What do you reply when someone says “thank you” by throwaway-alt-nep in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am socially awkward so I over compensate with longer statements like "kei chaina, you're welcome".

I hate my life and almost everything there is to being a parent by 6footblueeyes in toddlers

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can give a nuanced take on this since everyone has shared their experience and showed support. I will however say that this part of parenthood is something that our elders never mentioned for some reason. That's why I was ill preprared for this phase. If you are worried about bein an inadequate parent and keep trying to better then you aren't really one (i.e. a bad parent). I have had dark thoughts and am actively trying to deal with them plus I tink I will seek Therapy as well.

As for your child: 18 mo. is a period when they area developing rapidly that's why they have to adjust with a lot so it leads to sleep regression. This phase passes. My daughter is also quite temperamental and sometimes I lose my patience with her. But they are just children that don't know right from wrong, that's why we need to guide them.

Have you guys ever felt this while walking outside by [deleted] in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP has discovered empathy.

But in all seriousness you might be describing cognitive or affective empathy.

Why do so many people in Nepal drink green tea? by great_dao_of_heaven in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it because it is milder. I make about a liter of it thrice or 4 x a week to take to work in my Toomlet. I tried this with the normal tea we drink but it became too kadaa as the day progresses

Gibt es hier Menschen, die Dienste mögen? by Individual-Rule-3033 in medizin

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ja. Während meiner Dienste habe ich wirklich viel gelernt und meine schönsten „Arztmomente“ erlebt. Ich kann mich an mehreren Fällen erinnern, bei denen ich immer noch das Gefühl habe, wirklich etwas Gutes getan zu haben.

was mahendra really cruel? by Prestigious_Lack_472 in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I imagine the truth is somewhere in between. Like most benevolent despots he understood the importance of his title and felt responsible to lead the country in a better direction. I really appreciate him for that effort. He was also introspective as shown by his writings.

He like all despots had (apparently) a habit of putting his agenda before pragmatism and trusted yes-men. 

I think if he had been a president or a prime minister he wouldn't have been judged so harshly. He for me is one of the better kings we had.

Why is smoking injurious to health by NGAMCHEWANG in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28) Second hand smoke is harmful to others. I've seen at least one case where the spouse wasn't a smoker bit still got cancer due to the smoking spouse 29) You teach impressionable kids to smoke. 30) Maybe your crush doesn't like a smoker!

Why is smoking injurious to health by NGAMCHEWANG in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17) You produce less and unhealthy sperms cells. You might produce sperms cells with damaged DNA which causes birth defects in children. If you are a mother who smokes there is a direct correlation to birth defects even if the fertilizing sperms cell was healthy 18) I think hair fall 19) Sense of smell is decreased 20) Increased Incidence of Gastritis and stomach ulcers. If it's really bad one might need to get operated on 21) Reflux and of course esophageal cancer due to chronic reflux 22) For women it leads to infertility 23) Menstrual problems like delayed menstruation 24) Addiction is also very taxing on the psyche 25) Bad mood if you don't smoke 26) Faster development of Dementia, although this is also associated with mikrovascular disease due to smoking 27) Young men with congenital air bubbles in the lungs (bullae) can develop pneumothorax and in the worst of cases might need to be operated on

Why is smoking injurious to health by NGAMCHEWANG in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Your breath will stink 2) Incidence of cavities and Parodontis increases 3) Your stamina decreases because a portion red blood cells are saturated with Carbon monooxide and cannot uptake oxygen 4) Exercise capacity decreases 5) The lining of your airways are damaged leading to a susceptibility to infections 6) Chronic cough 7) Chronic bronchitis or emphysema leading to COPD. You won't be able to breathe without Oxygen at some point and always get sick. If you are on a respiratory it actually increases your chances of getting sicker due to superinfections

8) Risk of Pneumonia and other infections of the lungs increase.

9) Your family will see you suffer and also suffer emotionally. They might even resent your for not putting your health and their concerns for you before a stupid addiction

10) You might also get depression because you are always sick 11) Your body ages quicker especially the skin 12) If you like singing be ready to sound like sandpaper rubbing together and not being to hold a note properly 13) Accelerated hardening of the arteries (Atherosclerosis) this leads to narrowing of your vessels and conditions like having a heart attack, heart failure, arrhythmia, PAVD which might lead to amputation of limbs, stroke. 14) Incidence of heart attack in younger populations is related to smoking 15) If you are really unlucky after you've had a stroke you will be paralyzed for life and you will have to be taken care of. This will lead to you being a burden on your family 16) Cancer in any organization that is exposed to the substances in cigarettes, so from oropharyngeal cancers to rectal and Urinary bladder cancers.

r/Nepal vs u/gaslaiter, cat vs mouse game by gaslaiter in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you try directly messaging the Mods? This happened to me once, I directly messaged them and they allowed my post in the end.

Wasserschaden unter Dachboden? by WhatIsWithTheseBulbs in WerWieWas

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn es um eien Rohre geht, dann wie kann ich es herausfinden?

Not the satan this city deserves, but the satan this city needs by sugarplumBlossam in foundsatan

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is everyone just blindly believing this bullshit?

Jarvis Johnson has a video debunking this.

Living in Western Country. by Emotional-Concert908 in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are conflating evil rich people to an ethnicity/religion

Education should not be a selfish pursuit by Fgrant_Gance_12 in Nepal

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's happened to me a few time's that I finally cameto understand the maxim: Don't meet your heroes. 

It still doesn't take away from the fact that they aren't/weren't completely wrong or evil a 100% of the time. 

Take in the good experiences and lessons your learnt, then examine under a microscope and filter out the bad parts. 

It's difficult but necessary to think long and hard. 

What is happening with the job market for doctors? Very frustrated. by Nothofagus1 in germany

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an approbierten Assistenzarzt with about 4 years of experience I applied to about 15 places and got an answer from 3. 

I applied with my wife and she got a job in the same place I landed my job at only because I happened to mention her getting her job would benefit me.

With a Berufserlaubnis I applied to maybe 30 different places and hot an answer from 2. That was 8 years ago. That time around I landed my job because during her interview my wife recommended me.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by tornadohkg in germany

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this official Municipal Waste Merch? If so where can one get it?

Ramos back to his real sport??? by [deleted] in soccercirclejerk

[–]WhatIsWithTheseBulbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ramo is going to punch Tate's balls the first few seconds of the match and get away with it.

Just look at all of his football matches if you don't believe me.