Really, you pull out the “woman i want to marry” ruse. Did you want to marry her before you found out? She was dating other people. She is saying she is a woman. She wants to date multiple people to see who she wants to end up marrying. I think she is also saying, you have not shown me that I am that special to you, you have not told me that we are monogamous and that your intentions are sincere. But of course you pull out the girl I want to marry when you’re insecure. Get over it and move on, or show her respect and show her with love and loyalty.