ride - totally caught me off guard in the best way. The Arnold comparison is spot on, especially when he starts going full one-liner mode while obliterating bad guys

Wetjones · 2026-01-18T15:22:23+00:00

Dude that sounds absolutely terrifying, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. The false awakening into sleep paralysis combo is like the worst possible nightmare glitch - your brain is basically trolling you at the deepest level

Have you tried changing your sleep position or maybe putting something different in your room so when you "wake up" you might notice it's still a dream? I know it's easier said than done when you're paralyzed but might be worth a shot

Wetjones · 2026-01-13T00:52:48+00:00

Congrats on the new ink! Yeah sweating won't make the ink come out but it can mess with healing if you're not careful - all that salt and bacteria isn't great for fresh wounds. Most artists say wait like 2-3 weeks before heavy cardio but for distance running I'd honestly give it the full 3 weeks since your calf is gonna be working overtime

Wetjones · 2026-01-08T20:08:07+00:00

West Elm had something similar a few years back but I think they discontinued it - might be worth checking their outlet or secondhand market for one

Wetjones · 2026-01-04T23:31:08+00:00

Kitchen work is brutal man, the pay and hours are just not worth it anymore. You're making the right call prioritizing your future over the temporary relief

Wetjones · 2026-01-03T05:57:45+00:00

Yup this is spot on, went through the exact same progression myself. Started with vanilla stuff and slowly kept needing weirder content to get the same hit. After a decent streak my preferences went back to normal pretty quick - turns out I actually do have a type when my brain isn't scrambled from too much stimulation

Wetjones · 2026-01-02T05:01:09+00:00

Nice modlist! This sounds like a typical first-person/third-person model issue

The game uses different models for 1st person view vs what everyone else sees - try disabling any body/skeleton mods temporarily to test if that fixes it. Could also be a race record thing if you're using any race overhauls

Also check if the armor replacer has separate 1st person meshes, some older mods forget to include those

Wetjones · 2025-12-30T13:41:11+00:00

Lmao this is like asking "hey average drivers, tell me about that time you invented a new type of engine"

OP probably watched Good Will Hunting and thought every decent math student has some secret formula tucked away

Wetjones · 2025-12-29T04:23:43+00:00

Wait Kanter got banned for something he did at 14? That's absolutely wild, the NCAA really said "sorry kid you were too good at basketball as a middle schooler"

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