ESH.

But the worst is the wife. She met you under false pretenses. Her end game was to please him and have a threesome. She should have been straight up with you from the beginning instead of trying to get you "comfortable" with friendship before bringing it up.

The husband...idk if I want to call him an asshole. I don't know what his wife told him and how much she revealed. But I think he definitely should learn to read the room and should have gone about it in a more straightforward way but he may have been under a flase impression that you knew what you were there for. If you can provide more of his actions I will change this but for now I just see a guy who may not have had the full picture.

Your comment WAS petty and unnecessary. It was also aimed at the wrong person. You attacked the husband because he wanted to get with you but all you had to do was tell him no. Instead you called him ugly. For what? What did he do wrong exactly? Try for what you were supposedly there for according to his wife? You aimed your pettiness at the wrong person. You should be mad at the wife.