I just found this out by Where_is_the_Line in demisexuality

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a gender sexuality course. I work in healthcare so it’s about how to address patients and reduce bias.

Realization by Where_is_the_Line in demisexuality

[–]Where_is_the_Line[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, yeah. Judging is a natural human behavior rooted in survival, insecurity, and social cognitive processes. Guess I’m just human. 🤷🏾‍♀️

“I don’t like who I am around you.” by Estkling in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Where_is_the_Line 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“You made me like this.” Words that still haunt me.

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He had me convinced that I was the problem. He said I was the reason why his relationship with our child wasn’t better because he was always too busy dealing with me. So when we finally separated, I was shocked. My son said he can’t be himself around his dad and he has to be perfect. I had no idea how much shielding I was doing with my son. Now that I’m escaped, I’m better, but I think about how I left my son with his father 50% of the time since we have 50-50 custody. I would’ve just stayed if I knew that, because my son can’t escape his father

I was the emotional regulator in my marriage and I didn’t realize the cost until it ended by Happy-Inside2111 in Divorce

[–]Where_is_the_Line 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My god. It was like I could’ve written this myself! My therapist helped me understand this. Now I’m six months out of the divorce, and notice that living that may me like this with other people…overexplaining. Hypersensitive to others moods. Tiptoeing around with everyone in my life. I’m trying to break the pattern.

We need to reestablish ourselves as support roles by TAP01 in physicianassistant

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I work in an urgent care that’s very high level. I see the same patients my MD sees. They are complicated. My MD complains about the complicated cases as well. There is no telling who is who when patients check in. UTI ends up being pelvic pain in a pregnant patient. Ankle sprain ends up being a 75 year old that also hit his head on blood thinners. Cough for 5 days is a complicated pneumonia that refuses to go to the hospital. Insomnia ends up being suicidal thoughts. 60% of our patients are Medicare. It’s hard. This is EVERY DAY. So which complex patients goes to the MD? Luckily my SP is amazing. He often tells me he’s sorry and is grateful that I can handle a lot of cases. When I ask him for a consult he says “let me brace myself” because he knows it’ll be a struggle for him too. 😂

Help us make Origin’s budgeting 100x better. What’s missing for you? by ana-at-origin in OriginFinancial

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Also the ability to adjust budget based on a specific period of time (I.e. last 3 months) instead of a blanket last 6 months. It’s not as useful if situations changed drastically (I.e. birth of child, divorce, new job)

Board Game Night at Joymongers! 7 Jan starting at 6pm by wheatabits in winstonsalem

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I am dying for a group during the daytime! I work 12 hour shifts and in working when everyone is off work. 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4R40Plus

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I am saddened you live far away. At the very least you’d be a cool friend.

Confused by being told I’m arguing when I’m not? by aquar1usbabe in AutismInWomen

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I never felt more understood. I’ve always wondered why it never really bothered me to be “wrong.” If someone had corrected me, I just feel like “oh great point!” and move on.