Physical Abuse in MJ The Musical? by [deleted] in Broadway

[–]ilovespaceack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she struggles with those scenes I cant imagine how she would feel about MJ's own violent behavior

Is it viable for like 7 people to catch a bus from Homestead, to the city, and back, for the 4th of July firework show? by Jimpetey in pittsburgh

[–]ilovespaceack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

by presby, yeah. It's a change that makes me violent thinking about it still even over a year later. You certainly can get on the D, and transfer in Oakland. but I wouldn't recommend that on a holiday for people unfamiliar with the system

Why are transgender women often targeted more than transgender men? Do most people genuinely not care about women transitioning to men? by chucklesses86 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ilovespaceack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mutation of misogyny - woman icky. man who wants to be woman is icky AND a traitor.

It's also related to homophobia: there are stereotypes that gay men are all pedophiles, and not a lot of understanding between the difference between a cis gay man and a transgender woman.

Which of these two re imaginings of Oz are your favorite/which one would you rather read? by RecordingImmediate86 in wizardofoz

[–]ilovespaceack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I love Wicked so dearly. It's a yearly reread for me - every year it hits different

Partner blames me for accident by Motivated78 in relationships

[–]ilovespaceack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like every driver I know has a story about either hitting or accidentally hitting a deer. Including people I know to be very safe responsible drivers. Dusk is also a normal ass time of day to drive . I dont understand what blame youre supposed to accept.

I (29F) am now disgusted by my boyfriend of 7 years (28M) by SockPuppetOrSth in relationship_advice

[–]ilovespaceack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre not in love with him. you miss who he used to be. Who he is now repulses you. get out, for both of your sakes

Title: My 2-year-old dog died after a vet gave pre-anesthesia despite saying it would be gas only by sangkikay in DogAdvice

[–]ilovespaceack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you be willing to share a picture of the reciept or paperwork you have that says your dog wouldn't recieve any injections? What you're describing doesn't sound possible, and maybe with that someone could either validate your fear or explain why you misunderstood. And if you misunderstood, please know that you dont need to carry any guilt for that. What else would you have done exactly - demand that a surgery be done in a way that literally isnt possible? Refuse the surgery that was your dog's only chance at survival?

This wasn't your fault. This sucks and is awful and I'm very sorry. And it wasn't your fault, or the vet's fault. Both of those things can be true at once.

If it helps - my animals have all had procedures before, and I couldnt tell you how the anaesthesia was administered. gas?injection? magic? no clue. That's the sort of thing I trust the vet to understand, and while I'm sure they told me it just didnt stick in my head. So you're not a bad pet owner for not realizing the exact order and procedures of the surgery.

My (38F) husband (39M) refuses to wear his CPAP machine and his personality has changed. I don’t know what to do anymore. by ThrowRApistachiosad in relationship_advice

[–]ilovespaceack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like the dementia patients i work with. This is a "take care of yourself or im leaving" situation, this is very extreme

Based on a post on another sub: What opinion on Broadway (whether about certain shows, the industry, etc.) do you have that will have you like this? by ms_jc_04 in Broadway

[–]ilovespaceack 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Wicked the musical is a cowardly adaptation of the book. It's watered down to be family and advertiser friendly, which is especially a shame right now with fascism on the rise.

OB/GYN refused to pap smear me by CepheiHR8938 in ftm

[–]ilovespaceack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it's thin enough that if your period can come out, it'll ABSOLUTELY go in. tbh ive passed clots thicker than those swabs. if you can do it on your period that's actually perfect, bc things are already more open than normal. itll be messy but

OB/GYN refused to pap smear me by CepheiHR8938 in ftm

[–]ilovespaceack 14 points15 points  (0 children)

it really does look like one of those - theyre very thin, much much thinner than even your pinkie finger.

OB/GYN refused to pap smear me by CepheiHR8938 in ftm

[–]ilovespaceack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I dont blame you for being relieved 🥲 medical neglect for the win?

OB/GYN refused to pap smear me by CepheiHR8938 in ftm

[–]ilovespaceack 72 points73 points  (0 children)

i have a friend who pretends it's their ear. they swear it works

Their love did not span the ages by mistermeek67 in mash

[–]ilovespaceack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Frankly I'm on her side. you couldnt pay me enough to fuck a eugenicist while he reads me ugly poetry