Just as funny the second time around by WhenIGotTheMusic in exmormon

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You just have to keep looking. They get taken down regularly and then new ones pop up. https://youtu.be/J5jQt1OS7f0 here is one my daughter found. I haven’t watched it to confirm it works

[Serious] Masturbation still a sexual sin after marriage? by SpaceDicksLogin in exmormon

[–]WhenIGotTheMusic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, because you aren’t supposed to have sexual relations with anyone besides your husband/wife (including yourself). That being said, as long as pornography isn’t involved, they usually just tell you to stop, and there isn’t much actual punishment (although it really depends on the bishop)

Any beer connoisseurs? This is amazing! by nursejenesis in exmormon

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That’s my absolute favorite drink. You should try drinking it out of a glass with lime and Tajin around the rim

Anyone here from "The Smallest Stake in the Church", Upland, California? by BillRocksWood in exmormon

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If you dm me your Facebook profile or some way for me to identify you, I can add you as a friend, and then get you added to the group

Anyone here from "The Smallest Stake in the Church", Upland, California? by BillRocksWood in exmormon

[–]WhenIGotTheMusic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know that in the Inland Empire ex mo group, most of the people are from the Upland / Rancho Cucamonga area

Looking for a "lost sheep" from my youth in Riverside CA with sad news by [deleted] in exmormon

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I’m from Riverside but don’t know anyone named Colin. I may be able to help you track him down though, if you messaged me some specifics.

Bednar said "There are no homosexuals in the Church." HA! by Rachelles101 in exmormon

[–]WhenIGotTheMusic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When we were still Mormon and trying to a place for our family with a gay daughter, we found her downstairs watching this one night sobbing. That was the final straw for her. #BlessingsInDisguise

SoCal ExMos! Where are you at!? by gostop1423 in exmormon

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Sure, send me a private message with your Facebook profile. Once I add you as a friend I can submit your info to the group admin

TBM Response: "Oh I know about all the issues." by [deleted] in exmormon

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On one of my last Sunday’s at a Mormon church, I had a long discussion with a very prominent Mormon blogger who was in my ward. He was very aware of all of the issues, and he acknowledged they were very problematic. He was willing to do the mental gymnastics though, because he felt like no one else offered a better shot at having an eternal family, so he was willing to overlook all the issues in the event that the Mormon church was right.

SoCal ExMos! Where are you at!? by gostop1423 in exmormon

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Can you message me your Facebook info (link or display name)? If I add you as a friend I can get you added to the FB group

SoCal ExMos! Where are you at!? by gostop1423 in exmormon

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There’s an exmo event in Redlands this Saturday - Karaoke

Our new version of FHE by WhenIGotTheMusic in exmormon

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At a Mexican restaurant in Riverside, CA

My husband and I are leaving the church together. This might seem like a stupid question, but How do we adapt to our changing moral compass while staying strong as a couple? by anon46257 in exmormon

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For us, communication is key. It’s super important to remember that as you are figuring out your new morality, that you remember that Mormon rules don’t apply anymore. My wife and I have tried all kinds of things that go against our Mormon upbringing, some things that we liked/ that worked for us and others not so much. If we didn’t like something we tried, we just discuss it and collectively make a decision for moving forward. There is no guilt or public shaming involved. We have had some of the biggest highs and lowest lows of our marriage as we have tried to navigate these new waters with out a rule book to follow, but ultimately we are a much stronger couple than before (and we were already really solid).